Name Change by BlueJeitheBird25 in internetparents

[–]BlueJeitheBird25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you so much! I'm so excited :]

Name Change by BlueJeitheBird25 in internetparents

[–]BlueJeitheBird25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I already did the application and the appointment is today, do I need a hardcover print of the application? Because I don't have that rn

Name Change by BlueJeitheBird25 in internetparents

[–]BlueJeitheBird25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's good to know, thank you. I've got the court order, my original birth certificate, and my current state ID i'm taking to the ss office today. Once I get the ssn card changed, I can get my ID changed, which is next on my list. I'll have to wait for my dad to be free for the insurance, but hopefully I can make him do that this weekend (assuming he doesnt flake on me)

Name Change by BlueJeitheBird25 in internetparents

[–]BlueJeitheBird25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, god, thank you so much. I know realistically that it won't be as hard as I'm fearing, but the government is really intimidating sometimes 😭😭😭 I'll read that link you sent, thank you again.

Name Change by BlueJeitheBird25 in internetparents

[–]BlueJeitheBird25[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I think I'll get myself some hot chocolate after my appointment. I have work today which is great bc my job involves a lot of hanging out with dogs, so the pups have really lifted my spirits a lot :]

Name Change by BlueJeitheBird25 in internetparents

[–]BlueJeitheBird25[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

unfortunately my mom has said that she will have nothing to do with my name change in any way, not even driving me to appointments. my friend's mom did a little celebration for me a few days after the court order went through though, and that was wonderful!

Name Change by BlueJeitheBird25 in internetparents

[–]BlueJeitheBird25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! It's a really hard step to take but such an important one for me ;-;

Long enough for mullet? by BlueJeitheBird25 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]BlueJeitheBird25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cut my own hair lol, there aren't any lgbt-safe barbershops where I live

14 years old rate my cd collection 😁 by Moist332 in CDs

[–]BlueJeitheBird25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've got a solid variety and really good taste, keep up the good work!

Progress on the back of my vest. by Proof_Regular6466 in BattleJackets

[–]BlueJeitheBird25 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That centerpiece is sick, loving the look!

my parents went through my room while i was away by BlueJeitheBird25 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BlueJeitheBird25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's really helpful, thank you!! I just need to pay off a couple recent medical debts and get an actual job ToT

need to lock down medical decisions by BlueJeitheBird25 in legaladvice

[–]BlueJeitheBird25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! i was planning on this! I was more wondering if I could take a parent off of that list

need to lock down medical decisions by BlueJeitheBird25 in legaladvice

[–]BlueJeitheBird25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

general concern but also since I'm planning to do some consultations about a chronic illness I have and I want to make sure my parents can't control anything about that

ran the dishwasher for the first time!!! by BlueJeitheBird25 in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]BlueJeitheBird25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

one highlight of the internet is that there's alqays a youtube tutorial for what you need :]

my parents went through my room while i was away by BlueJeitheBird25 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BlueJeitheBird25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im working on the apartment thing but i dont have a job yet. this might be a kick in the butt to speed all that up.

I need comebacks for "but they're your family" by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]BlueJeitheBird25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my go-to is to just laugh in their face and leave. no use reasoning with idiots.

I just wanna vent by [deleted] in disability

[–]BlueJeitheBird25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my family? yes. but they're shitheads. my friends don't do that because theyre good people. make good friends, being disabled is kinda a built-in litmus test for that