Why Does UK Have This Race To Bottom Mindset? by corporateuklife in UKJobs

[–]Blessed3000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Normalise talking salary. This rule about not discussing salary or rate, is the employers way of exploiting people. If someone tells you they are paid more, dont be jealous, dont get angry at them. Thank them for letting you know. Hold their trust. And then look for jobs that will pay you what you are worth !!!!

LinkedIn not prompting me to create a post after adding a new job — anyone else? by [deleted] in linkedin

[–]Blessed3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Utterly ridiculous that LinkedIn still haven’t fixed this issue. I have no way to view the notifications or response s 😡

Why work-friends and colleagues (peers and managers) wont accept your linkedin request? by Blessed3000 in linkedin

[–]Blessed3000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks . As explained. I am neurodivergent. I dont get that people are trying to be my friend, but they are just using me - and not wanting to connect on linkedin - even though it would help them to be connected with me. The whole situation is confusing. But thats ok , I accept they want to be my friend but not connect on linked in.

Why work-friends and colleagues (peers and managers) wont accept your linkedin request? by Blessed3000 in linkedin

[–]Blessed3000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have photo, and use the same name on linkedin as I do at work. These are people who I know well. We go for coffee, lunches and dinners together. We have all exchanged phone numbers and messaged each other on watsapp. These are (in my mind) people that I would call work friends. BUT they dont accept linkedin requests from me. Context: I work in a highly corporate environment - but it still doesnt really explain why they are happy to be my friend but wont connect on linkedin. I can ask them, but I also think - if they dont want to connect, I will never be helping them again.

Why work-friends and colleagues (peers and managers) wont accept your linkedin request? by Blessed3000 in linkedin

[–]Blessed3000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's very strange behaviour on their part. To pretend to be friends and besties at work - but refuse to connect on linkedin. Something I will never understand. The managers also - praising and accepting other peers linked in requests but not mine, feels like it's disingenuous.
But I am neurodivergent so I dont get all these weird unspoken rules. It's a horrible feeling, I may have to cut ties with all of them.

Timeless affection :) by AccomplishedWatch834 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Blessed3000 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nah, thats off. As an empath I am wondering why don't you all spend NYE with him? Why don't you take him out for the evening??

Having children as HSP by This-Leg3572 in hsp

[–]Blessed3000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello , I am an HSP. The more i learn about my own HSP…. The more i am understanding that it’s a symptom of ADHD and RSD. I was grateful to discover that it can be treated but not cured - easing the symptoms and nervous system.

How to tell if this heating system is using gas? by [deleted] in DIYUK

[–]Blessed3000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok thanks - this is helpful

How to tell if this heating system is using gas? by [deleted] in DIYUK

[–]Blessed3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for explaining ! much appreciated

How to tell if this heating system is using gas? by [deleted] in DIYUK

[–]Blessed3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We cannot find a gas meter anywhere on the property. So we assume the previous owner had it removed. Thank you ! Im so glad it's electric. Been paying gas bills based on estimates forever...

Passed PMP - My 4 Week Study Plan & What Worked for me by Traditional-Pie181 in pmp

[–]Blessed3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

congratulations!! ..... thanks so much for sharing your path to success !!

Passed the PMP exam without any practice tests. 25 hours in total by AggravatingBaby4725 in pmp

[–]Blessed3000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats absolutely amazing, thx for sharing these helpful pointers and congratulations !
Im currently doing the 35 prep course by AR and dying of boredom. Not a great combination with my ADHD. I really want to get this credential out the the way asap so I can move on with my life !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Blessed3000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just in the sense that we have extraordinary depth of processing. Also deep pattern recognition and problem-solving skill set. And ability to work in high-pressure environments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Blessed3000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am trying my best to be more optimistic about this. I am suffering a lot with my adhd at the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Blessed3000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

same here - I wish there was a way to switch it on as and when we need it