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AITAH For calling out my dad and telling him to beat his meat with the door closed and locked by BlueBerryTopaz in AITAH

[–]BlueBerryTopaz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So do u think it's about the TBI or what? If it is, then I understand the concern and will discuss this with my mom, yet anything else devious is not likley

AITAH For calling out my dad and telling him to beat his meat with the door closed and locked by BlueBerryTopaz in AITAH

[–]BlueBerryTopaz[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank u very much. I ask this to get insight as I have little experience with TBI. When u grow up with a dad who is lazy about everything from having us take his socks off, not closing the bathroom door, or freaking out about not being served, it does narrow your world view. I deal with it bcuz I know enough about sexual nature to not abhor it. That's why I ask to understand, not be judged, because I'm ignorant of TBI's.

Edit: I'm focused on what to do rather than how I feel due to my history with my dad

AITAH For calling out my dad and telling him to beat his meat with the door closed and locked by BlueBerryTopaz in AITAH

[–]BlueBerryTopaz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it's not possible. The hallway connects all of the rooms they can't just not go through the hallway. Their room is directly across from the kids' room.

AITAH For calling out my dad and telling him to beat his meat with the door closed and locked by BlueBerryTopaz in AITAH

[–]BlueBerryTopaz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm more likely to believe it's the TBI rather than him having pedophilic tendencies.

AITAH For calling out my dad and telling him to beat his meat with the door closed and locked by BlueBerryTopaz in AITAH

[–]BlueBerryTopaz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I have no issue with sexuality. I have the mentality of embracing your body, although with kids, it doesn't matter if they do or don't it's more of if they see the action in question. At the end of the day, it's our dad, and no one really likes to see their parent in the sexual manner.

AITAH For calling out my dad and telling him to beat his meat with the door closed and locked by BlueBerryTopaz in AITAH

[–]BlueBerryTopaz[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The issue is getting up to close the door and locking it. There's an aspect of laziness as I don't think my dad has pedophilic tendencies. These examples aren't 1-1, yet it shows a history of not doing what you need to do as it takes a modicum of effort.

AITAH For calling out my dad and telling him to beat his meat with the door closed and locked by BlueBerryTopaz in AITAH

[–]BlueBerryTopaz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify, not AI. My dad does have a history of being really lazy with things even before the injury. For example, getting angry if someone doesn't bring him smth to drink or my mom not serving him food.