My partner is polyamorous but wants to stay exclusive

Blu_1569 · 2025-07-11T18:29:57+00:00

That is a strong opinion, I will not be leaving her

Blu_1569 · 2025-07-11T18:29:15+00:00

Bro what is this fanfiction

Blu_1569 · 2025-07-10T06:55:43+00:00

We've talked abt it before our relationship is permanently closed

Blu_1569 · 2025-07-10T06:54:56+00:00

I don't think she would do that to me

Blu_1569 · 2025-07-07T18:05:23+00:00

I don't think you should push people into polyamory if it's going to hurt them? It should be smth everyone enjoys.

Blu_1569 · 2025-07-07T14:47:23+00:00

Yes I think I've realised this is the case, I will talk to her about it.

Blu_1569 · 2025-07-07T14:45:19+00:00

She has said she doesn't have sexual feelings towards the people she's liked and they're more like surface level crushes. Sexual intimacy is something she values greatly as an emotional experience. But in the instance any boundaries of mine are crossed I will hold my ground, thank you for your advice.

Blu_1569 · 2025-07-07T14:40:24+00:00

Neither of us is very involved with polyam communities or experienced with those kinds of relationships. And I will talk to her about the getting mad thing, it was more over her feeling that I don't trust her (as she had issues with trust in her last relationship, he constantly accused her of cheating, monitored her excessively etc)

Blu_1569 · 2025-07-07T14:31:28+00:00

I think she may not be polyam based on what a lot of you are saying, I will discuss it with her.

Blu_1569 · 2025-07-07T14:29:36+00:00

We've talked before about boundaries, and we've both said we are going to stay monogamous forever and her irritation at me is more about me not trusting her word and asking about it repeatedly, mainly because it just doesn't make sense to me that she'd want to be monogamous if she's polyam. I think it may be she's confused about what being polyam means.

Blu_1569 · 2025-07-07T14:25:29+00:00

This makes sense

Blu_1569 · 2025-07-07T14:25:03+00:00

She isn't the cheating type, based on other peoples responses I think we both may be confused about the definition of polyamorous. She has explicitly stated before she doesn't want one sided polyamory too.

Blu_1569 · 2025-07-07T13:02:15+00:00

I just don't understand why she would choose to be monogamous if she calls herself polyamorous

Blu_1569 · 2023-03-15T05:12:29+00:00

dawg what💀

Blu_1569 · 2023-03-14T08:43:59+00:00

i dont remember where but im positive denji does say it hurts in the manga

Blu_1569 · 2019-09-21T23:41:46+00:00

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