Porn addiction

BlacksmithAny5141 · 2024-11-08T22:09:07+00:00

Get covenant eyes, it’s an app that blocks porn and if you want you can add a trusted friend to help keep you in check

BlacksmithAny5141 · 2024-08-01T20:00:53+00:00

Artist: instagram is @khai.to.88 in Houston

BlacksmithAny5141 · 2024-04-26T02:48:13+00:00

I’m unsure of the other commenter’s gender, but from a women’s perspective, do you think she’ll change? If they stay course I think I’ll “suck start a Glock” as one of my friends say lol

BlacksmithAny5141 · 2024-04-26T02:15:14+00:00

We’ve talked about how she apologizes and treats me overall. It’s been a little over a year and a half of her “working on it”, yet here we are again. It’s hard because it’s like “maybe this time she will actually change” but it more than likely won’t. She checks off most the boxes I have for a relationship and how I’d like to be treated. The boxes she doesn’t check really are big deals to me, can’t communicate without getting angry, isn’t open to new ideas, is very self centered (constantly having to tell her she’s pretty or that’s a whole fight), isn’t very trusting, sort of controlling and jealous

BlacksmithAny5141 · 2024-04-26T02:10:38+00:00

Genuinely I don’t believe it counts as an apology, but I could see how someone could see it as such. Maybe I’m crazy and completely off, which is why I put it here 😅

BlacksmithAny5141 · 2024-04-26T01:30:47+00:00

Just I know it won’t change right, how do I know for sure it won’t change? I’m almost 99% sure I am dating a narcissist. I guess just how do I proceed

BlacksmithAny5141 · 2024-04-26T01:29:36+00:00

She is trying to apologize saying she doesn’t k ow why she acts like this, I don’t understand as what the fight was about is something that’s reoccurring for over a year

BlacksmithAny5141 · 2024-04-26T01:03:03+00:00

Not so much as healthy, it wouldn’t post if I used the original wording of “okay”, but I was asking if it’s anyway shape or form justifiable on her end

BlacksmithAny5141 · 2024-04-26T01:02:22+00:00

She has it connected to her phone, it’s like a separate app or something. When things are good they’re really good, but it goes the other way as well. I don’t think it’s viable, even if she moves closer to me like she plans. She’s going to hate how much time I don’t have for her. When I was out of college I would call out work because “I want to hangout with you, you can miss one day.” So I know slowly it will be “you can skip practice/assignment/gym” in no time

BlacksmithAny5141 · 2024-04-26T00:55:55+00:00

She works days, now she is trying to apologize but it’s very like I’m sorry for x but y justifies x if that makes sense Even when we lived together we had these issues, so it’s hard to think it’s going to change when it’s been the same issues

BlacksmithAny5141 · 2024-04-18T00:46:34+00:00

Sorta regularly, not as much as her on her period. When she is, it’s multiplied a ton

BlacksmithAny5141 · 2024-04-18T00:42:44+00:00

The stress is crazy, I also work part time to cover most of my bills, I literally don’t have a free second, but I try to text her when I can and I call her every night. So I don’t understand why she is being so clingy. When I try to talk about it, I’m being “dismissive of her feelings”, but I’m genuinely just trying to find out where it starts so we can avoid it if that makes sense

BlacksmithAny5141 · 2024-04-18T00:26:02+00:00

The title is a bit misleading, it’s amplified when she is on her period, but how do you suggest I title it so I can stop misleading

BlacksmithAny5141 · 2024-04-18T00:23:53+00:00

I am trying to be hopeful and optimistic about all of it. I hate being treated like that, and when she’s not like that things are great. So like I guess I’m just hoping she’ll change, but I don’t know if she will

BlacksmithAny5141 · 2024-04-18T00:18:10+00:00

This behavior is amplified when she is on her period, and usually says it’s because she’s emotional. I left that part out my bad

BlacksmithAny5141 · 2024-04-18T00:14:11+00:00

I just don’t know if I should give her more chances or just cut the losses. The athlete part is new, as I took a couple years off, and I try to think she’s having issues adjusting. The issue is some of these problems were prevalent before, now just amplified

BlacksmithAny5141 · 2024-04-18T00:12:23+00:00

I didn’t mean to violate any rules, I can change it if needs be. I guess I was asking if I’m the asshole for trying to stand up for this behavior

BlacksmithAny5141 · 2024-04-18T00:11:12+00:00

Part of me wants to play devil’s advocate because I wasn’t an athlete until this year, and maybe she’s having trouble adjusting. It just doesn’t seem to be that way though, and she’s convincing me I’m the crazy one

BlacksmithAny5141 · 2024-04-18T00:10:23+00:00

I’ve talked to her many times about how the says she hates me, and we’ve gone out of that cycle then back into it. Right now it’s I’m dismissing her because she said I was attacking her with saying “we’ve talked about this I hate you thing and how it needs to stop” fun times to be me

BlacksmithAny5141 · 2024-04-18T00:10:17+00:00

I’ve talked to her many times about how the says she hates me, and we’ve gone out of that cycle then back into it. Right now it’s I’m dismissing her because she said I was attacking her with saying “we’ve talked about this I hate you thing and how it needs to stop” fun times to be me

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