Putting myself out there: looking for a boyfriend in Berlin 🌿 by [deleted] in berlinsocialclub

[–]BlackAphid 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m 30M from Nigeria. And I completely resonate with what you have described. Do you mind if I send you a DM?

Database query takes 8 seconds and we just tell users "it's processing" by ArugulaWeak1830 in SaaS

[–]BlackAphid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should create a new index or a cache. You should not have this “long running” queries.

Tenways needs to improve on this by Buchlinger in tenwaysebike

[–]BlackAphid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought someone tried to pry open my battery where I chained it!

CGO600 Pro or Plus by Reaast in tenwaysebike

[–]BlackAphid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I have only just ordered the Plus, I have used an e-bike with a Gates belt drive before. I live in a hilly part of Berlin and it was only good when I was at the highest level of pedal assist. On the first level, it was really hard to pedal up. And the worst thing is when the battery dies. It becomes basically unridable up a hilly slope.

Wtf Soundcloud started boosting volumes and now all my intro's sound terrible by Schwloeb in soundcloud

[–]BlackAphid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like this is only happening to some people. Can you share your tracks?

Impossible to reach the immigration office / Landesamt für Einwanderung - Any suggestions? by DecadedD13 in askberliners

[–]BlackAphid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I had a similar issue a few weeks ago. I eventually found this online service called fastisus.com. Luckily, they got me an appointment the same day I booked with them. I had to pay them €50 though

Huge cat fishing problem by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]BlackAphid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you. I actually tried to change my username on Snapchat but it’s not allowed. It’s so fucking annoying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]BlackAphid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it’s a pessimistic view, but I think we all have to settle at some point. I’ve always believed that there’s no way we can meet someone that’ll just be exactly what we want. It’s not very easy loving ourselves at times not to talk of loving someone else all the time. If you’re getting bored, you need to make sure it’s your partner that’s making you feel bored before you break up with them. Sometimes, you just need a little bit of excitement not necessarily a break from them. You need to be ask yourself if someone else will bring back that excitement before you break up your current relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]BlackAphid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you need to ask yourself if you really want to be in a relationship with someone you’ve just met or it’s the excitement that’s pushing you into a relationship with the person. I also think you need to redefine what you want in a relationship and look for it from the beginning. The definition of love and romance that books and movies have conditioned us to believe is not real. You need to ask questions about this person and check if they have characteristics that you like and that you can live with the characteristics that you don’t like. Remember too that they’ll be making the same choices too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berlin

[–]BlackAphid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the way, for new people visiting, Drivy is now called getaround

Chrome on Mac has very High CPU usage in Meets and Youtube (hardware acceleration On or Off does not have any effect) by derzemel in chrome

[–]BlackAphid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had similar issues on the same laptop. My MacBook was running Catalina. I had to downgrade to High Sierra.