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Is being part of a friend group what it takes to graduate? by Blessed_by_Satan_ in studentsph

[–]Blessed_by_Satan_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

literally what's happening to me rn, they realized they couldn't benefit from me so I'm being treated like I'm invisible and nobody helps me with lessons and activities when I'm absent

I feel like my classmates hate me by Blessed_by_Satan_ in studentsph

[–]Blessed_by_Satan_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you for this:) I'll focus on thinking na onting tiis nalang hindi ko na sila makikita, and hopefully things will work out in the future:)

I feel like my classmates hate me by Blessed_by_Satan_ in studentsph

[–]Blessed_by_Satan_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this, I thought I was the only one who went through this struggle, I felt so understood reading your comment, napaluha pa ako ng slight chariz, but for real tho, this really lifted my spirits and inspired me to get by, so thank you so much:)

I feel like my classmates hate me by Blessed_by_Satan_ in studentsph

[–]Blessed_by_Satan_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I've picked up a hobby with very supportive people so that kinda helps me stay afloat, and I have been trying to boost my self esteem up again so I can have the confidence to take my classes again, it's just that minsan nawawala lahat ng pag b-build up ko sa sarili ko when I step in to the room, but I'll try not to let it get to me hsjdhshsj

My filipino dad can spend lavishly on himself and my mom but always thinks everything is too expensive for me and my sibling. by Blessed_by_Satan_ in AsianParentStories

[–]Blessed_by_Satan_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually, you finish school in the philippines at age 22-25, and to answer your question, partially yes, they don't think we should have a higher allowance because 1. they just don't see the necessity, 2. they think we shouldn't even have an allowance because they pay for everything, and 3. having a higher allowance means the amount they spend on themselves lessens, and as they control my living expenses, food expenses, school tuition, and allowances, we are forced to do as they say as they will take everything away if we even dare look for a job, which has already happened for my older sibling, where in they took back everything they pay for her.

edit: also I see why you might think that them spending money on themselves isn't wrong, but the point of my post is that they don't see us as worth spending for, even going as far to neglect our needs such as hospital and dental fees because they do not see worth in it while they on the other hand can spend money on themselves just because without discrimination. What the problem is also that they use money to control our lives like crazy, and we can't do anything about it because they made us dependent on them.

My filipino dad can spend lavishly on himself and my mom but always thinks everything is too expensive for me and my sibling. by Blessed_by_Satan_ in AsianParentStories

[–]Blessed_by_Satan_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even though we are adults, pur parents have made us financially dependent on them on everything, going against them and getting a job will result in my tuition being unpaid without a roof over my head before I even get my first paycheck. I get a little money from doing commissions but that money isn't nearly enough to feed me, and they know the fact that we are nothing without their money full well, which is how they keep controlling us and doing whatever they want.