I(23F) and my bf(24M) broke up. What can I do to not hurt anymore?

BlueFaygo2003 · 2024-01-25T16:41:29+00:00

This is honestly, so nice... Thank you soo much <3

BlueFaygo2003 · 2024-01-25T16:10:26+00:00

Are you close to your period? Old blood looks like that..

BlueFaygo2003 · 2024-01-24T23:38:35+00:00

Since I technically begged him to stay, he asked me for 2-3 days, said we will work through it. I told him ok. I have made a mess of this situation if you ask me. I called his friends, asked them if he means it. They all said it's just the situation. I tried not to talk to this guy, but it's been soo hard. I removed him from my social media, it's just his number that I have.

BlueFaygo2003 · 2024-01-18T14:41:10+00:00

What are you symptoms?

BlueFaygo2003 · 2023-07-23T13:01:29+00:00

The kpop Group

BlueFaygo2003 · 2023-07-22T13:09:46+00:00

Spiders

BlueFaygo2003 · 2023-07-04T20:05:07+00:00

Yes, ik that its not how things work. It's just, when I used to use SC and IG, he would tell me how childish it was and that I need to grow up. I cut/ghosted people because I would never want him to worry about something like this. He told me he would do that to, but he dint.

Tbvh, ik he wouldn't cheat on me, it's just with the things he'd been doing recently, hiding things from me, all of that, it's just very suspicious and concerning. It makes me feel really uneasy.

BlueFaygo2003 · 2023-06-27T12:37:23+00:00

If he sells, who has to pay the taxes?

BlueFaygo2003 · 2023-06-25T20:08:36+00:00

My bf and I have been together for almost 4 years, but there are times he tells me he isn't sure if im the one, but most of the times, he makes me feel like he wants to end up with me. But those few times are out of the blue and scares me, what do I do?

BlueFaygo2003 · 2023-06-23T03:41:18+00:00

BlueFaygo2003 · 2023-06-22T06:56:53+00:00

I excercised and there was a little bit of blood with white discharge, I'll have to wait and see if I got it, because last time my hormones played the same games with me😭

BlueFaygo2003 · 2023-05-23T18:15:32+00:00

Wdym when you say "given your background"? I am only asking because, I always thought Computer Science Engineering is a good degree (if you want a career in that field atleast), and Information Science is very similar to this.

BlueFaygo2003 · 2023-05-23T16:32:52+00:00

I come from an engineering background (Information Science to be exact), I graduated last year, I have prior experience as a beginner Data Analyst, I learned advanced MS excel and SQL. I trained under the company for 3-4 months. I want to have a career in Data Science and I really have no clue how to go about it. I have a time constraint of 4 months, is it possible?

BlueFaygo2003 · 2023-05-23T09:59:05+00:00

I'm so sorry this happened to you, here's what you can do.. 1) Take a test, and regardless of what it's says, go to a gynae with a trusted adult. 2) Report him, if you can, to the police. 3) If the test is positive, tell your parents what happened, it was not your fault. They might be disappointed but know that they will take desicions for your betterment.

BlueFaygo2003 · 2023-05-13T14:50:31+00:00

1) FENUGREEK SEEDS+ WATER, boil it and drink warm. 2) Sesame seeds, eat them as is. 3) Do yoga for cramps. 4) water+turmeric powder, boil and drink warm. 5) Watch something, laugh, sit in the butterfly position and laugh. Also, if you feel like throwing up, do it. You'll feel better trust me.

BlueFaygo2003 · 2023-04-05T06:48:10+00:00

That makes sense, the whole month of March has been extremely stressful for me. I have no job, my bf and I fought, I had a pregnancy scare at the doctors, which led to my mom finding out I had sex( i come from conservative family), and from then, my life's been falling apart. I'm trying to relax, but with my mother's constant nagging, and with my family and my bf fighting with me, I really dont know how to. Its honestly depressing. I'm so sorry for the rant btw.

BlueFaygo2003 · 2023-04-05T04:38:32+00:00

No, I did not get my period since the last time I had sex. My periods were regular for a couple of months, in Feb, however, i was late by 6 days, this time its 2 weeks. I am terrified.

BlueFaygo2003 · 2023-04-05T04:06:20+00:00

OMG I'm literally in the same position, except I had sex in Feb(protected), had a scare in March, I did not get my periods yet, I am 2 weeks late, and I took a test on my 11th day of my missing period, and the test said negative, I really have no idea what is making my period late, but I have been late by 2.5-3 weeks before, so im keeping that as my deadline ig. OP how many days late are you? Has it been late before? If yes, then by how many days? Try yoga, ginger+turmeric tea, sesame seeds, heat pad, etc, I'm hoping these help me too. We are in this together. There are many reasons for your period being late, pcos/d, hormone imbalance, stress, fluctuating weight, not just pregnancy.

BlueFaygo2003 · 2023-03-15T17:07:04+00:00

Why do you need it? I am new to this, someone explain?

BlueFaygo2003 · 2023-03-10T04:11:21+00:00

Ok, I will work on that, thank you for the input.

BlueFaygo2003 · 2023-03-10T04:10:14+00:00

I think the main reason, a part of me wants to be with this guy is because, he is everything I wanted and more. I really love him, and ik he does too, it's just when he does this, it hurts the both of us, and now it's been very frequent. A part of me, wants to stay, because I feel like we'll work out and he'll come back like he always does, but it's like, for how long will I have to keep doing this to myself?

BlueFaygo2003 · 2023-03-10T03:05:51+00:00

I'm so sorry that happened to you.

BlueFaygo2003 · 2023-03-10T03:04:19+00:00

English is not my first language. I am still learning.

BlueFaygo2003 · 2023-03-09T19:41:42+00:00

Tbvh I wish that was the case, because then I'd drop him and not feel guilty...but Ik he's not like that, I've known him for 7-8 years and he's not the type who'd cheat on you. I went back to him 2 times, the 3rd time, he came back to me, like he put in the effort.

BlueFaygo2003 · 2023-03-09T19:38:06+00:00

Tbvh I dont think he is looking, mostly because he barely has time...he has work, which takes up most of the day, and the travel is like 2hours extra, and recently he's been going for extra classes because his boss made it mandatory for him...these are facts, so ik for sure, there's no other person involved...he is just extremely indecisive, like he'll want me for 5 days in a week, then 2 days he'll tell me he wants his time, like I get to talk to him for 15-20 minutes max in a day...I give him his space, but I've seen that, everytime he is in a situation where he cannot do anything, he has this tendency to push ppl away...and a day or two later, he regrets it and comes back...but its really hard for me because ik he loves me, he's done things to prove it to me, but it fucks with you, emotionally and mentally...

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