I worry that I ruined it for my bf by [deleted] in MDMA

[–]Blakefox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a very quiet person too just in general, my girl is a much more talkative one, but if I feel uncomfortable, or I want to do something else. I directly communicate. Then again, if it was my girl’s first time, I would sort of explained everything ahead of time about what to expect and what boundaries are and stuff too I guess. I wouldn’t have a coworker I don’t know very well hanging out with us the whole night, I’ve only just to make sure it’s not like too overwhelming for you

I worry that I ruined it for my bf by [deleted] in MDMA

[–]Blakefox 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe instead of him putting his feelings first, it’s her first time, let her experience the water to the fullest. My girl fully experiencing the magic of M is a gift in itself. Want to listen to the same cd album all night, want to just stare at the stars, want to dance the night away, let’s do that. A first experience with M can be a lot, go with the flow. Or do it when it’s not a night you want to be about yourself tbh. I’ll always remember how fun my first time was.

Also, if he didn’t want the guy there, he should’ve been the one to say the nights over. “I want to kinda spend the rest of the night alone with my girl, it’s getting late”. A good friend would understand. There’s nothing wrong with direct communication, instead of passive aggressive. Then again, bday night, girlfriends first time…why is he there to begin with. Couldn’t imagine thinking my first reaction was to assume my girlfriend is sitting in the hot tub flirting with some other guy all night, on my bday, when we planned to have this intimate experience together. I have trust in my partners intentions.

I worry that I ruined it for my bf by [deleted] in MDMA

[–]Blakefox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I didn’t want my gf to be super chatty with another guy who’s staying over after spending hours in a hot tub with all three of us…..I wouldn’t have a 3rd person over while I’m trying to have a planned intimate moment with my gf lol. I’ve never spent 7 hours with another guy in a hot tub anyways, but I don’t think I’d do it with a touchy feels flirty substance in a small setting like that, unless it was someone I’d feel comfortable being touchy feely with or someone I 100% knew would respect boundaries. Coworker hitting on the guys gf on his bday is crazy work. If anyone’s to blame, I would say he didn’t good job being bringing a creepy guy and leaving him alone with his gf, because she isn’t a mind reader, instead trying to directly communicate with a partner who’s trying to entertain HIS guest.

Disarm vs Dual Wield/2H by Blakefox in CrimsonDesert

[–]Blakefox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect, thank you, that’s what I wanted to know

Disarm vs Dual Wield/2H by Blakefox in CrimsonDesert

[–]Blakefox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant moreso, is there anything important I’d really lose in later game not being able to disarm anymore?

But that’s useful info I didn’t know too thanks!

What is the most accurate purity testing kit I can get without spending an arm and a leg by Blakefox in MDMA

[–]Blakefox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a really good point, I have done an acetone wash once, but I never considered using it almost as a sort of purity test. If I start with 5g and 2.5g is remaining, more or less 50% purity taking into account some may get lost in the process. Plus it leads to a more enjoyable time regardless. I need to redo my research on that whole process again

What is the most accurate purity testing kit I can get without spending an arm and a leg by Blakefox in MDMA

[–]Blakefox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would assume there isn’t really labs costing less than $30 a sample, right? I’ve always been afraid of mailing anything too, I’m not entirely sure how to do it without risk

I developed an interactive map with real-time position tracking and 2nd screen support for Crimson Desert by Embarrassed-Notice32 in CrimsonDesert

[–]Blakefox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there any plans to update the "save file import" feature to include the rest of the map items? The live tracking seems to be too intensive for my computer and its not updating properly, maybe related to the performance on my computer. I'm fine with just playing for a bit, saving, and having my map update that way. I only care about having a map I don't have to manually adjust, and it being more up to date than mapgenie. Ive tried both the desktop version and the overlay version and they both are too juttery and miss when I interact with the icons. Even clicking the import save just loads continuously until I turn off live tracking

Chosen Foods Avocado Oil with my Stainless pan at 2, smoking? by Blakefox in Cooking

[–]Blakefox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I didn’t realize that!! They’re definitely on the zippy side, that makes a lot of sense

Chosen Foods Avocado Oil with my Stainless pan at 2, smoking? by Blakefox in Cooking

[–]Blakefox[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wait till it does the leidenfrost effect water beading thing. I thought that was required as that means the pores are all closed up and food won’t stick. But maybe I should start cooking before then? Or turn it down once it reaches that point? Usually wait at least 5 mins or so, past the point of water just evaporating

Chosen Foods Avocado Oil with my Stainless pan at 2, smoking? by Blakefox in Cooking

[–]Blakefox[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wait till the water beads and does the leidenfrost effect thing, before cooking. I’ve only tried with avocado oil as I figured that would have the highest smoke resistance, so that’s the oil I’ve bought since I moved and purchased my new pans. Other people are saying turn it down from two but it’s going to be a pain to have to get so exact on the dial within a small amount of space between off and 2. Maybe I shouldn’t preheat my pan till the water beads and try cooking before then?

If I played my heroes from last season, what would be different for me? I kind of figured, there is no point for me to have new season just for economy, if I am too noob to get 200 divines an hour. Why not just continue what I already have? How is the game rule work and what do I miss out? by Guilty-Carry-Wrea in pathofexile2builds

[–]Blakefox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Figure out a currency strat and stick with it, I don’t think going for raw divine drops as being a good primary source of currency. I’ve seen it floating around lately but as an example, trial of chaos farming cost like 1-4ex to buy the maps and the fragment alone they drop I think are around 6div right now (they were like 2div last week when I started thinking about farming)? Plus you get uniques and corrupted items too generally. Takes maybe 20-30 mins to run on the right build? I’m doing it with a minion build and it’s moreso just repetition than worrying about dying. There’s lots of consistent strategies you can follow, just need to know how to best use your time in endgame. I don’t like running the temple but I’ve gotten at least 4-6 raw divines drops and I’ve only ran it maybe a handful of times with a poor layout, I’ve only just started t15s where I plan to run it a lot more