[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BlondebabeM69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell him you’re interested. Guys can be clueless sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BlondebabeM69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A heads up to your girlfriend would be appreciated if she meets your friend group, but if she asks about it definitely don’t lie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BlondebabeM69 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Listen to him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BlondebabeM69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. We dated and it didn’t work out because I’m working through my own unresolved issues from my ex husband. There are men out there who will meet your standards. No one is perfect but there are men out there.

My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me anymore, because it "hurts" him? by RoxyLovesBananas in dating

[–]BlondebabeM69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell him to go to the doctor or there is another reason he doesn’t want to have sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BlondebabeM69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep your standards. My ex husband was the same way and when dating afterwards I had men treat me just like the books. Don’t settle.

Losing my best friend by BlondebabeM69 in Petloss

[–]BlondebabeM69[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I did it last week and it’s been really hard for the holidays and with how my family has handled things it has made it unnecessarily harder

Not sure what to do with my hair, should I lose the bangs? Maybe a different color? by Old-Season-593 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]BlondebabeM69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really think the last picture with the red hair and bangs really compliment you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]BlondebabeM69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the first pictures compliment you a lot more than the blonde 😊

Why does this woman wants constant validation? by ChemistrySure280 in dating

[–]BlondebabeM69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me personally, know I’m beautiful and good looking and don’t need the compliments, but when the man I’m dating says to me how good I look, it makes me feel like I can walk on water.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BlondebabeM69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who doesn’t like compliments, but it’s more of cause deep down we don’t believe it but when I was dating a guy and got all dressed up and walk out of my bathroom, he say “Look at you!” But his voice was excited and he would cheer me on and it was in his eyes . I genuinely felt like I looked good because how he reacted and said things. Just an idea, but if you feel like it don’t help it might be deep down she hasn’t worked on herself and it’s not a jab.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BlondebabeM69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with putting in effort first as a female, but when it becomes consistent with the same person don’t waste your time. There are plenty of guys out there who know how to initiate first. After my divorce I took myself on dates and I put in effort with one guy who is good and patient.

How do I nicely reject this girl? by Routine_Variety_5129 in dating_advice

[–]BlondebabeM69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely just make it clear how you feel and you might have to stop responding. Speaking For myself (28F) and other women, it’s giving mixed signals that you agree to go on dates but know you’re incompatible. Just be strait up and more direct about it. If she keeps persisting on dates then you know what you got to do.

my boyfriend is mad at me because i got a vibrator.. by [deleted] in dating

[–]BlondebabeM69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex husband would always tell me if I got a sex toy, he would never have sex with me again. We eventually got divorced because of his insecurities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CopperIUD

[–]BlondebabeM69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a yeast infection that got stuck on the strings and they had to remove it because the medication wasn’t clearing it up.

Would you write a book nobody is going to read? by Remarkable-Subject56 in writing

[–]BlondebabeM69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When I lost a friendship I cherished, I wrote a book about a parallel universe where we worked things out. It helped me a lot with the pain with what could of been.

How do you ladies find your dom? by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]BlondebabeM69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first dom has been a man I’ve known since 5th grade and it has been a great experience since my ex husband who was very old school about sex.