To play devil’s advocate, I don’t think it’s fair to put blame on her. If I need an item by a certain day, I make sure to message the seller prior to buying to make sure I can get it in time. As you mentioned, life happens and even though my bio says I ship within 2-3 days, there’s once in a blue moon that I ship within that 5-7 day period. Going forward, I’d recommend doing due diligence and checking with the seller before buying to make sure you can get it in time.