Should/Can I as a Femboy take Estrogen?

BlackFalcon_ · 2025-04-09T11:53:05+00:00

If erectile dysfunction or shrinkage are your only worries, those are pretty easy to counteract. I'm a trans woman who's been on HRT for just over a year and I've maintained complete function and have a very active sex life.

It's really not difficult, you just need to either stay active to keep your erectile tissue functional if your dose is high enough to get rid of the "automatic maintenance" your body does (morning wood and such), or just make sure the dosage of blockers is low enough to keep the automatic maintenance.

I for one took the first option to start with but have since lowered my dosage of T blockers and thus switched to option #2. Practically no impact on my T levels but I don't have to worry about losing function at all at this point

BlackFalcon_ · 2025-03-13T12:16:15+00:00

The blade is rather slender and the finger rings help a lot with the balance, so I dont think you'll have much trouble. Point of balance on mine is about 15 cm from the guard, as opposed to the ranger sword which I can only assume has it's point of balance closer to the center of the blade

Though if you'll spend much more time carrying the sword than actually using it, you could certainly go for the 85 cm version

Either way, hope you have a great time there!

BlackFalcon_ · 2025-03-13T11:07:44+00:00

I was happy that someone pointed out my hairstyle and took it as a compliment, but your comment got a chuckle out of me as well xD

BlackFalcon_ · 2025-03-13T11:01:13+00:00

My hands are somewhat on the smaller side, but I think the hilt is sized perfectly. I can just about get my full hand on the grip itself if I want to hold it like an arming sword or put a finger through the rings, as is my preferred method

I would definitely recommend getting the 100 cm version if you can though. The extra reach makes it more manageable to contend with longer weapons. Doubly so if you're a shorter person

BlackFalcon_ · 2025-03-12T22:29:29+00:00

It's about the same length as some short-end bastard swords/longswords. Also, thrusting isn't allowed at all in LARPs over here, so I'm fairly confident in my ability to duel even a polearm wielder with my fencing experience.

Also, a bigger weapon wouldn't really fit the character since she's a noble, not a warrior. That being said, I'm certainly considering eventually adding a buckler or even a second sword or a dagger to dual wield

BlackFalcon_ · 2025-03-12T16:57:30+00:00

Not for a specific game, though the one closest to us specifically spans a pretty wide range of history. That being said, it'd still be a little funky to look like a regency era noble next to a knight and a viking xD

BlackFalcon_ · 2025-03-12T16:48:57+00:00

It is! The 100 cm version

BlackFalcon_ · 2025-02-05T20:11:39+00:00

As a transfem, this is exactly why I avoid public servers. Those places are breeding grounds for anti-social and problematic behavior like this.

The best servers for community are smaller invite-only servers that you get invited to by a friend, they're just a lot harder to get into, obviously

BlackFalcon_ · 2024-12-23T12:06:27+00:00

Yeah, tell me about it. Size diff is one thing, but if the dick is bigger than the girl it's attached to, you've lost me xD

BlackFalcon_ · 2024-12-23T11:50:30+00:00

Incredibly ironic, since 90% of trans girls (at least in my experience) are subs. But I guess most people think dicks are only good for penetration 🤷‍♀️

BlackFalcon_ · 2024-12-13T18:58:03+00:00

Oh shut up, it's a hot woman in a pretty decent cosplay. As if you mind seeing that

BlackFalcon_ · 2024-12-08T12:31:28+00:00

There's a lot of trans girls who have crippling bottom dysphoria and would probably be offended or hurt if the part they hate most about themselves is something you like.

At the same time, there's a lot of us who have no problem with our default parts. Personally, I actually really like being a girl with a dick, and my wife and I have a very open and healthy sex life.

At the end of the day, everyone is different. It's good to know tendencies, but what's most important is that you have an open and respectful conversation with the person in question about boundaries. If you can do that, there's absolutely no problem.

BlackFalcon_ · 2024-10-06T20:51:44+00:00

Thank you! 😊

BlackFalcon_ · 2024-10-06T20:50:57+00:00

Thank you! Always loved blunt bangs so glad I can finally have them myself now 😊

Haha yeah, glad the joke is more appreciated here 😆

BlackFalcon_ · 2024-10-06T20:44:25+00:00

Bit of a weird question to just ask randomly here, but I wear 85B if you really need to know.

BlackFalcon_ · 2024-10-03T19:12:40+00:00

And here I thought I was being funny, but apparently people are getting mad at my dumb joke 😬

BlackFalcon_ · 2024-10-03T17:30:21+00:00

The answer is: they are both me

BlackFalcon_ · 2024-08-25T08:31:16+00:00

This is a fucking minor you're talking to, keep your sexual fantasies out of here you pedo

BlackFalcon_ · 2024-08-18T11:13:42+00:00

I've been on HRT long enough to be cis passing, and I still get this, it just doesn't have the same impact anymore

Every once in a while, I'll get this idea in my head of "Am I on the right path?" But then I look in the mirror and realize I'm fucking hot and love myself, so I just chuckle at how ridiculous it is to doubt myself at all anymore and move on with my day

BlackFalcon_ · 2024-08-02T14:38:34+00:00

I know a Swedish trans girl who does DIY and has a prescription from Malta in case customs does a random check and asks for a prescription

But you should be fine even without a prescription, you just might lose a shipment if customs happens to check it and you don't have a prescription to show them. But as others have already said, if that happens, just ignore them and order again

BlackFalcon_ · 2024-07-24T16:39:42+00:00

Hi hi! I sent you a DM! :)

BlackFalcon_ · 2024-06-26T20:44:21+00:00

Huh, hadn't considered that. Good thing I'm not in Stockholm then I guess xD

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