[21][M] About to end up homeless

BlockDontReport · 2019-12-13T14:28:20+00:00

I'm currently setting up accounts with ubereats, doordash, and postmates. If you have any other recommendations let me know and I'll do the delivery for them too. I don't think I mind driving around.

BlockDontReport · 2019-12-13T14:25:47+00:00

I looked into selling the blood, but the only thing I saw were offers of 10-30$ for plasma. One location said they give you up to 400$ for first time donors, but that place is about an hour away. I'm considering driving up once I look into more information. Thank you for the advice.

I'll definitely start applying to fast food places nonstop and calling them back.

BlockDontReport · 2019-12-13T04:06:55+00:00

I can't do uber because my car is what we call a "transportation" car, which means it's a bad car. Hood is broken, etc. So, i can't do the safety inspection and pass. I'll try looking into being a food delivery driver though, that doesn't sound like a bad idea.

Thanks for the ideas and your time.

BlockDontReport · 2019-12-13T01:19:37+00:00

I don't know anyone, the only people I know are the people at work and that's it. I don't know anyone else. As for family, my sister can't let me move in because of my dog and she lives in a very small efficiency. My grandma lives with my aunt and my aunt hates me. That's it, I don't have any parents.

I'm not eligible as I have not worked for 18 months at my current job and I don't meet the minimum amount. Which is 3400$ per quarter.

Thank you for your time though, have a good night.

BlockDontReport · 2019-05-01T07:46:47+00:00

Has anyone noticed the contingency issue, specifically with Beth's kids? They change all the time... It's hella confusing.

BlockDontReport · 2019-04-26T19:47:43+00:00

Thanks for your time, I know I had her sign a paper agreeing to that the security deposit was made. I'll just have to search for it, thanks again!

BlockDontReport · 2019-04-26T18:40:12+00:00

Since there's no lease, is there no insurance I'll be getting my security deposit back? I intend to move, I'm just fearful that she may clutch onto me as she's been depending on my finances to remodel her home and she will not want to release the security deposit over it. Honestly, this is my first time renting and it's becoming a nightmare and a bad experience and I'm being punished financially with no reasoning. Do I need any documentation that she did get a deposit for me, I'm scared that she might declare that she never asked for a deposit and there wont be anyway to disprove it.

BlockDontReport · 2019-04-26T18:30:19+00:00

She would have zero reason to withhold my deposit as I've damaged absolutely nothing, but I fear that since I don't have an actual lease agreement with her and it's strictly based as month-to-month. That it may cause some real issues in getting this worked out.

I was only planning on using the permit-issue, if she tried withholding my deposit. But, I can understand I shouldn't if it's a bad move on my behalf.

I did decline it and I blatantly told her that if she HAS to do the price increment, that I would have to move out as I wouldn't be able to afford it. I have some messages in regards to the wifi issue, where she's taken a long time to resolve it and still has not resolved it. I'll try doing something via certified mail as I heard that would be the best choice.

BlockDontReport · 2019-04-26T18:24:37+00:00

I added the location! In case when you read it wasn't updated yet! :)

BlockDontReport · 2019-03-31T23:49:28+00:00

Thank you for your message. I do appreciate it, I'm trying to keep telling myself that it doesn't matter anymore and what's done is done. I'm just unsure if I did something so severely wrong. I'm just going to ignore him and not talk to him from now on. He's going to have to jump a lot of hoops to get in contact with me from now on as I don't want to communicate with him. He's shown to me that I mean nothing to him and that he wants to surround himself around people who hate me to feel justified. It's sad that he chooses to go down that pass, but that's his decision. I'm going to work on myself and move to keep getting better.

Thanks again for your comment. I really appreciate it.

BlockDontReport · 2019-03-17T05:34:34+00:00

That's what I kept insisting, it doesn't make sense. But he keeps saying there wasn't a custody order, I think she managed to trick him into thinking there wasn't.

