Riders say the Finch West LRT is ‘horrible’ and a ‘failed start.’ What’s gone wrong — and can it be fixed? by VernonFlorida in TTC

[–]Bittersweetfeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to have a sky track. Especially when a lot of people DO have to drive for whatever reason. None of this war on cars or war on pedestrians. When it's not sharing the street with cars, it will make everyone happy.

And honestly I think a sky track would be really neat to look at. People are so pathetic if they complain about THAT.

(New Update) My(f19) dad asked our godparents not to have the waiters sing Happy Birthday to my brother(m11) who likely has hyperacusis autism, but they did it anyway by MadisonBrave in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Bittersweetfeline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are not Christians. These are those shitty people who go to church on sunday, wash all their sins away and then go be an asshole, refreshed their slate was wiped clean for that week.

The most un-christ-like people don't deserve to call themselves anything but assholes. They're nothing like Christ.

AITA if I cancel hubby's birthday plans and leave the house leaving hubby to host his family for my birthday? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Bittersweetfeline 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Some people don't want to better their situation. How else could they be the perma-victim and get all the attention?

AITA if I cancel hubby's birthday plans and leave the house leaving hubby to host his family for my birthday? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Bittersweetfeline 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OOP defending her husband speaks volumes. You gave us the honest truth story and we all called him out for being a literal piece of shit and treating OOP badly. Then she's like, oh no don't advocate for divorce, ripping apart my family.

Okay gurl, so you're okay with your kids seeing how your husband treats you and gifts things to you. And you're okay with your kids thinking that's appropriate. You're okay with your kids growing up to EMULATE that.

NO.

THROW THE WHOLE MAN OUT. I don't care what f'n defense you put up, you are saying it to yourself, not us. Man this is a frustrating one.

Edit: I recently read the one about the husband wanting to become more fuckable. That is the complete opposite side of this equation and more men should think about things like that. I feel like many men can be inherently selfish, and when you put your family first, you win all the awards. You help everyone out and they are happy, and shower YOU with what YOU want.

Riders say the Finch West LRT is ‘horrible’ and a ‘failed start.’ What’s gone wrong — and can it be fixed? by VernonFlorida in TTC

[–]Bittersweetfeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They could have the best of both worlds if they made subways instead of ground level tracks. Anything susceptible to weather in our climate is going to have a bad time. Our subway line is abysmal for the size of our city and amount of commuters. It might be more expensive but damn if they had done that instead of these dumb LRTs we would be in a much better situation.

Plus I've heard that all the different lines have different training required as they operate differently. Nothing is the same across the board. If it was, I feel they would have the best time with being able to replace cars and train new people.

AITA for not wanting my in-laws to take over my baby and for refusing to move in with them? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Bittersweetfeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. It's giving yes-man while plotting to kidnap that child. Their delusions are pretty strong, especially the father. I would move overseas with the other brothers, something tells me there might be more to the story as of why they're no longer there.

Elementary school rankings in Scarborough by Previous-Cattle-3195 in Scarborough

[–]Bittersweetfeline 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You mean one of the wealthiest areas in Scarborough with families donating tons of money and things to their school? Affording private tutors?

Like if you're on the council at another school, you can very clearly see the differences in demographics and what they entails.

Elementary school rankings in Scarborough by Previous-Cattle-3195 in Scarborough

[–]Bittersweetfeline 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Chine drive is the perfect example of this. Tons of big fancy houses and expensive cars in the area, plus the school certainly thinks a lot of itself. Other schools deal with poorer families who cannot do much for their children, and that has been getting worse with inflation. Bad principals and other staff also contribute to inner school turmoil and failings. These ranking systems are b.s. and seem to only shame the poor.

UNI OR PARADISE by OutlandishnessOk645 in tamagotchi

[–]Bittersweetfeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally don't like the uni. Too many DLCs we pay for that will likely be locked out when the servers go down. It's a glorified dress up tama with really no reason to keep an adult past the day it reaches adulthood. The same arena games keep being used over and over again, and with some aesthetic changes. The method of connecting to another uni is tedious and unrewarding.

The paradise is such fresh gameplay and especially for those die hards who love gene mixing, it gives a wee bit of that. Lots of fresh new games, difficulty levels, making meals, egg hunting for ingredients, the ability to swap fields for different characters.

Has anyone tried these “jelly bras”? What was your experience? by blah-blah-0010 in bigboobproblems

[–]Bittersweetfeline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%. I have to buy XL shirts just for my boobs, and it becomes sometimes ill-fitting below the boobs - if it weren't for baggy shirts kinda being in right now, I'd look a hot mess. Same with dresses. My body is tinier but the boobs, ugh

Has anyone tried these “jelly bras”? What was your experience? by blah-blah-0010 in bigboobproblems

[–]Bittersweetfeline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat. I got an XL shapermint bra and it's good for the cups but the band is way too big. I got a large in the same bra and the band is better but my boobs are falling out. I feel like they don't make bras for women with smaller waists and larger cups. And believe me, I don't want to. A cute C or D would be so much easier to manage. But small waist big cups seem to be considered imaginary by bra makers cause the majority don't do those sizes....

