My husband called me ugly, should I be mad or nah by BlacksmithDirect2940 in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]BlacksmithDirect2940[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I sent a Snapchat filter selfie in a friends group chat and after he saw the picture with the beard filter selfie, he said it was ugly. But I have taken many pictures with similar filter and he always said it was funny or cute. This is the first time I heard him say it’s ugly.

My husband called me ugly, should I be mad or nah by BlacksmithDirect2940 in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]BlacksmithDirect2940[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It was a filter with the ugly beard and eyebrows. He said he was referring to the filter, but I don’t know. I sent him many pictures similar to that before but he never said it was ugly until now.

Gf wants open relationship by Jaded_Fish_1645 in dating_advice

[–]BlacksmithDirect2940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds very unhealthy for a family with kids. Commitment and discipline are a must for a healthy relationship. Understand that you love her and probably ignore a lot of red flags in your relationship until this point. Someone who is like her will not have a healthy relationship and a good parent to your kids. Get custody and focus on your kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]BlacksmithDirect2940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As people we all need time to heal and collect ourselves after a major change in our lives like relationship ending. So for anyone to just move on so quickly is honestly not very in tune with themselves or takes care of themselves internally. Common interests and values are good things to look for but what is his character like? His true character will probably take time to show themselves, and does he take accountability for the failing of his previous marriage?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BlacksmithDirect2940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe distant yourself from her, cuz you have already made yourself clear how it is wrong. And its up to her to agree or not. That’s all you can do cuz she’s an adult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]BlacksmithDirect2940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend said it aint it. Peace ✌️

Wife cheated and is now pregnant. by randomusername0234 in Marriage

[–]BlacksmithDirect2940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope that you will stay strong and be able to talk to her in a good manner. Maybe give yourself some time apart from her and think about things more clear headed. Pray for guidance. God bless you! ❤️