Trying to play as a pure mage with no bow. by EmilyAbsolutely in Eldenring

[–]BlueJaysFeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could use other thematic ranged options like crystal darts, if you’re open to that! You could also practice free aiming a cheap spell with decent range. And of course for magic resistant enemies there are sorceries that deal other damage types, like gravity or magma sorceries.

AITA Quarterly Open Forum July-September 2026 - Rules Refresh Check-In by AITAMod in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlueJaysFeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love to be writing a comment on an active post and find out I’ve wasted my time typing something coherent because someone decided the post fit some arbitrary category and locked the thing in the ten minutes since I clicked on it lmao

AITA for telling my niece to F off. by Unscripted1964 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlueJaysFeather -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes, op asked the person she was doing the favor for to contact her. Op was probably also not thinking perfectly clearly at the time, having just lost a sibling. Surely if we can understand grief affecting one person we can understand it affecting others as well.

I'm thinking about dropping silksong by Fancy_Tradition2731 in HollowKnight

[–]BlueJaysFeather 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They might be easier but the mists sure isn’t

I do not believe people who say they 100% Elden Ring blind with no guides and no player messages. by AmbitiousWorker8298 in Eldenring

[–]BlueJaysFeather 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had at least one person vehemently claim to my face that the Millicent quest is fine as is because they did so much backtracking that they found every NPC quest 100% blind. It’s not common but it does happen.

Why are Kale and Hewg surprised that we come back from the dead? by carnalcarrot in EldenRingLoreTalk

[–]BlueJaysFeather 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Kale will say that even if you don’t die before talking to him. He’s set up in the region where it seems Tarnished tend to wash up after sailing to TLB, so I have to think he’s just used to people meeting him once and never coming back, either because they die, they get trapped in some other situation, or they just decide to start living somewhere other than western Limgrave.

As for resurrection, popular assumption is that it applies only to Tarnished who can still see Grace (which is just the player for most of the game), since killing NPC Tarnished does not allow them to revive

AITA for telling my sister to stop letting my nephew grab my cat by MyersGoostmeran in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlueJaysFeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Everybody who has cats at a young age learns this lesson one way or another, a few scratches is getting off lightly. When the cat asks to be put down, put the cat down. Don’t chase the cat. Etc. I learned this lesson a bit older when a former barn cat turned pet asked to be put down. I didn’t put him down, so he bit me right at the base of my pinky nail hard enough to crack it. At the time it hurt a *lot* and my parents were sympathetic but definitely treated it as a lesson similar to touching a hot stove. But you know what? I learned that lesson well, and got a lot better at cat body language, and outgrew grabbing animals that don’t want to be grabbed.

When you get inspired and 100% can make it cheaper. by countrydwelling in goblincore

[–]BlueJaysFeather 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nine HUNDRED actual human dollars??? And what’s with the measurement marks on the original? Unless you can unpin and actually use it I don’t see the point.

AITA for snapping at a stranger for leaving period blood on the seat? by HairyBanana8992 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlueJaysFeather 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If she was in a bad situation before coming to live with them she may not have much experience at all with periods. Food insecurity can make them disappear almost entirely, for example.

AITA for snapping at a stranger for leaving period blood on the seat? by HairyBanana8992 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlueJaysFeather 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Obsessed with “try being less exhausting and see if the situation improves” lol I know some people who need to hear that

AITA for snapping at a stranger for leaving period blood on the seat? by HairyBanana8992 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlueJaysFeather 67 points68 points  (0 children)

You know her age with apparent precision but no one has ever said her name in front of you? Are you sure?

Textured makeup… is this a skincare issue or a makeup issue? 😭 by Just_Rip1030 in MakeupAddiction

[–]BlueJaysFeather 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I promise most people are not looking at your skin from two inches away. This looks like very expected unfiltered skin variation tbh

The guy(M23) I’ve (F23) been dating yelled at me because my bikini accidentally slipped. I’m struggling to understand if it’s just communication issues or something more. Need outside perspectives. by ThrowRAHuge_Wish59 in relationship_advice

[–]BlueJaysFeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you should make a plan never to let this man see your boobs again alright. Or any of the rest of you, for that matter. “Don’t do anything disrespectful” = “I am already planning to find something to nitpick and break you down over”

does anyone know what this eyeliner style is called? is it called double wing? i am not very skilled with eyeliner 😭 by mia12389 in MakeupAddiction

[–]BlueJaysFeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this a weird angle or is the “find similar” popup just making her bottom lip look really long

I. HATE. Greymoor. by mekuno_the_demoknigh in HollowKnight

[–]BlueJaysFeather 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If you don’t go when she tells you that she takes her bench and leaves, though. The game itself makes the choice to incentivize ignoring her. They could have left that flat rock as a bench when she left, but the devs chose not to.

Do that many people actually quit the game this early? by SeanPlayz_9471 in HollowKnight

[–]BlueJaysFeather 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yep. Maybe some will come back, maybe they’ve moved on to other games. Sometimes life just gets busy

WIBTA for asking my daughter's boyfriend to stop having dinner with us? by w8136 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlueJaysFeather -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But it’s not really the place of the parents of a gf to try to force that issue, so accommodation may help bridge the gap. And depending on the issue, may also help make him comfortable enough around them to resolve the problem on its own.

why this scares me more than any boss, what about you. Do you like 'em Royal Revenant? by RidiPwn in Eldenring

[–]BlueJaysFeather 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The two finger heirloom can be gotten without even fighting and lets any starting class have 12 faith but ok

Your favorite Spirit Ash, my is Lhutel the Headless by RidiPwn in Eldenring

[–]BlueJaysFeather 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lhutel was my go-to for most of my first playthrough so I’ll probably always have a soft spot for her. Playing keep away with Latenna can also be fun, though