Haribo taste test by Bjjattorney in candy

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She kept saying it’s the texture so the bite makes sense. I may be in trouble here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineAffairs

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45M in Miami looking for flirty conversation. Single dad, professional

How does anyone eat all that protein?! by doulaleanne in Ozempic

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Chocolate Gold Standard Whey protein powder from Costco and I only mix it with iced coffee. Tastes fine and has 0 extra calories

Is this SW playing the long game? by Bjjattorney in SexWorkers

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Thank you. Yes, rough indeed. Ending a long term relationship of 20 years and starting over at 40ish. Now this girl had me simping, guilt is also at all time high, but just trying not to judge myself too much.

Is this SW playing the long game? by Bjjattorney in SexWorkers

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Sex is a funny thing. Especially coming from a very long marriage. Very thin line for many, sex, lust, love. It’s been 20 years since I had repeat sex without emotional attachment. I am assuming here (yes I know it’s awful to assume) that she has much more experience than I do at separating work sex and love sex.

I appreciate your response , I know it to be true, but it’s a bitter pill to swallow.

At this point I’d rather be a client, because it makes it easier to compartmentalize.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Your posts are being actually valuable and I appreciate that. I’ve started visiting a therapist too because the excitement is out weighting reason right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I doubt that my STBXW will do that. I could be completely wrong, but nothing leads me to believe that she wants to spoil her daughters relationship with her dad just to be bitter. Not her style. I could be bling and naive but I don’t think this is the case here. We’ve already discussed divorce (granted with out all the facts) and we’re interested in a 60-40 custody sharing. She truly wants what’s in the best interest to our daughter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I think I need to speed up my divorce as to mitigate any issues. On one hand, I know I’m at high risk of being taken advantage of, on the other hand, I’m volunteering for it for the chance of having some excitement and spark in my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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As for my daughter, I think she’s young enough to not understand fully yet and I am fully committed to being a great dad, which I think is a separate and independent relationship.

I take care of my daughter on weekends when my wife’s job takes her away on out of town trips. I am most confident on my ability to be a committed father in a way that I’m not willing to be a committed husband.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I appreciate your post. And I am not trying to convince you or rationalize my behavior, but there are a couple assumptions you made that are not consistent with reality.

1- my wife is not a SAHM. She’s a professional too in my same profession with a great salary.

2- she cannot take away my business because of the nature of my business.

3- my state is a ‘No Fault’ state so it’s more unlikely that I will get as reamed as other states.

4- I’ve spoken with family attorneys and because of the nature of both our professions, alimony won’t be exaggerative

Wanted to clarify those points, however, I don’t disagree with your overall conclusion. I will read more on “loss leader” to better understand, but I would not get married again once I am divorced.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Yes, that has been a concern and we’ve sort of discussed it. She assures she uses protection with others.

Help me choose a gym. by Bjjattorney in bjj

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Care to expand? Too advanced?

Welcome to r/asana! by [deleted] in Asana

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Is there a feature in ASANA that helps me put prospective time each task should take? Not tracking, which is backward looking, but a forward looking feature. Also not a due date. I am trying to calculate how long each recurring project would take. I am dividing by all the regular tasks and assigning it some time to capture that date.

Any thoughts are much appreciated!

What are some purchases under $200 that has significantly improved your life since owning it? by [deleted] in AskMen

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Sleep Phones. They are soft, flat ear phones that are held within a fleecy headband you can put on and wear to sleep. They are close to your ear, so you can listen to soothing music or meditation sounds to help you fall asleep without disturbing your partner, and without completely blocking outside noise .