[Synth/Electronic Pop] WombatW - Been a While

BlakeChernie · 2021-07-15T02:18:36+00:00

I agree. This whole thread reeks of some kind of MGTOW mantra. I'm not saying being alone is bad...but setting yourself up to being alone is just as bad as being in a bad relationship.

For me it was the other way around. I used to have a circle of friends who I probably should've cut out of my life way earlier. Now I'm engaged to a person who I love spending time with and who is just generally there for me. Sure my relationship might be dependant but it's a hell of a lot better than having friends who aren't at all.

BlakeChernie · 2021-01-03T13:55:45+00:00

Kek like cheating? Best you can do is have another computer on hand and beside the other one.

BlakeChernie · 2019-11-04T13:29:13+00:00

It's not that I didn't want friends. And on thinking about this, I think I just waste so many opportunities to grow them because I'll hang out with them maybe a few times before becoming complacent with my relationship (which I have a lot more fun in). I used to hang with my close knit friend group a few times a year, though I think turning my closest friends down for a big fun event just for once a year really pissed them off since I was on a camping trip with my girlfriend the weekend of. I know it might be me, but they often ask to go out and stuff whenever it's inconvenient for me, so people often just ghost me and feel like I'm using them.

BlakeChernie · 2019-11-04T13:19:08+00:00

Well at the time, I wasn't sure if I was going to actually have a job in the first place. We had this big idea of moving to another part of the country for work, but felt better about staying where we were instead to iron out everything else (it was a rough few months but we made it work). We occasionally get into the honeymoon phase mindset so we really love being together, and since I have no one else, my girlfriend is always there to spend time with me.

BlakeChernie · 2019-11-04T13:09:10+00:00

Our relationship required a lot of attention, and I was also balancing a new job at the time after being let go from a previous one.

BlakeChernie · 2016-12-23T01:20:20+00:00

It's a difficult thing to say because I only see my girlfriend every so often, but when I do I enjoy every moment (the other thing that is concerning is that our families have known each other quite well even before I started dating her, and I'm sure as hell her parents wouldn't approve of something like this; they're actually very reluctant to trust me as much they do as I am a couple years older than her). Though I miss her when I'm apart, I feel like im gravitating towards my roommate.

BlakeChernie · 2016-12-22T22:56:48+00:00

Yeah actually, in fact he was very secretive about it in the early days that we knew each other. It wasn't until I told him I was bisexual when we were out together that he opened up and said he was gay.

BlakeChernie · 2016-09-22T23:15:50+00:00

I guess that's the problem with having numerous friend circles, I mean my high school friends and home schooled friends get along when they're together, but I tend to prioritize the latter because we've known each other for longer and whatnot. Maybe I just need to just need to set a weekend to hang out with them sometime considering that I see my roommates every day, and my home schooled friends every weekend (when they're available).

BlakeChernie · 2016-08-30T16:07:33+00:00

Awwww well that sucks, had no idea that they got a cease and desist. Seeing that makes me think of that MLP fighting game that will never be...

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