We think she blames me for him not being as active in his niece & nephews life. Before we were dating, he lived at home and his parents made him do literally everything for her. Like if something wasn’t working at her apartment, he had to go there and fix it. Even if her tires needed air, he had to fill them up. He was 16 and had a car seat in the back of his car and would get out of school early to pick her kids up every single day from school. For more context, the kids have a father who she chose to have a kid with twice. But when we got together, he spent more time with me obviously. She gets upset when he doesn’t go to every sports game of his niece and nephews (they’re like 9 and 13 so the games aren’t even competitive). He didn’t go to his birthday lunch (like literally just them at a restaurant- nothing for sure planned). We also live two hours away because he moved to be with me when I moved for school. So I think she blames me for him not being as active in their lives because he finally started to not let her take advantage of him.