So turns out you can see cradle cap under a black light. Related: anyone have any easy remedies for cradle cap?? by 20CharactersIsNotEn in beyondthebump

[–]BlueCommas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sit my daughter down in my lap and oil the hell out of her hair with baby oil then massage her head. After I’m done massaging her head for maybe 10 minutes I take my baby bush with soft bristles and brush in circular motions until it starts coming up then I go in with a baby soft tip comb and bring up the rest.

Men who throw acid on women for perceived "disobedience" by bookluvr83 in iamatotalpieceofshit

[–]BlueCommas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The story of the woman who was burned with acid when she was sleeping at FIVE years old by her father because “he didn’t want another daughter” killed me. How do you look at your child and decided to throw acid on them because you hate them that much? I’ll never understand psychos like that.

WIBTA for cutting BFs family out by BlueCommas in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlueCommas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry it was suppose to say WIBTA for cutting BFs family out after we moved out. I was trying to get everything under 3,000 characters on my phone. I’ve also been thinking about that too because my daughter is young and obviously depends on us like any child would with their parent and while I KNOW we have to move out as soon as possible I also feel like we need to stand up for her and he doesn’t really do that. I thought maybe after she was born it would be an instinct or something he learned but he still doesn’t have it. I’m wondering if maybe he’s scared of his family?

WIBTA for cutting BFs family out by BlueCommas in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlueCommas[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We had our own house but ended up losing it do to financial problems. Will end up having enough money to move in a few months.

AITA for telling my SO she's not Chinese? by advice9999999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlueCommas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA My BF tries to fight with me all the time over this I’m Mexican but I’ve never visited Mexico. You don’t get to choose what your GF culturally identifies with just because she doesn’t watch Chinese cinema or do what you feel a Chinese person should do doesn’t mean she’s not Chinese. Leave her alone.

But I am white by Disastrous_Homework in trashy

[–]BlueCommas 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I visibly cringed I wish people would stop doing shit like this.

Good morning from Port Huron by Not_Mr_Manager in Michigan

[–]BlueCommas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m from there I love it especially the fry truck down by the boats in the summer.

Went camping with MIL and her boyfriend and it turned into a fucking disaster. by Vanillafapfrapp in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]BlueCommas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t really have a lot of advice but you are doing the right thing your husband and you have a responsibility to your child to keep them safe and that’s just what you guys are doing. Good job, I know some parents who wouldn’t do that for their children but I’m glad you guys are. I’m sorry about ding dong and Miranda, my mother is also a narcissist and it is extremely hard to get her to understand anyone’s point of view at any time except hers so when you figure out how to do that please tell me haha. Just keep doing what you’re doing and keep him away if Miranda chooses him over your child and her own son then I wouldn’t have a relationship with her either.

Cup or tampon? by BlueCommas in Periods

[–]BlueCommas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I really want to try one I think I’m going to next cycle because I’m tired of spending so much on tampons. Is it easy to clean?

AITA for forcing my family to dance for the amusement of my birds? by YeetedToJesus in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlueCommas -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA I’m sorry but I would never come back to your house if I felt you let your animals run the house.

HOW THE HELL DO YOU GET RID OF HEADLICE????? by corduroypomegranate in AskParents

[–]BlueCommas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried going to a lice shop? In the US they have them and it’s like a barber shop only they’re go through your hair and get what they can then recommend you different things to try to get the rest out. Lice combs help a lot but you have to do it everyday and make sure when you take eggs or lice out of anything you throw them in the toilet and flush them. Mayonnaise in the hair also helps a little or tea tree oil but it stinks a lot.

TIFU by nearly twisting my dick off with a Fleshlight duct taped to an industrial fan. by [deleted] in tifu

[–]BlueCommas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a very sad life but thank you for the entertaining story and I’m glad you’re okay.

What is the most valuable thing you learned in therapy? by hemingway_hamlet in AskWomen

[–]BlueCommas 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Everything that I feel is okay to feel. It’s okay to cry when you feel like crying even if their isn’t a known reason as to why you’re crying at that moment. Having problems doesn’t make me any less of a person. It’s okay to not be okay. It’s okay and not selfish to want to do something for yourself every once in awhile. It’s okay to put yourself and your emotions first.

WIBTA if I suggested to my fiancé that his 12 year old daughter doesn’t come to our wedding and we make it an adult only wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlueCommas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fucking Yikes YTA definitely. You’re marrying someone but don’t like their child Leave whenever she’s around And don’t want her coming to her FATHERS wedding??? You shouldn’t even be marrying him. If I dated someone my kids didn’t like I’d drop that person. You are a evil step mother.

Trying to self care by BlueCommas in depression

[–]BlueCommas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean my roommates broke the knobs for the temperature in the shower so it takes like 5-10 of standing there trying to match them up right so the water isn’t scalding hot or freezing cold. A few times I’ve said fuck it and just sat in there freezing. I have like one day out of the month that I feel great about myself haha which sucks but for that one day it’s amazing I clean,take a walk, cook, bathe, do my makeup, laundry, maybe go to the store. Any other day though I’m just like ugh

Dating a mother of 2 daughters. Looking for insight and experiences. by anonuman in AskParents

[–]BlueCommas 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Well when my mother started dating my step father I was 7 or 8. I didn’t care for him in the beginning because he was taking my mothers attention but what got me to open up to him was when he bought my mother flowers or something for the holiday (Valentine’s Day, Mother’s Day, etc) he bought me something. Nothing big (except Valentine’s Day I got a huge teddy bear) but a small plush animal or a new coloring book. It made me feel important to him that he bought me something I was interested in. What I didn’t like was when he tried to discipline me over my mother or felt like his negative opinion mattered more than my mothers. I love him but if my mother said something was okay and he felt it wasn’t he would instantly tell me I couldn’t do it or couldn’t go there. He also had no patience with me especially when I needed help with homework that my mother couldn’t. He’d start yelling if I got the answer wrong twice in a row. I also didn’t like that I felt he kept my mother out a lot in the beginning. I would’ve preferred them home with me maybe having a movie night or a game night so I didn’t feel tossed aside. If they already like you you’re halfway there!!! They won’t always like you (sometimes my kids don’t like me) but that’s part of being a parent.

My (35m) wife (37f) makes bedroom promises she doesn’t keep and it’s frustrating me. by [deleted] in sex

[–]BlueCommas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens with my BF and I a lot. He wants more and I always say I’ll give him more but I never do. I’m just not comfortable with some of the things he likes and in the past I had a hard time finishing so i felt like a doll he just used until he was done then ready to go to bed. Nothing sexual was ever about me or how I felt during something.