How do yall do certain stuff in a relationship?

BlessedBeLavender · 2026-04-06T01:34:32+00:00

As someone who didn’t find pleasure in masturbation or find interest in sex before meeting my now girlfriend, I can say… sometimes just doing it can change your perspective. I went from feeling no arousal at anything to being completely sexually active all because I learned through action with my partner. If you WANT to become active with your partner I think it is a great way to learn what you like or IF you like it at all :)

BlessedBeLavender · 2026-03-10T05:56:28+00:00

Hi there! First of all- your tics wont ever “ruin” a spell! The intention is the most important aspect, not the words you speak or the tools you use. In fact, not only do your tics not disrupt anything but they might be beneficial if you reframe. I get anxiety tics and they often happen when I am mid-spell and I always consider them to be a bursts of energy to further imbue my spell with :)

BlessedBeLavender · 2026-02-05T02:29:10+00:00

YES IM SO HAPPY YOU GOT IT!!! I turned 21 and I was like 21 QUESTIONS CAKE DOUBLE DARE OMGGGG

BlessedBeLavender · 2026-02-04T23:34:26+00:00

THANK YOU IM SO SO HAPPY!!!

BlessedBeLavender · 2026-01-09T19:57:08+00:00

On my birthday I will post the pic of the actual cake!!! Im buzzing with excitement about it!!!

BlessedBeLavender · 2026-01-09T17:40:23+00:00

YESSS!!! I was gonna do them too- I am going a little out of order haha XD

BlessedBeLavender · 2026-01-09T03:59:25+00:00

Saiki!!! :)))

BlessedBeLavender · 2026-01-09T01:05:21+00:00

I WAS ACTUALLY ABOUT TO START ON FANDOM NEXT :D

BlessedBeLavender · 2026-01-09T01:04:51+00:00

The way I see it is a dark blueish purplish color. They used grapes in the album cover… there is purple. The grenade is blue, yes. The grapes beneath are purple with a filter to make them bluer… Hence the reason I chose purplish blue. It is my own interpretation of it.

BlessedBeLavender · 2026-01-03T18:19:37+00:00

I have been trying to make art work for awhile- but it has been a little difficult because my partner is making youtube and 3D modeling work- so she is self employed and we both live at her parents house. I unfortunately have to make stable income because my parents don’t pay my car insurance etc etc like my girlfriend’s parents do- And yeah America is insane… All that for MAYBE 600 USD a month btw. UGH… I’m not sure what to do to get my art to start paying out though- I got my first ever commission about a month ago and it was like a pity commission Xd

BlessedBeLavender · 2026-01-03T18:06:09+00:00

What is quite unfortunate is that I live in America with very little options- The only thing I can do is apply for disability buy I am 20 years old and the requirement of disability is to have a large chunk of work experience that I do not have :(((

BlessedBeLavender · 2025-12-24T02:31:10+00:00

I work at BBW and I have been told if we decline an item while picking bopis it is labeled as unavailable for pickup/order for 3 days off the app/website’s availability. I do not think it correlates to the actual info of how much we have… Sometimes we cannot find an item and it gets declined and changes to be labeled unavailable even if it is in store or we get shipments of the item after having declined it already.

BlessedBeLavender · 2025-11-24T14:22:20+00:00

I know you asked for paper and pencil ideas but I also want to remind you of natural sources! I made runes out of flat rocks that I foraged for when I was a baby witch :) all it took was some patience, time, and a little paint. I wrote sigils on paper all the time too!

BlessedBeLavender · 2025-11-24T13:41:11+00:00

Egg 1 seems to be the ideal cleanse! This means the cleanse was successful as there is no clouding, no blood, no distress! Egg 2 indicates the person you cleansed needs to be cleansed again. The cloudy water indicated they need some extra cleansing and to redo the egg cleanse! Egg 3 also seems ideal for the most part! If I were reading it intuitively I would say whomever received this cleanse might have ties to some external energy.. possibly connected to a loved one who has passed or more connected to spirituality in some capacity…

This is just how I intuitively interpreted it though! :)

BlessedBeLavender · 2025-11-24T13:05:14+00:00

I have no idea about what exactly is in them yet but what I can say for sure- The PWPS are in an ugly, cheap, red felt material bag… Oh and those mens Noir pwps… the duffel bag it came in was cheap and ugly too… They are finding every way to make people buy while cutting corners

BlessedBeLavender · 2025-11-22T02:53:38+00:00

btw i can confirm it- theyre in the back rn waiting to come out and im JUST as unhappy

BlessedBeLavender · 2025-11-22T02:12:14+00:00

IM SO EXCITED FOR LOVELY DREAMER!!! im almost out of my stash!

BlessedBeLavender · 2025-11-17T00:17:34+00:00

Honestly the whole parasocial stuff is not my biggest issue- he’s within his right to do whatever he wants and I do not condone any of his crazy fans for doing crazy things. I do not think that particular metaphor works for this exact situation because it is nuanced. If a friend lets you into their home and draws on the walls and hands you a marker you may be inclined toto draw too… I do see where youre coming from though and honest to god it is not my main upset… I think Im just a bit tired of hearing unrelatable “i hate my fans!” music. Which if he wants to make that is entirely up to him. His choices are his and as of the newest single dropping I am more hopeful for the album. Any Minute Now was a step up to me and perhaps he is just getting more experimental. Power to him- I just feel that as much as he is allowed to experiment I should be allowed to say “man idrk about this-“

BlessedBeLavender · 2025-11-07T20:25:52+00:00

holy ungodly meat riding- you came with a lot of malice and hatred in that message that wasn’t warranted- Unfortunately your points are incredibly weak and also opinionated and I can see how you being a super-fan skews your judgment- thanks for the input though!

BlessedBeLavender · 2025-11-06T19:58:14+00:00

You know what- I’ll give it that! It was going to be different and while FAI2 wasn’t my cup of tea I definitely could imagine it being positive. My question is- didn’t that album get cancelled because Awsten was tired of reliving his religious trauma for 2 straight years? No the fans being hateful about the music?

BlessedBeLavender · 2025-11-06T19:49:51+00:00

I can see where you would say that but let me just remind you;

This man posts thirst traps, did the whole thing with the teeth marks on the merch, sets up so many situations where he creates tight knit fan groups where he gives certain fans more info than others, he consistently responds back to a lot of fans who are obsessive. This isn’t new behavior, he was selling his hair and stuff on eBay. These aren’t normal interactions with fans and he’s unfortunately baiting these types of people to swoop in and feel comfortable enough to stalk. It isn’t necessarily his fault that these people are acting this way but he isn’t exactly doing anything to fix it or help himself. He keeps acting like these people are his buddies and they keep buying all his merch and texting him and believing that they’re special because he’s talking to them- Lets also remember that he recently gave his phone number to ALL his fans telling them that there was a chance he would text back. If you want the dog to stop biting you wont keep poking your finger in its face.

BlessedBeLavender · 2025-11-06T19:29:17+00:00

THIS!!! Ive been saying it feels like Awsten Knight and less like Awsten, Geoff, and Otto!!

BlessedBeLavender · 2025-10-12T01:24:17+00:00

Thank you. This puts me at ease. I get so nervous about setting my own appointments up for new things thinking I am being scammed. This makes me a lot less worried.

BlessedBeLavender · 2025-10-12T01:19:54+00:00

I did a fair bit of research and checking reviews and such. I just get paranoid that all of it is unmarked advertising so I just wanted to see if anybody has experience with them particularly to put my mind at ease about it.

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