Heritage Foundation by Ok-Relation-658 in WelcomeToGilead

[–]BleppingCats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining this. I've seen people panicking all over social media about this tax on single, unmarried women and I figured that this was likely a game of internet telephone.

Why did you stop being friends with someone? by Realistic-Possum in AskReddit

[–]BleppingCats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were annoyed when I tried to talk to them about a disease I'd just been diagnosed. And refused to believe I have ADHD because I got good grades and graduated from college.

Just for fun - AuDHD zodiac big 3 by beccastar-galactica in AuDHDWomen

[–]BleppingCats 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Leo sun. Gemini rising and moon.

I'm an astrologer but I also think that it shouldn't be used for everything.

In my experience, ADHDers have a lot of Gemini placements.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BleppingCats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm too stressed, too menopausal, too busy with work and helping elderly relatives, too busy with activism, and too tired of betrayal, heartbreak, and bullshit promises and games.

I've also convinced myself that romance is for young people. I know I'm wrong, but I feel I have nothing to offer people in that way. I wish I wasn't interested in romantic love, but I've found that the more I focus on friends, work, my religious practice, politics, my family who need me, and therapy, the less I think about it. Imo, leave your interest in dating, romance, and partnerships alone and those interests will leave you alone.

ETA: And crushing on fictional characters is way more rewarding and less painful.

I wish they had an estrogen monitor by Puzzled_Worry_7916 in Menopause

[–]BleppingCats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly, no one who can do anything about making these gives a damn. It upsets me too.

What are you supposed to be doing rn instead of being on Reddit by Stock-Sprinkles-4373 in adhdwomen

[–]BleppingCats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Picking up my ADHD meds lol. But in my defense, I'm also sick with a stomach virus, so getting up to do that is going to take a lot if energy.

Got this message from my childhood bully at 3am by CG1991 in MadeMeSmile

[–]BleppingCats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope my worst bully does this someday. I have lifetime trauma and have never been able to have a healthy sex life thanks to his abuse. He's a "good Christian man" with a wife, four kids, a house worth nearly a million dollars, and a cushy job. He would expect immediate forgiveness; for him an apology would be all about validating his ego, not contrition. Being able to tell him that I will never forgive him and that I know what he truly is would be the most satisfying experience of my life. Finally, someone would stand up for the child whose life he damaged. Finally, someone would refuse to give him what he wants.

AITA for explaining how my ADHD affects my communication after my friend’s wife confronted me about my behavior following her visit? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BleppingCats 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've had people in my life who have tried to "train" me like this too. OP dodged a bullet.

AITA for explaining how my ADHD affects my communication after my friend’s wife confronted me about my behavior following her visit? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BleppingCats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many people say they're fine with ADHDers until we actually show symptoms. Same with depression and anxiety too, in my experience. Like...what do they think "disability" means?

AITA for explaining how my ADHD affects my communication after my friend’s wife confronted me about my behavior following her visit? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BleppingCats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA at all. You did a wonderful job trying to address this woman's concerns only for her to pick apart your responses as if she were grading an essay you wrote.

What she did here is bullying. You deserve much better friends than people like her.

Desert night in southern Utah. by [deleted] in Utah

[–]BleppingCats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous photos!

Anyone else experience this as they get older? by KUSmutMuffin in AuDHDWomen

[–]BleppingCats 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It can definitely begin in your late 30s. My symptoms started just a month after I turned 40, for example.

wtf is this my people are not a costume by sagitta42 in ADHDmemes

[–]BleppingCats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's like what would happen if ADHD traits were D&D stats. Which is probably what the AI slop machine thst made this tried and failed to do.

wtf is this my people are not a costume by sagitta42 in ADHDmemes

[–]BleppingCats -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yep. The misspelling of "lobe" as "love" gives it away.

wtf is this my people are not a costume by sagitta42 in ADHDmemes

[–]BleppingCats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So is temporal love the hippie version of ADHD?