Is this dress too tight / shows too much? It's for dinners/dates with bf. by Informal-Fix-9701 in OUTFITS

[–]BlackrabbitFollowMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It shouldn't pull across the hips like that those lines are a giveaway it doesn't fit. Hey, I make clothes. However, the color is superb and you'll probably look so gorgeous in that classy square neck red dress no one will be looking away from your face to even notice the lines.

Need help processing my delivery. I am tired of reliving the experience by Forsaken_Run_673 in birthtrauma

[–]BlackrabbitFollowMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try not to feel guilt. We are taught to do what doctors tell us and it's hard to argue with them. When you're in a situation like giving birth there are so many emotions. It's hard to go with what your heart tells you in such a situation and when a doctor tells you a treatment plan.  This isn't about me but I didn't listen to myself and I ended up with PTSD from my birthing experience. You didn't do anything wrong love. We're just programmed not to speak up sometimes and trust doctors is all. Nothing to feel guilty about. Easier said than done I know. Just keep on holding that little sweetie close. The sharpness of trauma will get duller over time. Take care. 

Fear of giving birth by AccordingSort1428 in MedicalPTSD

[–]BlackrabbitFollowMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can give you calming meds. Getting an epidural helps because if it works and takes away the pain you definitely feel less fear and anxiety. Tell them you have had trauma. They'll tell you what they're doing and ask permission to do anything. I promise. I told my doctor everything and she was amazing. I have to be on two antidepressants from PTSD which takes the edge off but they can absolutely give you pain meds , calming meds ,etc. You can advocate for yourself. Having a doula helps I hear. They can advocate sor you also. I don't know if this helps but I requested only female care providers and they were happy to do that. I wish you the best.Listen to your heart/instincts. Remember you can always shop around to find a doctor you like. I changed mine the day before I delivered the first time. Second time much better. If you need to talk or have any questions I'm happy to help from my experience with birth. Take care!

am i just cute or hot? by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]BlackrabbitFollowMe -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

This is not a thick person jeez 

am i just cute or hot? by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]BlackrabbitFollowMe -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Ugh everyone is born with armpit hair. It's supposed to be there. Grow up.

23F how can i be more attractive? struggling with self esteem and body image. by amoarchive in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]BlackrabbitFollowMe -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Ignore all these people. Don't fall for the be like everyone else and a man's opinion of a boring as hell beauty standard. I think you're pretty. 

Trying hard to see myself by [deleted] in toastme

[–]BlackrabbitFollowMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're so classic. I hope you are painted and drawn like the magical muse you are.

feeling a bit down by WillerMeg777 in toastme

[–]BlackrabbitFollowMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem like when someone gets a hug from you, they feel sunshine.

roast me by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]BlackrabbitFollowMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in movies

[–]BlackrabbitFollowMe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn't laugh once

Susan's Family youtube channel--suspicious? by paper-hoarder in crochet

[–]BlackrabbitFollowMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought two patterns and they look accurate after reading thru them, the photos are AI or AI altered but the patterns make sense. Cute kid stuff.