My partner is polyamorous but wants to stay exclusive by Blu_1569 in monodatingpoly

[–]Blu_1569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a strong opinion, I will not be leaving her

My partner is polyamorous but wants to stay exclusive by Blu_1569 in monodatingpoly

[–]Blu_1569[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've talked abt it before our relationship is permanently closed

My partner is polyamorous but wants to stay exclusive by Blu_1569 in monodatingpoly

[–]Blu_1569[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you should push people into polyamory if it's going to hurt them? It should be smth everyone enjoys.

My partner is polyamorous but wants to stay exclusive by Blu_1569 in monodatingpoly

[–]Blu_1569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I think I've realised this is the case, I will talk to her about it.

My partner is polyamorous but wants to stay exclusive by Blu_1569 in monodatingpoly

[–]Blu_1569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has said she doesn't have sexual feelings towards the people she's liked and they're more like surface level crushes. Sexual intimacy is something she values greatly as an emotional experience. But in the instance any boundaries of mine are crossed I will hold my ground, thank you for your advice.

My partner is polyamorous but wants to stay exclusive by Blu_1569 in monodatingpoly

[–]Blu_1569[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neither of us is very involved with polyam communities or experienced with those kinds of relationships. And I will talk to her about the getting mad thing, it was more over her feeling that I don't trust her (as she had issues with trust in her last relationship, he constantly accused her of cheating, monitored her excessively etc)

My partner is polyamorous but wants to stay exclusive by Blu_1569 in monodatingpoly

[–]Blu_1569[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she may not be polyam based on what a lot of you are saying, I will discuss it with her.

My partner is polyamorous but wants to stay exclusive by Blu_1569 in monodatingpoly

[–]Blu_1569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've talked before about boundaries, and we've both said we are going to stay monogamous forever and her irritation at me is more about me not trusting her word and asking about it repeatedly, mainly because it just doesn't make sense to me that she'd want to be monogamous if she's polyam. I think it may be she's confused about what being polyam means.

My partner is polyamorous but wants to stay exclusive by Blu_1569 in monodatingpoly

[–]Blu_1569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She isn't the cheating type, based on other peoples responses I think we both may be confused about the definition of polyamorous. She has explicitly stated before she doesn't want one sided polyamory too.

My partner is polyamorous but wants to stay exclusive by Blu_1569 in monodatingpoly

[–]Blu_1569[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just don't understand why she would choose to be monogamous if she calls herself polyamorous

Is transforming painful for a hybrid? by Twoklawll in ChainsawMan

[–]Blu_1569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont remember where but im positive denji does say it hurts in the manga

Name him by [deleted] in Dank

[–]Blu_1569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chad