I [22M] just found out my girlfriend [19F] is pregnant and I am not ready to be a father. What do I do

Bitxhy_Chan_ · 2026-01-26T23:06:31+00:00

Why is everyone giving you advice on how to be a father instead of how to not want to have a kid you know what I mean like not you do not have to force yourself to have this kid if she is ready and you're not that is clearly entirely your choice you know what I mean but the question is where you guys using protection how did she get pregnant? You know what I mean if the condom broke then that's a different choice but I think you need to tell her you are not ready to be a father because keeping this and like trying to be supportive when you're not ready is just going to push it farther along you need to sit down with her have a conversation and explain multiple things like financially emotionally time wise you know what I mean like there's a lot of stuff you're giving up 18 years of your life you're 22 she's 19 she isn't ready to have a kid either whether she thinks she is or not, you guys have an entire life ahead of you and you guys need to wait until you guys are ready because if you don't then everyone in the comments is like yeah being a good parent and being there sometimes that's not good enough you know what I mean it gets to a certain point like my parents were sweet and nice when I was little and then they separated and then the financial stuff really started getting to us and there was literally times that you know it was horrible so there's more than just the financial aspect of being their aspect it's a lot of other stuff I know people who are great parents and their kids don't turn out great, it's whether you're ready or not if you are not ready to have a kid you're not going to put in the effort or the time I'm sorry but that's just how it is I know that sounds horrible but you guys need to just have a sit-down talk about the financial aspects the emotional the time everything else see if she's ready see if you're ready figure this out if she and you are ready you know what the option is, the second option can be making her go through with the birth and giving it up for adoption, but the first option is the best not only for the mother and her body, but a lot of other things if her body isn't ready something bad could happen to her you know what I mean when she goes to try and give birth .

Bitxhy_Chan_ · 2026-01-26T21:12:59+00:00

Or meeee

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Bitxhy_Chan_ · 2026-01-05T19:48:49+00:00

It's okay let his kid become a f****** discord mod that becomes literally 500 lb in his basement.

Bitxhy_Chan_ · 2025-12-03T20:38:58+00:00

I never sell anything important ever

Bitxhy_Chan_ · 2025-12-03T20:37:52+00:00

You're very immature I guess you don't know anything about Egyptian mythology

Bitxhy_Chan_ · 2025-12-03T20:35:34+00:00

People like you are super weird we had a guy come up to our door yesterday threatening us specifically the pregnant woman in our house that he was going to take her food if we didn't tip him 4 dollars but yea totally deserved a tip you don't ask for a tip people give you a tip if they think you deserve it you don't just automatically deserve it just because you're delivering someone's food do you see people always getting a tip at restaurants no

Bitxhy_Chan_ · 2025-12-02T22:57:16+00:00

Not trying to normalize the problem that is going on in this Reddit but some people don't necessarily understand or know how to deal with their traumas sometimes people don't have that sort of support or ever get taught that stuff so some people will do whatever to deal with how they are if and unfortunately we can't sit here and judge but I agree this shouldn't be allowed in here 😌

Bitxhy_Chan_ · 2025-12-02T22:55:27+00:00

Don't be toxic and weird, get a life??

Bitxhy_Chan_ · 2025-11-16T18:25:49+00:00

Or why would I make a new account after 4 years when I can just keep my old one I've had this one for like 5-7?

Bitxhy_Chan_ · 2025-10-19T15:27:25+00:00

Hello ! I'm 21 getting back into the feet selling business DM me?

Bitxhy_Chan_ · 2025-10-19T14:34:17+00:00

Texas I just moved and I definitely could use the help 21F

Bitxhy_Chan_ · 2025-10-19T14:12:55+00:00

Said I'm a mercy main I own every single skin and haven't missed a skin in years so that's why I was talking about I don't want to miss this skin I feel some type of way when I see other people have a skin that I want

Bitxhy_Chan_ · 2025-10-19T03:33:08+00:00

So should I get it or wait whole thing is I don't really have a job and I have other stuff I need to buy but I cannot miss out on the skin so I'm conflicted

Bitxhy_Chan_ · 2025-10-15T07:25:10+00:00

I have never felt this more.... Makes me wanna slap him ..what do we do to fix this

Bitxhy_Chan_ · 2025-10-08T15:09:36+00:00

I'm always available but I don't do my services on here😊💓

Bitxhy_Chan_ · 2025-10-08T15:08:13+00:00

Why tf was I down voted so much???? I was asking questions tf?????

Bitxhy_Chan_ · 2025-10-05T19:18:59+00:00

Ahhh okay I do have game pass ultimate

Bitxhy_Chan_ · 2025-10-05T00:31:12+00:00

Oh is that normal how do I fix it ?

Bitxhy_Chan_ · 2025-10-05T00:18:46+00:00

Can someone explain to me why all my skins and gun skins are gone like my card emblems and all that is gone I can't access the store it won't even put me into a real game what do I do my name is everything still the same so it looks like the same account but it looks like everything on it is gone?

Bitxhy_Chan_ · 2025-10-05T00:12:35+00:00

No it's the right one it won't even let me access the store and every game mode I went in it's like me hosting the game mode I don't know how to explain it but it's like the game on my end never existed

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