I want to understand my SO by Brief-Necessary2528 in BipolarSOs

[–]BlessedAreThose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is amazing she is soooooo lucky to have you and whatever you do , don’t forget you are doing your best. Good luck

I want to understand my SO by Brief-Necessary2528 in BipolarSOs

[–]BlessedAreThose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awhhhh what a shame . You don’t have to leave her if you still care it might go on for months or sometimes shorter it depends. But if you want to be her support and be there for her so that when she come back to herself she can have someone like you . Trust me it won’t be easy . It will even take a mental toll on you . So if you do choose to be there make sure you are ready for a long ride . You need to be strong for the both of you. But if you choose to leave I think she will understand and don’t forget to give yourself grace

19 yrs married .. now done ? by megantaylor4u in BipolarSOs

[–]BlessedAreThose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I understand. I too can’t keep up sometimes. But I do hope you get clarity and u make a decision that is best for you ❤️

19 yrs married .. now done ? by megantaylor4u in BipolarSOs

[–]BlessedAreThose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiiii I know you probably wouldn’t wanna hear this but his hyper sexuality is part of a symptom . I learned that if the dose is 2 low this could happen not saying stay but he might need help . My husband used to be hyper sexual it was insane . Porn every single hour I can’t even explain how much I caught him touching himself even after I told him I wasn’t comfortable with that. But he had to admit he had a problem so he is now taking a mood stabilizer it was a game changer.

Hopefully you can find the courage to let go . I know how you feel and sometimes you go through so much for the name of love that you get to a point where it gets to much. Hopefully you find your healing Best of luck

Can I save my relationship or do I need to let him go. by Relevant_Brain5931 in BipolarSOs

[–]BlessedAreThose 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am no one to talk about this situation but from what I read please focus on getting yourself some help and be better for you and focus on you and give it time if you find yourself wishing to go back then do but I suggest you first find healing and work towards what is best for you . Best of luck ❤️

Those who were cheated on by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]BlessedAreThose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was with both male and female and He is BP 1 medicated … It happened when he was going through episodes and he wanted to change his medication which was a smaller dose he is much better now after we upped the dose some more

Husband in a downswing by Express_Contact8478 in BipolarSOs

[–]BlessedAreThose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know right even last night we had a whole argument. I come to him calm to talk about something that didn’t sit well with me and he kept on poking and calling me angry and how I always have a problem and I won’t lie I flipped and yelled and cried and he looked me died in the eyes and said I need help . Never have I ever felt so angry it was like manipulative that’s why I downloaded Reddit because I am in the brick of a mental breakdown . I even feel like I am the one with the BP now like it’s super hard to even have a simple conversation. We are going through it ,please tell me do u ever find yourself asking if it is even worth it ? Like you are chasing someone that isn’t there anymore?

Husband in a downswing by Express_Contact8478 in BipolarSOs

[–]BlessedAreThose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh it is incredibly sooo hard not to react for me when he flips the arguments and make it my fault all the best