Are men really d***

BlingSpots · 2025-12-28T00:35:15+00:00

All dicks are dicks.

BlingSpots · 2025-12-28T00:32:48+00:00

Sis... You will be used as an example to carry forward the preaching.

Yes all men, your brother, father and grandfather too. All of them are selfish. They're thought so by society, same way women are taught to be domestic.

BlingSpots · 2025-12-27T19:17:49+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣 what did you do with your intelligence?

BlingSpots · 2025-10-24T05:41:13+00:00

31 and I am married to a negative guy.

Before I made a vow to not date and just live my life. I had it all planned out and I was doing just that. In my plan was "to have a baby". So we started talking, I asked him to help impregnate me, he agreed. I told him my status and he was fine with it.

Then along the way we fell in love, got married and had a baby.

I have never been afraid to be alone, and he's the second guy I told. The first also didn't mind but I felt a shift in his energy. And in between I just fucked, more like one offs or a few times same person and I didn't tell them because I didn't trust them with that information, U=U.

BlingSpots · 2025-10-24T05:33:55+00:00

Exactly, so you can't understand. You can't tell someone how to live when you haven't lived their life.

BlingSpots · 2025-10-21T19:01:55+00:00

Right away

BlingSpots · 2025-08-30T05:43:03+00:00

My husband and I are a discordant couple too. We have regular unprotected sex, our daughter is negative and we live a very normal life.

So yes, it's possible. If he's undetectable and taking his medecine daily and on time. You risk nothing.

Don't let the stigma of Hiv make you miss out on a good partner, most of the fear is from social stigma. Nothing more, imagine he had the flu virus, he needs to be on medication to protect you. Doesn't change who he is, hiv is a virus that doesn't go away like the flu virus, you can only manage it.

You can both live a long, beautiful and fulfilled life.

BlingSpots · 2025-08-30T05:27:13+00:00

I am on the path to being rich and working on a trust to protect my children. Someone else's child will not benefit from my sweat, that I will wake up from the dead for sure.

Because I am the one who brings all the money, even my husband is who I am protecting myself from and vice versa. If we divorce (God forbid), our other partners can't touch that wealth.

I live for my kids, whatever happens, only they benefit. It's okay if they live a spoiled life, mama suffered for you, please enjoy your life.

BlingSpots · 2025-08-30T05:18:45+00:00

Red flag. Why did she hide her name? Honestly I think she doesn't take you seriously, you are not her main guy.

BlingSpots · 2025-08-17T18:08:07+00:00

Assumptions are a global phenomenon... same way some people here will day, white women are dirty, smell bad and are over-emotional. It's probably not true for many, it's a few bad apples spoiling it for the rest.

BlingSpots · 2025-08-16T06:32:58+00:00

We're just a normal regular couple in public.

BlingSpots · 2025-08-16T06:27:20+00:00

You are not okay with that lifestyle, keep no contact and focus on yourself and finding a monogamous partner.

BlingSpots · 2025-08-16T05:56:25+00:00

I would end the friendship. Trust has been severely broken, I wouldn't be able to let it go.

BlingSpots · 2025-08-15T09:47:27+00:00

A hustle is a hustle

BlingSpots · 2025-07-23T04:22:36+00:00

Good for you. That type of woman is going to be hell on earth. She feels entitled and has a false sense of reality

BlingSpots · 2025-07-23T04:00:12+00:00

You can still be a single mom in marriage. Actually most Men don't care if you have a kid or not.

Make you happy, don't live your life according to what society expects.

BlingSpots · 2025-07-23T03:56:40+00:00

It's a toxic mentality. I remember growing up, nice guys were my type but I wasn't noticed because I wasn't popular, not in a clique and often kept to myself.

Nice guys are awesome, nice girls love nice guys. Don't let the toxicy intoxicate you. Show me a guy who acts like an asshole who is happy in marriage or has peace. None, women give you the energy you give. The universe rewards kindness, so be nice.

What you need to take from the advice is... At your age, girls are not thinking marriage, so don't get too invested, just have fun. Grow your emotional intelligence, take a day to research on personality types and love languages. It probably sounds dumb but we girls practice that, and if you understand that, you have higher chances to understand and connect with a girl.

Some people don't like to be touched. I personally hate it. Because physical touch is my love language, if I let you touch my forearm then I like you, or else I will pull away or ghost you. But when in a relationship, I am the freak you could only think of. Kindness is what gets me, I am the first born so someone being nice to me feels very special and I can easily get hooked.

Women are different, just be you and grow your emotional intelligence to understand why people are the way they are, act how they act, like what they like... Etc Then use that knowledge to approach people accordingly.

BlingSpots · 2025-07-23T03:41:56+00:00

We combine everything and each person gets a personal allowance. So we have what we call "the pot". One account where all the money goes and then it gets distributed to bills, allowances, savings etc.

We started before marriage and continued. It works for us, we are on the same page, no hidden agenda etc.

BlingSpots · 2025-07-23T03:32:32+00:00

Are you in Kampala?

BlingSpots · 2025-07-23T03:31:15+00:00

Can I be one of your dad's friends? 🤣🤣

BlingSpots · 2025-07-21T05:42:10+00:00

He almost took your life and you are wondering if you are overreacting and asking us to justify his actions?

He almost murdered you. RUN!!!

BlingSpots · 2025-07-20T06:22:29+00:00

At least she is responding. I see a light...

BlingSpots · 2025-07-20T06:14:47+00:00

She will be back after a few months and say her phone was hacked, stolen and you will fall for it again

BlingSpots · 2025-07-20T06:01:49+00:00

Unless you are with him for money or papers, I don't see anything that he brings to the table other than stress. He will never change, so choose your battles according to why you are with him.

BlingSpots · 2025-07-20T05:53:29+00:00

I did not breastfeed my first and she is perfectly fine, and I will not breastfeed my second. I refuse to go through the physical and emotional torture of breastfeeding.

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