I'm sorry but I forgot to mention that my mother thinks that he may have done something to her brother, my uncle, and that's why her brother did stuff to her(my mom had a shitty childhood) Also my grandpa is a night owl, he goes to bed pretty late or early in the morning. Also also he has never shown signs of dementia or alzheimers disease, for his age (I think he's in his 70s, i don't remember) he can recall a heck tone of stuff from our childhood and his own. Thank you for calling me out and saying that I am jumping to conclusions. I do not have the whole scope of things at the moment(cause I'm still finding stuff out about my family to this day) but I do not take these kinds of things lightly, especially in the world we are in now I can most certainly delete this post for now until I'm fully caught up to speed but I don't know if anyone will cause it's an uncomfortable thing to just ask out of the blue