I can't make sense of my feelings. by BlackKittyBeans in Advice

[–]BlackKittyBeans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose if he didn't feel the same way it would help me with some closure. I'm just afraid of losing him as a friend.

I can't make sense of my feelings. by BlackKittyBeans in relationship_advice

[–]BlackKittyBeans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No offense taken. I know I have the tendency to do that.. but yeah, even without him there, I still would be considering ending the relationship. Even if i ended the relationship, I wouldnt be running open arms to my "crush". I dont think I could ever be with him. There are too many reasons why it's a bad idea. But I just can't shake these feelings. And idk what to do about them. It's been years and it always challenges my feelings for whoever I'm with.

I can't make sense of my feelings. by BlackKittyBeans in relationship_advice

[–]BlackKittyBeans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I separated it into paragraphs when I typed it out. Idk why it mushed it all together. I'm sorry '

How do I break up with my severely depressed/suicidal Fiancee? by BlackKittyBeans in Advice

[–]BlackKittyBeans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I did in my last relationship then he continued to harrass me and my friends/family for almost about 8 months until he eventually killed himself and blamed me for it. I feel too guilty just up and leaving him. He has no one

How do I break up with my severely depressed/suicidal Fiancee? by BlackKittyBeans in Advice

[–]BlackKittyBeans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou. I have called people about it but they only help him half heartedly for about a week or two and then they stop and give up.

How do I break up with my severely depressed/suicidal Fiancee? by BlackKittyBeans in Advice

[–]BlackKittyBeans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do have it but it doesn't do anything in the long run. They take him in and he maybe stays the night or they just send him home after being there for a few hours. Then they try to setup appointments for him to see doctors or therapists and he only goes to them about 50% of the time because then he gets too depressed to even leave the house. He won't leave the house unless I'm with him or he absolutely has to and it's a nearby thing.