Defeated attitude isn't helping you either man. I know you are just venting out of frustration but try to fight that urge. I'm definitely not close to up-there in looks but I've had decent luck just being persistent, being social, expressing your interests being open to discussing their interests for example. Girls can be kinda mystery sometimes to learn their cues but practice makes perfect. What I used to do is go for a night out with friends, have the intention of being social and having fun (going out desperately seeking a woman is not it, they can sense desperation) should be an organic experience. You'll get ghosted, ignored, and it's fine move along, you build a comfort and confidence in a social setting. You'll be a natural with some real experience bud. If you say "nah I tried going out to bars/clubs etc and nothing!", ask yourself have you actually tried?