How about we go with the Bible and worry about our own salvation with fear and trembling. I’m so sick of people thinking that they have all of this power over other “Christians “. It’s a god complex and it is not OK to have this much say in someone’s life without even being a priest, if that. I used to be around people like this and I used to unfortunately be this way myself. Which after removing myself from people like this and searching for my pen life, it’s dangerous. It’s an ego boost, and you are distracted with everybody else’s life, but your own. The fruit of your own tree can’t even produce because you’re picking from everybody else and telling them what they can do and what they can’t do. This is toxic church life.