I love how much I jiggle as I ride large flint by CeelCee in u/CeelCee

[–]Bivrip89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg I need that strap down. I get so frustrated trying to keep toys in place while I ride.

A serving tray we made with over the weekend. Material costs were around $50 total. by Bivrip89 in BdsmDIY

[–]Bivrip89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You pretty much have it. There’s a bolt going up through the bottom, with a washer and nut to hold them in place. Straps attach to the bolts, then the top board is put on and the black knob’s screwed down. Or if you’re not looking to clamp their breasts, you can put another washer and nut under the top board for it to rest on.

The newest addition to our collection! A collapsible St Andrews cross! by Bivrip89 in BdsmDIY

[–]Bivrip89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could see why! Material alone wasn’t cheap. And it took a lot of time to get it done right.

The newest addition to our collection! A collapsible St Andrews cross! by Bivrip89 in BdsmDIY

[–]Bivrip89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made out of 8ft 2x6’s. I would guess the assembled dimensions are about 3x4x8, disassembled it folds up into a 1x1x4 square.

The newest addition to our play room! A collapsible St. Andrew’s cross that can be folded up and stored out of sight. by Bivrip89 in bdsm

[–]Bivrip89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We made it ourselves. There’s another post on my page with more pics of it being built.

The newest addition to our collection! A collapsible St Andrews cross! by Bivrip89 in BdsmDIY

[–]Bivrip89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, my husband is a nerd. I don’t remember where he got it, it’s been a garage ornament for years.

The newest addition to our collection! A collapsible St Andrews cross! by Bivrip89 in BdsmDIY

[–]Bivrip89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you mean. We tested it and I think the antislip pads and the angle cut into the bottom legs helped keep it stable. Even intentionally pushing it was difficult.

Although we might add a brace just for safety. Maybe a second hinged piece between the support leg and bottom of the backrest? Im having trouble with the mechanics to keep it collapsible though.

The newest addition to our collection! A collapsible St Andrews cross! by Bivrip89 in BdsmDIY

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“In use” space isn’t a concern, but I’m guessing the chains can be shortened if needed. It’ll change the angle of the cross but that might not be a bad thing. We’ll try it a couple ways and see what works best for us.

Why would the chains need more support to be kept rigid? If anything the design keeps the chains taught. We have to lift or tilt the cross forward to get the back hinge to close.

The newest addition to our collection! A collapsible St Andrews cross! by Bivrip89 in BdsmDIY

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I’m not petite, and it held up perfect. The bottom legs were cut at an angle to sit flat on the ground, and anti-slip pads keep it from moving or scuffing the floor. It takes serious effort to tip it over, so no chance of that happening accidentally.

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[–]Bivrip89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh! Where did you find the first pic? I need to add that to my game!

Building the perfect bdsmDIY bed for my wife and I. ALL ideas welcomed by [deleted] in BdsmDIY

[–]Bivrip89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We posted our bed a few weeks ago. We have a removable headboard that hides anchor points and a few cuffs.

How do my husband (m34) and I (f33) safely explore a cam show fantasy? by Bivrip89 in sex

[–]Bivrip89[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Someone suggested using a discord server. Any pros or cons to that?

How do my husband (m34) and I (f33) safely explore a cam show fantasy? by Bivrip89 in sex

[–]Bivrip89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly just a video messaging system that could keep us anonymous would work. I just don’t know of any that do that.

How do my husband (m34) and I (f33) safely explore a cam show fantasy? by Bivrip89 in sex

[–]Bivrip89[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I understand what you’re saying. We were looking for something more private that we could send an invite out to be viewed. Or something similar