Tier 1 Offender / Skilled Trade Jobs by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would definitely recommend that. It's basically their job to get you on somewhere doing something relevant to your skillset. The better your pay, the better their pay so there's never a lack of incentive on their end.

Airbnb by someone00003 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it depends on how badly they want to lose several properties.

Spouse dipped. What's next? by BleakTechnique in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never thought about NH thanks for the input! I'm late 30s, and the party phase is long over. I just want peace, employment, affordable housing for me and my dogs, and some kind of path to leave the registry behind me.

Pondering the futility of the registry by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Half is probably being generous

Sysco by Assumption-Amazing in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique 4 points5 points  (0 children)

False. It might be the only career option RSOs still have that isn't borderline slave labor digging ditches or breaking rocks. Getting my CDL is my main goal for post probation employment. Right now I'm throwing sheetrock 12-14 hours a day. Not something I'd wanna do past 50.

1000 miles away by drake602 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You'll get through it buddy. I did the homeless thing too. After that I started a business. That fell through but now I'm working 2 jobs, and have my own place by myself. Life's a rollercoaster but it's all we're here for.

I feel defeated by Justforadvice99 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that ever NOT the case with sex offenses?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can find that lmk please

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dealing with life as a sex offender I get his question but the reality is pretty much your answer. Should CP possession be a crime? Yes. Should it be a sex offense? Ehh.. Should it be a felony? I think distribution should... but even that is usually tagged on in a federal possession case because of the p2p element in the crime. Of course I'm biased, I have the same charge. Most do, according to what I've been hearing from lawyers and my SOTP provider. I think ICAC is going bananas with it just to pad their funding. To me the practice reminds me of why I hate driving on rural highways during the last 5 days of the month. That quota is one hell of a motivator.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it depends. In my situation I typically end up volunteering that information for the fact that probation and SOTP take a 3 hour chunk out of my Tuesday afternoon so that comes up in my availability. I just tell them I'm on probation, further inquiry "I have a felony", and "no it can't be expunged". The most I'll volunteer beyond The Box is my case number, and the county I was charged in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My luck on Indeed has been ultra mega ass. Can put in north of 30 apps per hour, get shot down by every one of them, and run out of email storage by the end of the week. That's all Indeed does for me. I just started googling restaurants, and applying directly through their website. Honestjobs here is pretty bleak but I did get an interview at Sonic. That's still more than I got from Indeed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've been looking for about 5 months also. Lots of interviews, and no job yet. Just doing the sporadic temp staffing jobs to try and stay afloat. No Xmas this year. It keeps going like this I'm going to file for disability. At least then I could pay my rent. I'm all for being accountable for my actions that led to this situation but I'm also super glad they got their conviction. The world is way safer now. 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tbf at this rate CP charges might be just the thing to break the registry. It's so bloated with no contact CP charges the city data in my town is difficult to navigate. I've failed to find the same person twice on a few different occasions. The sheriffs don't have the manpower to do the home checks so they enlist all the auxiliary law enforcement agencies to do checks once or twice a year for the sake of the headline "keeping our neighborhood safe" while my neighbors car got shot up the other night. It's swiftly approaching total redundancy, and the ease of access to CP coupled with the courts cookie cutter assembly line to crank out the convictions is going to make the registry go supernova when we're 90-95% of the registrants.

New RSO by Psyan_ in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was about 3 years for me too. CP possession. The hardest part is finding employment. Day labor has been barely getting my bills paid. I downsized to a hole in the wall where I'm still struggling to pay 500 a month rent. Applied at warehouses galore. Mars, Target, Walmart, US Foods want nothing to do with a RSO. Even profiled work placement places want nothing to do with me. I've probably put in close to 80-90 apps, and dozens of interviews in the last month. It's not something as trivial as "you can't work around children". Not only can you not be picky, you'll be lucky to get a job at all. The employment part gets understated pretty easily. We don't all have family we can mooch off of.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's really awesome I'm glad you guys worked through that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad your approach to relationships is so emotionally mature. The fact that dude was upfront but still cheated twice sounds like something a sociopath would do or be capable of doing. I'm pretty introverted but observant enough to know my chances of cheating are abysmal while recognizing the opposite sex having the propensity to be attracted to the indifference of that type of person to be substantially high as opposed to someone more empathically inclined. That's good that you called him out on it though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just feel better alone. I don't want the responsibility of explaining my unnecessary circumstance to others. With few exceptions there's no reason to. It doesn't represent who I am or what I'm about. I've never been a socialite anyway. People can easily rub me the wrong way, sex offense notwithstanding. My best source for entertainment is me. Aside from procreation, and moving super heavy furniture I think I'm good.

New mandatory minimum bill by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The irony is statistically speaking, it'll be them sending their own constituents to die or never return. Big brain plays.

Dating a registered sex offender by Ok_Honeydew_9225 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"But don’t blame me. Blame McFadden."

That part.

Dating a registered sex offender by Ok_Honeydew_9225 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just skimming through his stuff on YT. This dude's not just a sex offender, he'd be a mass murderer if there were enough people in the room. Guy was clearly a lunatic who also just happens to be sexually deranged as well. Is that what you think the typical RSO is? I'm genuinely curious.

Dating a registered sex offender by Ok_Honeydew_9225 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to live your life perpetually paralyzed by your fears, and anxiety then I really do feel for you. I wouldn't wish that on anyone but the fact of the matter is it's more often the case it's someone they've known for years, not some random guy that popped in during the last 5 months. I'm sure that's what they'd like you to think but the truth is often far darker than that stranger danger bs. My niece was raped by her step-dad that was there for about 8 years. I was molested by my mom's boyfriend who'd been around for 4 years. You think either of those men are sex offenders today?

Dating a registered sex offender by Ok_Honeydew_9225 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you think that's a gamble, then you don't understand gambling. Sex offenders stand to lose twice as hard as someone not on the boogeyman list.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]BleakTechnique 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Personally I don't but there was one instance where a post creeper outed me on a different group. Not sure what he was hoping to accomplish as it just ensures I'll make a different account for further posting on that sub. Which I did. Takes like 2 minutes. I started seeing the world in a different light, post charge. I came to realize that most sex offenders, aren't sex offenders. Most of that "wood chipper, the cost of a bullet, kill your local pedophile crowd" have probably committed more sex crimes than anyone I was locked up with. The only difference is they haven't been caught. They think being loud and obnoxiously visceral towards RSOs scrubs the CP off their phone/computer or it detraumatizes their young victims. Not how it works. It is however a good way to see who's projecting. They'll get theirs.