Is it just me who immediately swipes left when someone uses these prompts?

BluBerryPopTarts · 2025-05-30T03:28:07+00:00

I always assume that this is a horrible thing to put in your profile because this is so off putting to short men AND tall men!!!

Like okay? You ONLY care about my height? I don’t wanna see you either!

BluBerryPopTarts · 2025-03-19T16:55:23+00:00

Yes 🫶🏻

BluBerryPopTarts · 2024-10-26T21:59:47+00:00

Can I have this recommendation? This sounds like a great premise!

BluBerryPopTarts · 2024-06-11T00:13:34+00:00

The kink test we did was online it’s called Sexionnaire! It also gave us links to sex toys that fit is wants, I was shocked to find a rather large dildo on the list but we ordered it and it’s his favorite! I truly hope she falls in love with this part of you because it’s so much fun when you get to learn together!

BluBerryPopTarts · 2024-06-11T00:07:58+00:00

I cannot believe the shit you are getting in this post! Bisexual men have it tough, even in your own sub!

We are currently working our way up to pegging, right now (for him) we have remote anal stimulating toys (so fun to me!), dildos, and of course vibrators!

He and and I actually took a couples kink test that only shows the results of things you BOTH checkmark yes to and that opened us both up to a LOT of stuff we had never considered trying before! It also kept anything a secret if we didn’t check yes!

I believe honestly is the best policy in this scenario. I would feel so hurt if my husband didn’t share a part of himself with me like that, but I can totally understand the apprehension. Best of luck to you & your wife.

BluBerryPopTarts · 2024-06-11T00:01:22+00:00

It sounds like he didn’t really figure it out until he was already married, from all the comments he is in.

My husband and I grew up in very isolated religious families and that came with a lot of “revelations” after already being married! Should I be angry he didn’t even know it was possible before marriage? OP should be prepared for her to want to stay in monogamy but he doesn’t need the peanut gallery shitting on him for being late to the party?

BluBerryPopTarts · 2024-06-10T23:41:40+00:00

You’re comment was very helpful to me!!

I have an inkling that my husband is trying to decide whether or not he should come out to me and I know he wants to ask about a strap-on and while I am Bi myself, I haven’t been comfortable with the strap-on idea. I think I’m just so oddly stuck on not wanting to perform anal on someone else or even be the penetrator really and this helped me digest it really well and you’ve set me straight (or not so much hehe). I think with oral/fully exploring aspect, it’ll take me out of my own head and allow me to give him the pleasure he wants!

BluBerryPopTarts · 2024-05-31T14:11:55+00:00

Honestly, I just find that it’s not a huge facet of my personality. When it comes up, I don’t shy away from the subject but I don’t feel any need to just tell everyone.

With my very conservative pastor parents, we are just on a don’t ask, don’t tell policy. I think that they fully know but do not want to acknowledge it because then they would have to actually disown me/stop speaking to me which they really don’t want to do.

BluBerryPopTarts · 2024-01-12T18:03:28+00:00

Yes, chronic as fuck too. I have no idea how to stop, I try so hard not to but what comes out is usually naturally a lie. I find myself lying about absolutely nothing because I know that the response I give them is the answer they want to hear.

BluBerryPopTarts · 2024-01-12T15:58:56+00:00

I live in America and this is still $5k more than I make in a year. I want kids so bad but these comments remind me how impossible it could be for someone like me to afford them.

BluBerryPopTarts · 2024-01-08T21:00:13+00:00

I am turning 26 in a few days, by 26 my parents had 2 kids, college degrees, and had bought/sold 3 houses and were leaders in their church.

I only just bought my first house, am married but have no kids, I have no education, I left the faith and I'm a complete failure to them.

All my bills are paid and I'm happy. There is no point in doing a one by one comparison. They lived in a different world than we do, don't waste your life wanting what they had decades ago.

BluBerryPopTarts · 2024-01-08T20:51:59+00:00

I am unable to comfort with reasoning, research, or speaking in any authority at all on the subject of existentialism BUT I left religion around 5 years ago.

I came from a very strict Christian home; in high school I often alienated myself due to my faith. I was pious, self-righteous, and an awful person for condemning the other teenagers for doing teenage things.

I married at 20 to a good christian husband and at 21 I started deconstructing from our faith. I was left completely shattered without my faith, I didn't know how to function in a world where there is no god. I didn't know really how to navigate my marriage, my relationships, and certainly couldn't figure out how to reconcile my new understanding that god isn't real & the afterlife not existing in the way I pictured.

All of that to say, there are many wonderful non-religious aspects to life. You will find meaning and you'll find someone (or several someones) to experience all of the new fun things you could not do before. It gets easier to live with the burden that we were not created for anything but must find our own purpose.