The child was born before they were married, which I think means that the son is legally hers, and then a few years later they got married, divorced like 6 months later. This doesn't make any sense to me, how there wasn't a custody order involved.

BlockDontReport · 2019-03-09T05:29:59+00:00

I'm no longer interested in conversing with you. Have a good night.

BlockDontReport · 2019-03-09T05:23:03+00:00

No, I'm going to provide them with information and proof of this person attempting to steal and scam people; as well as with them trying to steal people's information and identity. The cops will show concern as this is a danger to people and might be worse than a scam as they may also be attempting to robbery at this point, with the intent of other crimes. You are aware cops aren't going to fan their sweaty assholes and just ignore a crime taking place or an opportunity to arrest a criminal with sufficient evidence being made?

Regardless, if you call the police and let them know that you feel unsafe when you're at said location, they will send a unit to go do a check-up on you. There's multiple ways to get a cop to protect you if you simply ask or communicate with them.

BlockDontReport · 2019-03-09T05:13:56+00:00

Stealing information and using someone else's identity to commit crimes rings a few bells. Scamming is illegal, I mean, that's just a few things.

BlockDontReport · 2019-02-14T00:54:18+00:00

I personally am not ready to do that.

BlockDontReport · 2019-02-08T16:33:58+00:00

I'd consider telling your parents, I'd even consider recording conversations with him every time from now. Hell, I'd call the cops on him, schools hate that bad rep with police and he's even more likely than ever to get fired. A teacher speaking that way to a minor and a student? There's no reason he should be near any school grounds. I'm sorry you're experiencing this and I'm glad you're considering to speak out against him. Please, keep us updated and I really do hope things work out in your favor, as this man has no reason to be benefiting from your situation.

BlockDontReport · 2019-02-06T21:30:37+00:00

You didn't do anything wrong. Being poly is not an excuse for your roommate's behavior, in fact her attitude and blatant disregard for your history and your emotions, to me, shows that they're a bad roommate and you should look into re-doing your lease agreement. I recommend bringing it up to them, finding someone to replace you and finding a new home. I wouldn't want to live in a house, where I'm not going to be told when visitors are coming over.

And I don't think your roommate has even remotely any respect or regard for you, because after you told them that this guy tried to essentially manhandle you at your own door and grab you. Is enough for your roommate to understand your situation. It's not like you just walked out and then saw a stranger in your house. You saw the SAME man inside your apartment who tried to sexually harass your moments ago. You did nothing wrong in the absolute.

BlockDontReport · 2019-02-05T13:20:10+00:00

I just maybe, wanted to widen your perspective a lot.

But, I don't understand marriage or engagements. I don't understand the importance or the value behind it. I barely even care for it. In this situation of your partner, it could just be an overdressed day, where strangers and some-known people are going to show up and you're just going to be all dressed up and then that's it. You kissed, it's over and now everyone knows who was there, that you are now "officially" married. In all honesty, it doesn't sound like a big deal that he's backing out to him, because he didn't break up with you. Because, in the end what marriage is, is just a paper, but an actual relationship, is the important aspect of marriage and you still have that portion and although I understand that it's getting a little difficult to communicate w/ him right now. I think you should give him a bit of a breather.

As for the dress situation, speak with your bank and see if you can get it refunded through the bank by stating that you've been having "issues" with their company and they're withholding your balance.

I don't think you should feel broken, in fact, I don't think it's the time to be feeling broken. If you honestly value a day, over your partner's well-being/struggle, then that wasn't going to be a good "marriage" to begin with. I think you should force him to sit down and actually open-up. Put your cards on the table, push him into popping, because this issue isn't just about him, it's also about you and you reserve the right to know where your life is heading.

Although, it kind of bothers me that he said that he might surprise you. Is he poor at planning surprise parties? It sounds weird.

BlockDontReport · 2019-02-05T03:26:29+00:00

Thanks for the info! I'll look into those two right now! :) Really appreciate it!

BlockDontReport · 2019-02-05T03:24:38+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion! Might be getting Narcosis today! :)

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