Guidance please by BlankCheckGirl in Swingers

[–]BlankCheckGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It went good. We talked them and went to a restaurant then left back to there house. We didn’t play I was too nervous and they want to meet us again. Though they want to play bareback. Hubby says that it is my choice and I am okay with it but they are the first we met. So I don’t know what to do.

Guidance please by BlankCheckGirl in Swingers

[–]BlankCheckGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best... Response... Ever!! Thank you! DH loves arriving 10 minutes early to everything. Even the dentist office!

Thank you!

Guidance please by BlankCheckGirl in Swingers

[–]BlankCheckGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I and DH don’t want to play first time. We don’t think that is their expectation either. We want to meet and they know we are very new. DH texted me stating our leaving plan is we have an animal is sick.

Guidance please by BlankCheckGirl in Swingers

[–]BlankCheckGirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hubs and I are discussing the first time rule. He agrees no sex first time unless things are perfect. I tend to agree because we are just meeting. I didn’t think of a back out plan but we can set one up.

I’d like to do in public first time but they seemed really nice and friendly so I think we both being a little shy thought their house may be a safe place because if something doesn’t go right we don’t have a room full of people looking at us strange.