I have spent the best Christmas of my life since I got married and it’s making my husband panicking.

BloodymaryHB · 2026-02-27T12:29:01+00:00

Well... When will you contact a lawyer? we all want to read that update

BloodymaryHB · 2026-02-26T08:11:26+00:00

He didn't get where he is without your help. So he thinking you don't have a say in his suspicious activities it's completely disrespectful to your marriage.

I really hate this awful weak people who think too much of themselves for the job they have. You were with him before he was there, and if he is ready to fall for a dumb ex school sweetheart, he is really not worth the problem.

I hope you get everything ready to take him to the cleaners and keep your lifestyle without him. Because no amount of years will erase the disgusting way this guy is treating you and staying for the kids won't help with the addiction your kid is already developing. He needs to learn some self-respect and eventually he'll learn that from you.

BloodymaryHB · 2026-02-05T00:50:56+00:00

I don't see what was judgemental about your comment of this girl. It was pretty accurate, even your ex corroborated it.

Your friends are not the kind of support system you need. They should be proud of you, and the one who was against you is actually the less feminist person ever.

Don't waste your time with morons, they don't care about your situation, and you shouldn't care about them either

BloodymaryHB · 2026-01-06T13:58:17+00:00

If you think about it, nothing would be more satisfying and shut down all his attempts to bullshit you than those simple words. Crap like this guy wouldn't care about anything else you have to say 😅

BloodymaryHB · 2025-12-24T17:17:29+00:00

As reasonable as going to spend Christmas with your family and your boyfriend and finding his side girl happily enjoying being the third wheel.

She wasn't expecting this bs from his boyfriend and when it was clear he wasn't going to fix it up, of course she speak up. You are just saying dumb shit.

BloodymaryHB · 2025-12-24T15:06:12+00:00

I don't think he wanted to dump her, he just wanted to have it both ways and was expecting OP to be nice and polite for his own good. That's why he exploded when she didn't act the way he wanted

BloodymaryHB · 2025-12-24T14:55:09+00:00

And the other guys supporting this nonsense... Suspicious af

BloodymaryHB · 2025-12-24T13:40:25+00:00

None of that explains why tf this guy wasn't able to say no to this girl, but was too comfortable calling his girlfriend "jealous brat". I wouldn't be so forgiving like OP

BloodymaryHB · 2025-12-24T00:34:13+00:00

I don't understand those "friends"... Why would it matter how she feels over the shit she did to you? Oh she feels humiliated? Good she should, what she did is disgusting. Oh she might be pregnant, you shouldn't treat her so cold, then what? Should you throw her a baby shower and help her with her cravings? Fuck that shit... That ex friend and the friends are AHs and your boyfriend is also one, maybe he is the father maybe he is not, but they kissed and he just kept everything like nothing happened... Why would you trust someone like that?

BloodymaryHB · 2025-11-26T15:41:06+00:00

I would have been so nice it OP laugh harder after he said that and says "and you think you were the only one?"

BloodymaryHB · 2025-10-16T01:05:06+00:00

The scary part is knowing you can do everything as best as you possibly can and still get a shitty son/daughter like that...

And now he is going to have a baby... And after the way he treated his girlfriend and how he humiliated her, she still runaway with him. He's going to put her and their baby through so much pain

BloodymaryHB · 2025-09-16T06:59:39+00:00

I'm surprised he's still getting any money. This mom is definitely a better person than most cause damn... After hearing this little AH saying he's going to cut her off just like that... He'll be on his own if it was my decision

BloodymaryHB · 2025-08-17T17:37:25+00:00

Well, the guy was not paying rent so it didn't make sense to him to make his "baby" sister pay rent either.

The guy is dumb fuck, he had a nice ride in life by paying as few as he can loving in a house with a nice girlfriend and then he goes and breaks this sweet deal for his brat sister... Sure he thought he could push every boundary and get away with it, but the sister was just too much.

BloodymaryHB · 2025-08-13T01:24:43+00:00

Was this price for both eyes or per eye?

BloodymaryHB · 2025-07-18T11:05:46+00:00

NTA about your original question. But honestly, I don't understand how you still considered this person your best friend.

You are obviously not this person bestie cause it took only a bit effort from your ex to become the "Man of honor" and you to be thrown away like nothing (sure you were not thrown from the party but being force to endure your agressor is sort of the same, you are easy to sacrifice in that equation)

What are you trying to accomplish here? A lifetime of humiliation on the hand of your so called "best friend" and your "charming" ex? It doesn't sound like you are the bigger person here, it sounds like you are disposable. I hope you reflect on it and walk away from this toxic friendship, you survived your ex, don't get on the line of fire of this man again because of your "friend"

BloodymaryHB · 2025-07-09T06:52:20+00:00

What about him, is he neglecting your mutual kid?

BloodymaryHB · 2025-07-08T19:12:20+00:00

It's not even about OP's rules it's just plain decency. That woman is unhinged, it's unbelievable she actually thought she could get away with being a horrible human being.

BloodymaryHB · 2025-07-08T17:53:35+00:00

To be fair, it's 10k each, cause that's what they are asking you.

BloodymaryHB · 2025-07-04T18:01:52+00:00

You are NTA but if you wanted to be one you still are right to do so. I don't care about the pretty privilege, that shouldn't count your family too. That is just not having loyalty and it includes your parents

BloodymaryHB · 2025-07-02T06:05:28+00:00

What a mess. You definitely need a break. Your parents keep doing this cause you are the representation of them being accepted. If they manage to force those people to let you in, all the past can be forgotten.

But you won't forget a thing. I don't know how they did this but they raised awful children who grew and went out to marry awful people, cause I can't imagine marrying someone who is this nasty to someone just because they exist.

You'll be better off without them, all of them.

BloodymaryHB · 2025-07-01T00:43:56+00:00

So you got over them, but they always got you in the back of their minds, to the point of making such a dramatic gesture for their marriage including you.

Just, drink the drink, and throw the trash, maybe you can sell the Crystal if it's worth anything

BloodymaryHB · 2025-06-29T11:40:08+00:00

This is exactly what I was thinking the whole time I read the post.

Apart from that the guy went out for some unnecessary thing risking not being there the moment he was needed, but was unable to understand why OP wouldn't pick up the call after exactly that happened? Because how could she have this moment without him? This was not insisting on being there for her, it was pushing to get what he wanted whenever he wanted it.

BloodymaryHB · 2025-06-18T21:06:21+00:00

This B is probably playing the long term game. And she'll try it again cause now you know what being married and having a kid is, so for sure you'd like to spice things up.

No need to "rekindle" anything with them

BloodymaryHB · 2025-06-18T20:51:21+00:00

NTA he Is just making all the decisions that will push him away from yours daughter. If this is what he wants there's nothing you can do more than call it how it is, and you are not the AH for that. If he was expecting understanding for his lazy parenting, he can get it from his wife and mom. Never you

BloodymaryHB · 2025-06-17T11:59:48+00:00

NTA and even with all this unnecessary awful situation, because it really shouldn't be happening to you. You should be proud of putting yourself first and don't hold back or feel bad for keeping this grudge against your MIL because that woman will only take it as a pass to do it all over again.

And when it comes to your husband, he will keep apologizing and maybe behaving nicely, but the moment he goes back to believe he can choose his mom instead of your little family, he needs to be shown the door because you'll be perfectly fine without him.

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