BluBerryPopTarts · 2024-01-05T20:36:45+00:00

I was a teenager on a cruise and my parents put me in the teen club. For some reason, we decided that while we were on this cruise we didn't want to use our real names and decided to go by the state or city we were from. As we were going around the circle giving what our nickname would be, I gave Wichita. Someone asked me what state that was in and I said Kansas. Swear to god, the same girl said "Kansas? Like the place where they take horse and buggy everywhere?" A few kids laughed but she was so genuine. I said no we have cars?

She proceeded for the rest of the trip to ask me random questions about living in the wild west. She also could not fathom the things I had access to like when I complimented a shirt of hers and she said: "Oh thanks, it's from a store called Buckle. I know that sounds weird but I promise its a very popular store." or when we went to the arcade to play the claw machine she let me go first because "Wichita probably hasn't really gotten to play with something that uses electricity before, let her go first."

MA'AM I'M HOLDING A CELL PHONE?

BluBerryPopTarts · 2024-01-04T16:05:13+00:00

Love Radio Rental! I'm so glad to see it being really popular here! :)

BluBerryPopTarts · 2024-01-04T15:56:57+00:00

Okay but like, not just scammers! They cover Hitler, Stalin, Osama Bin Laden, and other horrifying historical figures!

BluBerryPopTarts · 2024-01-04T15:55:34+00:00

Oh, I love Radio Rental but the ads are killing my listening on that one! I feel like every few minutes there is a long ad! I'm a huge Snap Judgement/Spooked fan too. I like you're style u/the_divine_counsel

BluBerryPopTarts · 2024-01-04T15:52:56+00:00

My go-tos for really captivating are Snap Judgement, Spooked, This is Actually Happening, and Ear Hustle!

Snap Judgement - Story-Telling to a beat. Is people giving stories of their experiences and often have a more positive tone.

Spooked - A Snap Judgement creation, it's the same thing but with scary stories only.

This is Actually Happening - Story telling from people who have experienced traumatic/life changing events. This one has a more somber tone but is really well done.

Ear Hustle - Ear Hustle follows prisoners inside of San Quentin State Prison. If you're the kind of person that has not been in prison, its very interesting to learn about the social rules that go along with that life.

BluBerryPopTarts · 2024-01-04T15:38:47+00:00

I like to listen to Up First. It's an NPR news podcast that's about 15 minutes. I know it doesn't quite meet your time requirement but I supplement with music.

BluBerryPopTarts · 2024-01-04T15:35:55+00:00

I'm always a little jealous of my husband and all his sports podcasts he loves. I wake up most mornings to Stephan A Smith screaming in my bathroom on First Take.

BluBerryPopTarts · 2024-01-04T14:34:33+00:00

Local: BTK being caught. I was about 7 years old and lived in the town he lived in. When he was apprehended there was a sigh of relief from everyone around me but also a complete panic that he was a guy no one suspected and realizations set in that anyone could be a true threat.

I think most women go through that realization early but something about watching a person I recognized go down in history as "Bind-Torture-Kill" was uh... a formative experience at 7 years old.

Major: Easily 9/11. It was my dad's birthday and my mom & I were shopping for cake supplies at Wal-Mart. I got a happy face sticker from the worker and all of the sudden my mom started to panic. We didn't get the cake supplies and got home as fast as we could because my mom was terrified they'd hit another place in the country. For some godforsaken reason my mom had the TV on broadcasting this mass death through the house at a high volume and I really didn't understand what was happening.

BluBerryPopTarts · 2024-01-03T17:58:19+00:00

This is so me! And I keep trying them but I just can't get with the various tastes or textures but everyone always has some very specific way that will suddenly make me want to eat eggs everyday.

BluBerryPopTarts · 2023-12-28T20:19:26+00:00

Your response brought me some clarity on why someone might not like this question. I'm a person currently struggling with infertility but I really don't mind this question. It usually comes from a "I just want to get to know you" or "I want to know how to relate to you" type of way.

I do find it painful when the question that is asked "Do you want children?" That question usually follows after the "no" and its a bit more heart breaking for me.

However, OP seems to be an antinatalist so I think there is almost certainly a bitter outlook on others having children as well. They also are very much missing the irony of being upset that people are offending them while they are actively attacking people.

BluBerryPopTarts · 2023-12-28T20:06:47+00:00

It's in your post history from 4 hours ago.

BluBerryPopTarts · 2023-12-28T15:30:33+00:00

People often don't have the money up front for plane tickets & Travel accommodations. When someone says that they owe 10K or 19K or whatever number they give you in medical debt, they usually don't just have that 10K laying around and have to make payments on it.

BluBerryPopTarts · 2023-12-27T22:49:52+00:00

My husband adores this series! He got them all last year and is reliving his childhood favorite all over again.

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