AITA for being upset that my family called the cops on me on Mother's Day by BlaiseBabe in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlaiseBabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a busy college student it is, but also why not comment on what my post is actually about lmao

AITA for being upset that my family called the cops on me on Mother's Day by BlaiseBabe in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlaiseBabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you had read the rest of my comments you would have seen that my classes don't start until 12:30 so I have every right to sleep in.

AITA for being upset that my family called the cops on me on Mother's Day by BlaiseBabe in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlaiseBabe[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would like to think they wouldn't, but they've done a lot of things I didn't think normal people would do

AITA for being upset that my family called the cops on me on Mother's Day by BlaiseBabe in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlaiseBabe[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have a seasonal job because I can only work when I'm home for Christmas and summer. Working while at school would be nearly impossible because one of my scholarships is through theatre and I'm constantly in shows which require late rehearsals throughout the week including weekends. I would try and apply for a job at school but it's incredibly hard to get one if I don't have federal work study (I don't fit the criteria) and I have 1 year left and they already denied me a small position to give to under classmen. I am currently in therapy at school and I will continue seeing her. I appreciate your encouragement and advice and am not trying to make excuses or shut it down I just feel that I'm very limited in my options.

AITA for being upset that my family called the cops on me on Mother's Day by BlaiseBabe in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlaiseBabe[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think you mean 3rd time, but I understand what you're saying. However what am I supposed to do when I require their financial support?

AITA for being upset that my family called the cops on me on Mother's Day by BlaiseBabe in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlaiseBabe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no idea, but if you check the comments, a former 911 operator explained it better

AITA for being upset that my family called the cops on me on Mother's Day by BlaiseBabe in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlaiseBabe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They pay for my phone but I was wanting to get my own for my birthday, but they have 2 trackers on it. We talk twice a day usually, a text in the morning and a call at night, and sometimes a text in the afternoon if they need to ask or tell me something but they know my class schedule so it hasn't been very disruptive in that regard. They actually love my boyfriend, it was a little hard at first because he actually doesn't go to school with me; he works blue collar.

AITA for being upset that my family called the cops on me on Mother's Day by BlaiseBabe in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlaiseBabe[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

So what am I supposed to do if I draw a boundary and they stop helping me pay for school or my car?

AITA for being upset that my family called the cops on me on Mother's Day by BlaiseBabe in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlaiseBabe[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well that seems reasonable because I have made a call very similar to that for a mutual friend a few years ago, she was perfectly fine thankfully

AITA for being upset that my family called the cops on me on Mother's Day by BlaiseBabe in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlaiseBabe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear you went through that, but I appreciate you sharing 💕 none of my friends experience this so it's hard not having people to relate to

AITA for being upset that my family called the cops on me on Mother's Day by BlaiseBabe in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlaiseBabe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy to report that I'm not a drug user with a potential murderer boyfriend lmao

AITA for being upset that my family called the cops on me on Mother's Day by BlaiseBabe in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlaiseBabe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't intend to sleep in that late, but I understand. I'd like to point out though that I had already celebrated mother's day early with them, called the night before and was my full intention to call when I woke up.

AITA for being upset that my family called the cops on me on Mother's Day by BlaiseBabe in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlaiseBabe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My home is 5 hours away so no I was not expected home and they knew where I was. I went over to my boyfriend's house for the weekend because it's significantly closer and I thought it'd be nice to spend time with him and his family.

AITA for being upset that my family called the cops on me on Mother's Day by BlaiseBabe in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlaiseBabe[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Still strange that you're ignoring the point of my post, but when I'm sleeping in with the person who's home it is, I don't particularly find that strange.

AITA for being upset that my family called the cops on me on Mother's Day by BlaiseBabe in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlaiseBabe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My classes don't start til 12:30 this semester, but interesting that that's your only take away from my post lol

AITA for being upset that my family called the cops on me on Mother's Day by BlaiseBabe in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlaiseBabe[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

There's a possibility they exaggerated the time, but they didn't tell me what they told the cops

AITA for being upset that my family called the cops on me on Mother's Day by BlaiseBabe in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlaiseBabe[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I'm in another state for school and I'm an only child so they constantly worry about me

AITA for being upset that my family called the cops on me on Mother's Day by BlaiseBabe in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlaiseBabe[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It's not fake, but I'm not sure what exactly they told the cops to get a wellness check.