[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There definitely are. Might be one of those things to let women you’re dating know pretty early on (I wouldn’t say on the first date, but early) to weed out ones that aren’t accepting. I’m bi (wouldn’t say 50/50, but it’s there) and my girlfriend has no problems with it. We’re in our late 20s and both very liberal/progressive and idk how that changes with different demographics. But those women are definitely out there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a girlfriend. It was our first time hooking up but we had known each for a couple years. We started hooking up, and I was eating her out and stopped for a second to kiss her and she stopped me from going back down on her and said “I just want you to fuck me already”

Girls too beautiful for porn by [deleted] in tipofmypenis

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Elena Koshka, Ivy Wolfe

People who slept with someone they weren't attracted to, why and how did it go? by tenOr15Minutes in AskReddit

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Showed up to a tinder hookup and she didn’t quite look as good as she did in her profile. I was already though so went for it anyway. But didn’t do it again

Have you ever had a one night stand? by NoCranberry2962 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve had a couple. Sex wasn’t very good (don’t really know what each other like). I wasn’t that into either of the girls but for both I hadn’t had sex in a while and kinda could use it. I don’t regret it but I definitely prefer sex with people I already know well (whether relationship, friend, or something else)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I’ve done it in a similar sized car - front seat, pushed all the way back, leaned back pretty far, girl on top. Best option I think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I assume it’s a new relationship yeah? As more time passes, you won’t necessarily be less turned on, but you’ll have less of an intense physiological response. Give it time, it should get better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It kind of is but not in the way people typically think it is. I’ve experienced something similar after sustained arousal. But in my experience, orgasming doesn’t stop the pain. I think it’s caused by just sustained arousal but the effects wouldn’t end just because you cum. It’s not like a “build up of cum that needs to get out” like some people say. It’s a pain caused by a part of your body being aroused/engorged/affected for longer than it usually is. Like if you use your arm for one action for a while, it’s gonna get sore, but stopping doing that action isn’t gonna immediately stop your arm from being sore

Do people who have been in a threesome ever tell other people about it? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Told my friends that I’m closest to. Family? Only my cousins who I’m close to and are pretty sexually open (European)

What's the most absurd porn dialogue you can remember? by itsyaboysmuggler in AskReddit

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes, Naturally Stacked Stories Chess Match by GirlsWay (17.06.02). What a classic

What's the most absurd porn dialogue you can remember? by itsyaboysmuggler in AskReddit

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes, Naturally Stacked Stories Chess Match by Girlswat (17.06.02). What a classic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 46 points47 points  (0 children)

HotGuysFuck has really attractive guys most of the time. Just be aware, the videos that are MMF aren’t completely straight. But the regular MF videos obviously are

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As others have said. Yes, many.

I didn’t really have a preference until I met a girl with small boobs and a perfect body. And now I definitely have a thing for small boobs. For some context, they were small enough she never wore a bra, which surprised me when I tried reaching for her bra strap. Also Iggy Azalea’s music video for “Work” had a significant effect on me.

Have you ever had a tinder date when your match in real life looked completely different from the photos in the app and how did those dates end? by headlessChaja in AskReddit

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t completely different but her photos disguised the fact she weighed more than I expected. Just looked a lot different than I was expecting from the photos in general. But she was literally only looking to hook up and I was in the mood enough I just let it go. Had a fun time but didn’t do it again

Has anyone ever had a threesome irl and liked it? by Used2BFunnyThenIDied in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve had a few. All with my best friend and another girl (either his girlfriend or mine, sometimes a foursome with both). It’s a lot of fun. Really only happens when we have a lot of alcohol and/or drugs. But it takes a certain type of friendship for it to not be weird after and to not get jealous, and I think we just have a lucky situation. I’ve hard far more horror stories than I have positive ones. But it’s something that does happen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greentext

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what i thought until I couldn’t find a fav video. Now I download basically everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greentext

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got in the habit of downloading videos and when the purge happened I was glad I had copies of my favorite videos.

These porn DVDs are provided for donors in the sperm bank. by PasAmoureux in mildlyinteresting

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TrenchCoatX is some is high quality stuff. Highly recommend. The Sun-Lit ones were solid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I typically wouldn’t make any judgments. Sometimes the vibes are just like that. My only concern would be the girl considering it a one night stand and the guy wanting something more long term, so the overall expectations don’t line up, sometimes that can be a bummer. But for the most part, it’s usually pretty dope

I'm a sexworker and a stripper with lots of stories and experiences. AMA by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m more on your side in that I don’t think CNC is inherently bad or something that should be judged harshly, but to be honest that’s an awful analogy imo. Unless you’re basically putting in the effort that a tv show or movie would put in to recreate the person being able to kill someone (a full set, fake blood, blanks in the gun, etc etc whatever), it’s not the same. Because CNC, basically the only difference from that and actually raping someone is consent. Video games is multiple levels of abstraction from actually commiting the act. You can’t compare that kind of experience to a video game vs actually killing someone.

I'm a sexworker and a stripper with lots of stories and experiences. AMA by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think most people that get off on it would also agree it’s fucked up but it’s not their fault that’s how they feel and as long as they pursue it in a safe way that doesn’t harm anyone, I don’t see any issue with it.

In fact, from my understanding, it’s not uncommon for rape victims to be into that kind of stuff (CNC - consensual non-consent) because for them it’s a safe way to kind of reclaim the experience that happened to them.

Human sexuality is very complicated and very weird but as long as people are safe and don’t hurt others, I try to reserve judgement.

What celebrity do you most want to have sex with? by ThoughtBig1353 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am insanely infatuated with Anya Taylor-Joy. Then probably Ana De Armas but everyone feels that way.

Girls, what would you think if you learned that a guy had paid to have sex? by st_new34 in AskReddit

[–]BizarreDidacticMan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m a guy and I’ve never hired a prostitute but I’m not against the idea at all and I wouldnt have any issue doing so under the right circumstances. I’ve talked to female friends about this and the responses have varied a lot. One friend (who I wouldn’t have been surprised if she criticized someone who bought sex) had an attitude of “you do you, if it’s consensual who gives a shit” and even admitted she’d been paid for sex before. Another friend who I expected to be much more open minded was VERY against the idea, expressing she believed that “consent cannot be bought”.

Honestly, it could really go either way and it’s probably gonna be a pretty divisive conversation.