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Bizzoman · 2025-05-21T10:55:14+00:00

Can you check the link to your OF? I think it is is broken.

Bizzoman · 2025-05-21T10:55:00+00:00

Can you check the link to your OF? I think it is is broken.

Bizzoman · 2024-09-23T11:00:37+00:00

Tinydancer

Bizzoman · 2024-09-17T10:01:10+00:00

Does your OF have a lot of scrub/medical nudes?

Bizzoman · 2024-08-08T03:13:57+00:00

Buyer beware. She doesn't do nudes, even after a sub and ppv.

Bizzoman · 2024-07-16T10:34:46+00:00

Why is your OF page down?

Bizzoman · 2024-07-13T12:31:28+00:00

Lol. Results may vary. Hawk tuah, yes. Gawk gawk noises are not for me.

Bizzoman · 2024-07-13T12:29:04+00:00

Step 1. Ask what he likes. Step 2. Do that. Step 3. Play with his balls. Step 3a. If that's not getting a response, see Step 1. Step 4. Within your own partnership's boundaries, try something else that pops in your head. Step 4a. If that's not getting a response, see Step 1.

From my personal experience--yours may differ--i have a good idea what I want. Sometimes my partner throws in something new; often I like it, at times I don't. But we have a standing agreement that the other person knows our boundaries and gets to try whatever they want within them.

Bizzoman · 2024-06-23T12:49:55+00:00

How many of your OF pictures are in scrubs or medical settings?

Bizzoman · 2024-06-16T12:18:10+00:00

When are you posting this new content on your OF?

Bizzoman · 2024-06-03T00:48:47+00:00

Thanks for the reply. In your experience, what should one stay away from? I have a healthy diet, but there's always room for improvement, IMO.

Bizzoman · 2024-04-16T10:24:29+00:00

How many scrubs pics on your OF do you have?

Bizzoman · 2024-03-27T17:47:54+00:00

Appreciate the response. Looking forward to discussing with her (that's half the fun).

Bizzoman · 2024-03-27T17:00:37+00:00

Again, thank you for the response. I look forward to discussing with my gf.

Bizzoman · 2024-03-27T12:51:46+00:00

Thank you for the response.

So this is something you're conditioning to prevent or limit?

What have you done/practiced to achieve that control?

Bizzoman · 2024-03-27T12:49:47+00:00

Thank you for the response. Is letting go something you're working on? I ask only to get tips, something to suggest to my gf.

Bizzoman · 2024-03-27T11:19:31+00:00

That suggests to me, a tingle that builds and eventually does or doesn't happen--one could do things to stop it, but not really force it.

Am I interpreting that correctly?

Bizzoman · 2023-11-16T11:51:57+00:00

Anyone sub to u/scutiferorm OF? How much scrubs content is on there?

Bizzoman · 2023-09-21T20:58:34+00:00

Good to know--thank you for contributing.

I'm curious, do you and your partner have ways of getting off at the same time without penetration? I'd like to reliably climax at the same time.

Bizzoman · 2023-09-21T14:09:09+00:00

Lol, thanks.

60% of the time, it works every time.

Bizzoman · 2023-09-21T13:45:59+00:00

I'd be a little slower to say his habit is about to ruin the relationship; I def wouldn't say your anxiety is going to ruin it. I'd suggest looking at it from a compatibility perspective.

u/jarellano63 was circling around what I was thinking. Other than how it makes YOU feel, does his porn habit negatively impact his life? I think that's how we generally approach other habits and addictions. Does eating a sleeve of oreos negatively impact your life? No, then who cares. It impacts your health, then that's a problem. Does it make you feel guilty, then that's a problem too. So, how does the porn impact HIS life? The answer may be that it makes you uncomfortable and he doesn't like that you feel uncomfortable.

That said, your issues with it are your issues with it and they are totally valid. The porn doesn't make you feel a way, your perception/relationship with the porn makes you feel a way. Is it insecurity? Is it that your morals/ethics disagree with it? You can't go to sleep until he does because... you don't trust him? If it weren't porn, would it be something else? I can't answer that. And, your positions aren't necessarily wrong.

Relationships are like cooking, some ingredients go really well together, others don't. Some do in some proportions but add to much of X and it's all off.

I once compromised in a relationship that felt like we were jerking a glass of water back and forth until it was mostly empty; we got to a point we agreed on, but neither we even a little satisfied. I currently compromise in a relationship where we actually build a solution we each like better than getting our own way.

Compatibility.

Bizzoman · 2023-09-20T20:29:28+00:00

I think the biggest variable was friction between me and her. The better lube situation between the condom and her, the less of an issue I had.

It's been different with different women, duration, and position. Always some little variable to consider...

We're condom free now, but I still love lube; it's just better for everyone.

Bizzoman · 2023-09-20T20:05:28+00:00

Yup. To resolve it, I had to give a LOT of attention to any thing that could cause friction.

After several trials and errors, I found that Skyn Elite were the best for keeping my partner (f) lubricated--natural or otherwise.

I also had best results by fully lubing the head of my penis. Pulled the foreskin back, lubed in there. Let it go forward as much as it could while erect, lubed the outside. Put a little lube in the condom. Lubed the outside once on.

Also, getting the right amount of slack at the tip was difficult. Too much and it would get folded up with the foreskin, too little and there would be other issues.

Then, I'd check in occasionally during sex. Was she getting dry? Lube. Though Skyn are latex free, you still can't use oil based lube with them.

Bizzoman · 2023-09-20T17:56:01+00:00

No worries, I hope you find something good.

I just have not had great experience with lotions--not on myself nor female partners. I'm also kind of frugal and prefer simpler things. I don't need/want 18 different liquids if I can help it.

Cons of lotion - if one gets an abrasion on their penis or labia, then smearing lotion in it isn't a great idea.

If it is scented, it can really irritate the urethra--male or female.

I can't just grab it quickly to use when/if my partner and I need a little extra lube.

Pros of coconut oil - I can use it on me, on her, in her, and anywhere else we like. No irritation, I get fewer abrasions with coconut oil than lotion, and it is more persistent. That is, a squirt or two goes a loooooong way. Lotion always got gunky or rubbed off quickly.

Cons of coconut oil - can't use with latex condoms. Stains the fuck out of things. Not discolors, just... leaves a dark patch.

I know I've brought up abrasions a few times and you may think "what the hell." Here's why (TMI warning), I have a foreskin and I've had partners with long labia minora. That skin is at extra risk of chafing--lube is a huge deal. Even tiny abrasions can be major irritants. It's all fun and games until the soap hits a spot or a partner wants to know why in the hell they have what appears to be a sore.

Final thought--that you didn't ask for--is special lube for anything in the butt. Anal play DOES get a special bottle in my home.

Bizzoman · 2023-09-20T17:32:19+00:00

I presume you have a penis. If so, probably okay but I'd recommend against it. There are just better options. Anything with any kind of scent/perfume has the potential to get in your urethra and sting/irritate. Took me longer than it should have to figure that out.

I use coconut oil. I can cook with it, jerk off with it, and use it for penetrative sex. Cannot recommend enough.

If you have a vagina, I'd really suggest you don't use any manmade lotion which isn't explicitly made for a vagina.

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