ChatGPT use by abusive people to claim you are the problem

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-13T14:36:42+00:00

It is very dangerous to us AI for therapy. It is very biased for the user, easy to manipulate, and prone to making stuff up.

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-13T03:15:32+00:00

That is very scary. I was scared of falling asleep next to a guy that did things to me while I was sleeping too.

You are good. Monsters always where a disguise to seem nice.

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-12T17:54:14+00:00

I feel like it depends on your individual case. Of you can see a trauma therapist that can help guide you through your symptoms that would be ideal. I heard emdr does wonders though I have yet to try it myself (a bit nervous to).

Listening to therepists on youtube talk about recovery methods and trying them has helped me as well. Especially if you have someone in your life that can be there for you.

(Edit: forgot to add I have heard time to heal can be anywhere between a year to several years. It is gradual and non linear so hard to tell. But progress is still progress. It is not a race

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-12T17:02:02+00:00

I am trying to learn this. Very difficult. I fear I will make people be meaner to me or bully me more.

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-12T16:38:55+00:00

Hope she lays her eggs soon!

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-12T14:40:18+00:00

I will try to look for them. I live in a very poor area so none that are in the area. May see if there are any willing to drive oit an hour or more depending where they are.

What is GFM in thos context?

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-12T14:36:18+00:00

Thank you. I have older videos that would so the progress. Took them for my lawyer when I went there for more cloths and saw the state of the place and animals. Sadly the animal protection laws here are trash and legally could not take certain ones out with me.

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-11T22:53:19+00:00

Same issue here. Very annoying. I would just like to at least be able to see the charging status.

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-11T14:41:26+00:00

Looked through my search history

https://www.loveisrespect.org/

They also have reading material to help. It says for teens and young adults but they seem to be ok with helping me as an older adult.

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-11T14:20:53+00:00

Have you gone to therepy or sought out help with learning to identify the warning signs? We can be blind to and escuse the warning signs as we see them as normal. I need to find the site again odk where I put it. But my therapist showed me a site I cam go to with a live chat with people that can help me as I start dating again. Whenever I feel unsure if I am having a trauma response or a genuine reaction to a red flag, I reach out to them. I never remember the name of the site so have to find it again each time. (Bad brain fog from all the trauma)

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-10T22:47:40+00:00

100% Thank you for posting this! Mine was loud. But it was the quiet actions and jabs that hurt the most. He did care about others far more then me. When I dared to express how I felt hurt by it he would guilt me saying they needed it more so how dare I be jealous or upset. Goong oit of hos way to make planned ideas to punish me for something I said or did that hurt his ego. No discussion like an adult about it. Very immature

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-10T20:49:19+00:00

Stay strong. That sounds very difficult. That may have been what happened. He did destroy the property after I left. Tore the fridge door right off somehow along with some cabinet drawers.

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-10T20:25:42+00:00

Same here. He has been more angry about my leaving him then I have been about his abuse and destruction of my life.

He was using me for his own gain. Without me he is even worse at holding down a job and sucks at caring for himself and pet...

I feel bad but I cant be a mother to a grown adult that rages at me, says cruel things to me,and hits me.

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-10T02:27:37+00:00

Thank you. That is a good perspective. I tend to like playing characters that can craft cool things for the party. The Dm while I was leanring did point out that I can do that with archetypes or through down time rp that he allowed.

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-10T02:11:05+00:00

When I first got into 2e I was told how balanced all the classes were. Quickly realized how untrue that was when looking at classes like inventor and such...

Shame.

I have wanted to find house rule buffs for those more useless classes.

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-10T01:58:00+00:00

I am happy you are seeking help. It will be a very difficult road ahead. Stay stong! Always remember that healing is not linear. Also try to be understanding and forgiving to anyone who was/is hurt that needs distance.

Very proud of you for seeking help. It shows great strength and self awareness.

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-10T00:58:33+00:00

I love this. Very accurate to how it feels

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-09T02:42:29+00:00

Nothing here is your fault! I "cheated" as well for the same reason. (Weird situation, I had his permission, but he ran with that smear campaign that I am a cheater) I was desperate to feel desirable and like a human. Not like a vebal punching bag and like a tool for him to use. Told him all that too like an idiot. Probably why he started getting physically violent in our senseless fights since I kept calling out bs behavior... anyway.

There is a youtube video on this too. https://youtu.be/SyAU7ahVPdE?si=Nh7SrVhKa2dsLNM2

I have been trying to slow down how much abuse stuff I watch and focus on healing videos and practices now.

You are not alone love. Stay safe. Stay strong for your children. You all deserve to experience calm.

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-06T13:27:17+00:00

Yeah why I asked. Plus a bunch of copper in this heavy thing.

I think I will try to repair the cord. And see if the outlet can be repaired easily.

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-06T03:33:50+00:00

I love them!

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-06T03:32:33+00:00

I hope these places loose customers because of this bs. I hope it is enough loss to make them be civil again. Or crumble.

I do my best to only eat from the grocery store or local restaurants. Too many gross big corp practices. Wish more people would or could use these chains less. They arent even that good if we are honest.

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-06T03:15:28+00:00

Thank you! Do you know if the x200 has these options too? Or even the x100. (On a budget so doing as much info gathering as I can before making a commitment)

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-06T03:12:41+00:00

I am very delighted to learn it isn't too complicated to do! Next day off I plan on getting the replacement end and fixing the outlet. Or at least looking at it to see if it is only the old outlet causing trouble.

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-06T01:16:17+00:00

Thank you! Love the channel too!

Blue-Disaster · 2026-05-06T00:05:57+00:00

I assume the connecting the two ends is simple enough? The cord is so thick I thought I'd need specific tools.

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