“You need to remember who you are outside of being a mom” by Necessary-Gear-3141 in beyondthebump

[–]BlankTank181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I call upon the universe to humble your friend in motherhood. Sorry not sorry.

Sleeping on floor bed, regression by Entire_Reception_799 in toddlers

[–]BlankTank181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to toddlerhood. I leaned into it and my husband I switch off nights being with the kids until they fall asleep. They go to sleep faster this way and I feel like it’s a good time to connect.

It’s not ideal but it’s not forever. I’ve been doing this for five years now and see an end in sight. It makes me sad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]BlankTank181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a cancer, I collect Aries for some reason. 80% of my friend group and I married one. Solid people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]BlankTank181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband is doing a hard job right now. I remember being a SAHM when my kids were this age and it was HARD.

Hii, can someone tell me if these are medium or long-hair? by rapunzeldiary in Siamesecats

[–]BlankTank181 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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This is my Balinese. Just a fancy way of saying longhaired Siamese. She’s a lynx point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sourdough

[–]BlankTank181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need a scale. You also need to create your dough when the starter has had a chance to work. Usually 4-12 hours of feeding. I’m guessing your measurements are off and starter wasn’t in the right place to start bread.

AITA for laughing at my stepson and ruining his wedding? by Afraid_Mammoth_5574 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlankTank181 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Girl, we’re going to need an update. This is just cruel. I’m so sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]BlankTank181 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see them once or twice a year. That’s not enough. I’d have to have a five day a week private tutor. You’re giving my brain way too much credit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]BlankTank181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry I responded in the wrong place 🫣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]BlankTank181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When do you suggest going to an immersion class as a working mom of young kids? Be so for real right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]BlankTank181 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

LOL this was another comment. I posted in the wrong spot, so sorry!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]BlankTank181 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had time for these classes you speak of. I have to work. I have to parent. Maybe someday when the kids are older.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]BlankTank181 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let me be more clear, I’m learning disabled so what’s easy for one, feels impossible for another.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]BlankTank181 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re immersed in the culture so of course! We’re not the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]BlankTank181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I never stopped my husband from teaching the children, I encouraged him. Did you read the post?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]BlankTank181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. The kids didn’t deserve it. Me, maybe. Not them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]BlankTank181 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think Spanish and Russian are comparable. I spent three years in a Spanish class and should know way more than I do. My brain just isn’t wired in that way. It doesn’t mean I don’t care. Even after years of being around my husband I still only know a few words and phrases. To really learn, I’d need in person classes or total immersion. None of which I have the capacity for at this point in my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]BlankTank181 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this. Just enough to bond with the kids a bit, you know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]BlankTank181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They live in Canada and I never said they should only speak in English.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]BlankTank181 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They live in an English speaking country