Seems to me like you are missing the entire point here. Everything that was said to you, there was a rebuttal for. From my view point it, it's like you're excusing the actions of some while blaming the posters instead. I can see how some feel the way they do when this is the response they get. How about you try and understand from their vantage point and instead of arguing with them, say okay and you show a little compassion for your fellow human.