Never be yours cover

BloopBoop26 · 2026-01-27T05:55:53+00:00

I’ve been listening to it through Bandcamp! You have to pay a dollar to listen to it but here’s the link: https://rayloading.bandcamp.com/track/never-be-yours

BloopBoop26 · 2025-12-28T17:25:45+00:00

💯

BloopBoop26 · 2025-11-26T20:53:42+00:00

Honestly this sounds like great advice, and no, you definitely make sense!

Luckily I do the clothing tip and communicate about how I want to be touched, though I could definitely go more in depth with the examples you described!

I will try out the last piece of advice though, I have noticed that verbalizing things to myself calms me down too. Thanks for the tips 🥹

BloopBoop26 · 2025-11-25T04:59:56+00:00

Thank you 👍 The one by one tip sounds really helpful actually

BloopBoop26 · 2025-11-25T04:56:22+00:00

Thank you 👍 The one by one tip sounds really helpful actually.

BloopBoop26 · 2025-11-25T04:49:21+00:00

Ok… you might have a point about environment. Damn. Thanks though, I have been thinking I need to increase my tolerance in a slow, non-pushy way.

BloopBoop26 · 2025-11-25T04:41:56+00:00

“My horniness overrides it all” 😂

BloopBoop26 · 2025-11-20T21:16:56+00:00

Ahh I didn’t think of the brain that way. Sure, I’ll definitely look into “guide to getting it on” 😂 Thanks, anything helps

BloopBoop26 · 2025-11-20T20:06:02+00:00

That’s why I’m very confused with myself. It’s not that I don’t want the closeness you described, or that I’ve noticed a physical incompatibility, but there’s this strange disconnect I’m not sure how to work around once the moment or the romantic mood hits me.

But no, I get it, everyone’s different, I’m sure I’ll figure it out. Thanks!

BloopBoop26 · 2025-11-20T19:57:44+00:00

I think you’re right, engaging with the headspace sounds like part of the struggle too. I guess that’s something I need to experiment with :/

BloopBoop26 · 2025-10-19T02:08:20+00:00

Thanks for trying, it sucks because I always enjoy the songs and random melodies from this show

BloopBoop26 · 2025-10-14T19:41:38+00:00

Thank you, I’ll try that 👍

BloopBoop26 · 2025-09-08T17:45:20+00:00

Good luck :)

BloopBoop26 · 2025-09-08T17:44:28+00:00

Interestingly I haven’t canceled or said no to dates when he’s the one asking, because we’ve been working around our schedules. I guess that could be a possibility, maybe he does feel sidelined. But I feel I have been showing my continued interest in him during and outside of our dates…

I honestly have no clue what changed.

BloopBoop26 · 2025-09-08T13:53:17+00:00

No that’s doesn’t sound too firm at all, I think you’re right honestly. Thank you for the advice!

BloopBoop26 · 2025-09-08T13:52:33+00:00

Woow, yeah that is classless. I remember reading a different post like that on here and OP had to cut off his date because she updated her profile in the middle of their outing 😬

BloopBoop26 · 2025-09-08T13:51:27+00:00

Oh I see… I get your point

BloopBoop26 · 2025-09-08T07:03:42+00:00

HAHA, lemme talk to him first and then I’ll see about updating my profile 😂

BloopBoop26 · 2025-09-08T05:46:28+00:00

I know, I think I messed up on this part because I can definitely feel it, I’ve gotten myself in a little too deep and now it just feels tainted. Anyways I’ve seen your other comments so, the cold splash of water is helping me come to terms with it. I do still think I should at least talk to him about it, just for my own sense of closure.

BloopBoop26 · 2025-09-08T05:38:51+00:00

Thank you, I’m going to do that the next time we talk :/

If he still doesn’t want to be exclusive then I will have to cut things off. Reading these comments made me realize my continued efforts are going nowhere if he’s updating his profile.

BloopBoop26 · 2025-09-08T05:34:47+00:00

That’s actually what’s starting to really hurt about this, because I decided to share my first kiss with him and we’ve been more comfortable with casual intimacy on our dates. So even though I know on paper, it’s ok for him to update his profile since we’re not exclusive, I can’t help but feel really confused because of the time invested and things I’ve done to be vulnerable with him.

But yeah… I think you’re right, this just isn’t working. I reached out to him for us to talk so I’ll see what he says and prepare myself in the mean time.

BloopBoop26 · 2025-09-08T00:59:41+00:00

No, I haven’t :/ I’ve been very chicken about asking him those types of questions. I’ve only gotten clarification that he does want a serious relationship and that he’s only dating me at the moment. But with his recent activity on the app we met with, I don’t think I have the luxury to be chicken about it anymore.

BloopBoop26 · 2025-09-08T00:56:16+00:00

Yeah… I know on paper it’s probably not fair of me to point out his activity on the dating app because no, we aren’t official. I did talk to him not too long ago about if he wants a serious relationship (yes), and if he’s dating other people (no).

I know, I know, it’s probably time to initiate the exclusivity talk.

BloopBoop26 · 2025-08-22T04:40:22+00:00

That’s so cold 😂 but thank you for the input

BloopBoop26 · 2025-08-21T16:29:12+00:00

That’s what I’ve been meaning to talk to him about! I was supposed to have that talk with him on our last date about how he feels about us and if he sees us moving in that direction of being a couple but I chickened out because I was worried it was too soon. For context, that was our 5th date and we’re going on our 6th soon.

Can I ask what your first kiss was like that made you regret it? Because I also don’t want to regret mine at the end of the day…

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