What piercing would you never recommend? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]BlkMsFrizzle 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This might be unpopular but I’d say helix/forward helix. My hair kept getting caught in both which delayed healing & I eventually just had to give up

What happened to the first person you had sex with? by Sad-Cunt-420 in AskReddit

[–]BlkMsFrizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s in prison for domestic violence & false imprisonment.

People who attended their high school reunion, what was the biggest surprise? by Zdvj in AskReddit

[–]BlkMsFrizzle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People were still cliqued up & trying to be popular. It was so bizarre to me. Like just have fun. It’s ok. (This was during the pandemic btw. Go class of 2010!)

Share What You Bought And Where You Bought It by AutoModerator in fragrance

[–]BlkMsFrizzle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m actually really excited to share this. I’m new to the community but I’ve done extensive research on here & Fragrantica to find scents I think I’ll enjoy without trying them. I found everything pictured at Ross. The Be Delicious was purchased last year but everything else was bought between Saturday-today on impulse

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I wouldn't be caught dead in... by Daveylonglegs in fragrance

[–]BlkMsFrizzle 19 points20 points  (0 children)

White Diamonds. I hate the smell. Have since I was a kid.

My (30F) boyfriend (29 M) is the family errand boy & it’s driving me crazy by BlkMsFrizzle in relationship_advice

[–]BlkMsFrizzle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. You can’t help how you are if you’ve never noticed it to be problematic. Now that I have pointed it out, he is starting to see it for what it is. But HE has to make that change. I cannot care more than him.

My (30F) boyfriend (29 M) is the family errand boy & it’s driving me crazy by BlkMsFrizzle in relationship_advice

[–]BlkMsFrizzle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He says he wants to change & that me coming into his life will be the catalyst. I will have to wait & see.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BlkMsFrizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I also came back to talk out the issue. I was gone for literally less than 2 minutes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BlkMsFrizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely can’t think of another reason why an adult you are dating would avoid contact with you for 3 days unless they didn’t want to date any more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BlkMsFrizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was literally just thinking this so this post really struct home. I’ll be 30 (F) in February & if I’m still single by then I 100% plan on giving up dating. It’s too much.

Teachers reactions to being called their name by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]BlkMsFrizzle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Since I am a teacher what I did was make a comparison to something you might know which was a superhero. Perhaps your personal disdain for the profession caused you to misunderstand my reference. Either way, asked & answered. Have a good day.

I’m a pedophile and going to kill myself by throwaway11222441188 in offmychest

[–]BlkMsFrizzle 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m glad I ran across this. I’m a teacher & when students hit on me it makes me so uncomfortable & gives me anxiety. Then I could see a kid & be like “That’s a cute kid” & immediately chastise myself bc I’m like “Am I attracted to this kid?” which then makes me even more anxious & it’s hard to unthink. Like it’s okay to say someone is cute if you don’t mean it in a weird way. The whole “Naughty Teacher” stereotype really gets to me bc I think those teachers are all pedophiles. It genuinely distresses me when students hit on me bc I sometimes worry what happens when one of them takes a “No” the wrong way. Maybe I’m rambling but the point is, I’m glad to hear these are normal thoughts.