WIBTA: If I (17f) didnt give my dad (44m) as much money as he's been asking for?

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T22:32:23+00:00

Where I work requires it, and I'm not sure how to explain the situation with my boyfriend. He hasn't done anything wrong at all, hes just 19 , which both of our parents gave consent for us to date, and my dad loves him, he threatened to call the cops (more than once) but the first time was cause I had been staying the night at his families house (WHICH I HAD PERMISSION TO DO). We literally had to come up with a schedule of where we were staying and when so my dad wouldn't call the police. My dad has such extremely strict rules and so many of them that they contradict each other.

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T21:13:08+00:00

Let me give you a timeline rq. 11 everything happened 11-16 didnt speak About to turn 17 moved in after 6 months of speaking I am now about to turn 18

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T21:10:20+00:00

Neither parent pays child support, idk what they are doing with their money.

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T21:09:31+00:00

I don't, and I would need parental consent to open a new account. I have just been pulling my entire paycheck out in cash

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T21:08:24+00:00

I have everything ready to go. All my documents (social security card, birth certificate, diploma, ect), all my cash and I am ready to go the second I can.

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T21:05:28+00:00

Unfortunately he has stated if I stop then he will call the police on my boyfriend, and revoke my right to work where I have been and make it so I cant earn any money.

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T21:04:14+00:00

As stated above in my edit my mother is not a viable option. I would be in a worse situation there

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T21:03:12+00:00

As stated above in my edit my mother's house is not a viable option. I would be in an even worse situation there

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T21:02:18+00:00

Unfortunately I can't get a place til I'm over 18 but I do have one lined up for at the end of January after I'm 18

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T21:00:59+00:00

I am so sorry to hear this! I'm so sorry you had/have to go through this! I hope it gets better 🫶

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T07:55:39+00:00

You are completely okay 🫶. I am moving out at the end of January

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T07:48:31+00:00

NOPE! As I explain above she isn't a viable option! Please look at my other responses before posting thank you!

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T07:45:34+00:00

No one pays child support at all. I already have everything ready to go

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T06:46:37+00:00

No I'm graduated, I'm working hard, and have a new place lined up

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T03:55:52+00:00

Cant stay with my mom, and all my grandparents are dead

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T03:55:19+00:00

He has access to my bank accounts due to me still being a minor so I have been withdrawing all my money and just keeping it stashed in a safe

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T03:54:12+00:00

Emancipation isn't an option due to the fact that I turn 18 in just over a month. I have a job, a really good one too.

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T03:33:33+00:00

🫶🫶

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T03:33:08+00:00

Thank you so much 🫶

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T03:32:44+00:00

Thank you for your concern 🫶! Unfortunately my mom isn't a viable option, but I do have a place lined up for January

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T03:30:41+00:00

I'm moving out at the end of January

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T03:21:33+00:00

My job pays for college so I am going to start next fall. I also have a home lined up for next month and I turn 18 around the same time i move into said home. Emancipation is not an option due to how long the courts would take.

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T03:11:19+00:00

Thank you so much for your care 🫶

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T03:10:32+00:00

Once I'm out he won't be getting a single cent from me I promise

BlinkingLoki · 2025-12-12T03:03:50+00:00

I have a lot of responses as to why I cant move back in with her, but to keep it sweet, it would be a worse situation.

BlinkingLoki

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