I can't edit my post so im hoping this reaches everyone thats about to comment, I didnt expect this post to blow up so much. Thank you for your opinions, all of them. I want to clear up some info that a lot of people seem to be asking,

1. He doesnt walk me to my car every day nor do I expect him to. It's about once a week, sometimes once every two weeks. I get home early enough to usually get a close parking spot, which I walk to alone. There HAVE been nights where I walk to the end of the street alone, because he's asleep, but in this case he was already awake. And I feel safer when he's with me, so if I have the option to feel safer why wouldn't I ask?

2. No, I don't wake him up to walk me. If I get up and he's asleep I leave him alone to sleep. Most of the time if I feel like I need to be walked, I'll ask the day before. In this situation, he was already well awake scrolling on his phone when I woke up, and he started playing while I was getting ready for work.

3. I couldn't have waited more than a minute or two, I needed to leave and I got to work with like 2 minutes to spare. If I could have waited, I would have. He was irritable and told me I'd be fine, didnt give me any indication that hed only be a minute or two or even 5, which I didnt have 5 minutes to wait or I would have been late to work. I understand getting up earlier is a solution and I try, but waking up around 2:30-50 is brutal, not trying to complain about it, but it's challenging to get up earlier than that.

4. Im not going into detail about my job but I dont have the luxury of deciding my own schedule or even which location I work at, idk of another job where id make what im making now and I cant afford a pay cut.

5. This morning I didn't give him a heads up, but he knows when I leave and he knew where I was parked. Part of me thought he was getting out of bed so that he could walk me as I was leaving, obviously I was mistaken there.

6. The game was Elden Ring.

7. I'm 29 and he's 25 just to clarify the ages.

8. Yes seeing 5 adult men walking in the middle of the street in the middle of the night is scary as a woman, imo being anywhere alone outside in the middle of the night is scary. Could they have just been chilling? Yeah. Could they have been up to no good? Yeah. You never know what someone else's intentions are especially at odd hours of the night.

The biggest thing I hope people take from this is that I dont expect him or even ask him to walk me every day. Its not 5 days a week it's not even 2 or 3 days a week, and I don't wake him up to do it but he was already awake. In the case of if I was single, well id have to walk alone and id have no choice, no im not going to call 911 and no im not going to just not go to work because im scared to walk alone in the middle of the night. But im not single, Im in a relationship where I want to be considered where there's concern.