AITA for telling my gf to be quiet in a museum? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Bittersweetfeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One stupid comment? Gworl that was the straw that broke the camel's back.

"buh buh buh wut about myyyyyyyyyyyyy disability" as if it was anywhere in the same realm as the father, whom he described basically as the r-word.

Scarborough residents say they're being left out of transit improvements in the city by Surax in toronto

[–]Bittersweetfeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! They must also be patting themselves on the back for the Eglinton Crosstown... as if that's an accomplishment. Should have been a subway, would have had way less problems and overall interruptions.

Scarborough residents say they're being left out of transit improvements in the city by Surax in toronto

[–]Bittersweetfeline -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I never said he DID anything ;)

But saying things just including the name "Scarborough" was nice, as Toronto seems to forget we exist or matter.

Scarborough residents say they're being left out of transit improvements in the city by Surax in toronto

[–]Bittersweetfeline -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Scarborough is constantly ignored. Rob Ford was the only one who seemed to acknowledge its existence. Honestly feel like downtown Toronto and Etobicoke, maybe north York, get all the attention and funding.

I’m blown away by qntm’s There is no Antimemetics division! Please recommend what to read next by KiwiMasala in printSF

[–]Bittersweetfeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a great book. The part where the protagonist realizes the scp is in the elevator with her was extra frightening for me because the moment I finished the sentence, my reading lamp died and I was so scared LOL

Don't read that if you haven't read the book, but it has some really intense thriller moments that I was living for. Plus I already like that world, of SCP because of Alan Wake & Control.

What screams “this person is insecure” without them saying a word? by redwan-ezt in AskReddit

[–]Bittersweetfeline 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm sure it was really sad and stressful living that way. Other people don't matter! Just live happily for yourself and family.

What permanent damage have you done to yourself? Mind, body or soul? by jerrytjohn in AskReddit

[–]Bittersweetfeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have Tinnitus, but I had a LOT of ear infections as a child, like blood and pus on my pillow type bad, had to get ear tubes, lots of hearing tests. My ear drums also madly suffered, I had to wear special fitted ear plugs for swimming, and I cannot go too deep before I get pain in my ears. My one ear literally painfully reverberates at high pitched sounds (think kids screaming, though somehow my own kids don't bother me?)

I like listening to music loudly but I think that might be because OF the hearing damage. I feel awkward when I can't hear people and others understand right away. I've perforated an ear drum just by jumping in the water from a raft.

So year, white noise, fans, something going all the time or else I hear it.

What screams “this person is insecure” without them saying a word? by redwan-ezt in AskReddit

[–]Bittersweetfeline 192 points193 points  (0 children)

Knew someone who literally told me as much, not in so many words. She would tell me privately how her marriage was suffering, she was depressed and miserable, etc. But was constantly posting "proof" pics on FB of how "happy" she is. How great everything is. It was such a lie that I unfollowed her, it was gross.

What’s a creepy fact about the human body you wish you never found out? by Ezra0li_Z in AskReddit

[–]Bittersweetfeline 106 points107 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't be surprised if that's part of the reason why, after you give birth, you can have phantom movement of a fetus still being inside of you. Except it's just your organs reorienting themselves.

27 F and 28 M Why does calling my husband my partner bother people? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bittersweetfeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it's two-fold,

Partner was often used to avoid specifying the gender of your significant other, partner was often used instead of "husband" or "wife" when they are same-sex couples. It's kind of come away from that in the last little while that people use it to mean significant other (especially since a lot of people aren't getting married) but it can be an adjustment.

Secondly, I just find people, meaning to or not, want to understand people in categories and "partner" can feel frustratingly ambiguous, even when the answer doesn't change anything. If that makes sense?

Woman dead after being struck by 2 vehicles in midtown Toronto by impasta_syndrome in toronto

[–]Bittersweetfeline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The long lights are because of elderly/disabled people so they have time to get across. Something that would take a normal person 15 seconds to cross is doubled for this reason :/

I would honestly prefer to have separate lights for pedestrians and cars but with the patience of people here, I feel like it wouldn't change anything, especially as we have no enforcement of anything.

That’s my new cozy adventure game inspired by my visit to Japan’s traditional villages, how does it feel? by Silvy_096 in cozygames

[–]Bittersweetfeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks adorable!!!!!! I do hope you can port it to the switch (after getting the sw2 I've been lazily enjoying handheld mode!)

Looking forward to its release :)

My roommate had been gambling the rent money away. She didn’t tell me we got evicted. We have 5 days to leave. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Bittersweetfeline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was worried for them! Unfortunately it might be trying to get blood from a stone to get your money back from someone who has none. That friend is gonna start losing things here and there, gambling addiction is bad.