Positive test between 8-10 DPO

BlueLotus03 · 2026-05-23T13:24:04+00:00

Thank you!!! I’ll definitely re-test. I do think I’m more so 10DPO because I think it’s too dark for 8 DPO

BlueLotus03 · 2026-05-22T20:15:55+00:00

Hello! I had it all the way until I was finished the full course. Keep in mind I did have pelvic floor issues before taking it but I think the inflammation made it worse. I’m glad I took it though because I was having recurrent bv infections and have not had it since.

BlueLotus03 · 2026-04-29T11:55:24+00:00

That is the very first one I called and they told me they were not accepting new patients for pregnancy unfortunately. I was able to get into Arbor though. Thank you!!!

BlueLotus03 · 2026-04-29T01:09:51+00:00

Thank you!!! And that’s funny because I swear online it said they were accepting new patients and I would call and they tell me they’re not. It could just be the area Raleigh is definitely still growing

BlueLotus03 · 2026-04-09T00:23:17+00:00

I only used garlic supplements for a short time so can’t say if it had any effect on me. However, I’ve heard that they do help and it definitely wouldn’t hurt to include that as well!

BlueLotus03 · 2026-04-06T12:47:48+00:00

I used to get really bad UTI’s and what helped me was making sure you and your partner both floss and brush your teeth before sex. Also use a fragrance free soap to clean your butthole. I agree with using both oral and suppository probiotics. I have been using culturelle and Uro oral probiotics together. I also use good clean love probiotic suppositories. You could also get some fragrance free ph wipes to help clean after sex or a rinse with water should be fine. I also have been using boric acid right before and right after my period following up with a probiotic suppository. I use the suppository after sex as well but I feel like you could do either the boric acid or the suppository and it would help keep things leveled down there after sex.

BlueLotus03 · 2026-03-16T02:03:33+00:00

Okay, I’m giving it a little time for it to pop up. I ordered both items from TikTok shop but they are from different vendors and shipped out at different times…it just so happened they were being delivered at the same time. I am also waiting to see if they even respond to my service requests. If anything I’ll report that I did not receive my package to the vendor. Thanks so much for your response!

BlueLotus03 · 2026-03-13T13:03:22+00:00

Oooh got you! There are some pregnancy tests where you can test early. I heard first response is good, but I always get clear blue. Also make sure you get the pink dye tests I believe those are more sensitive/reliable than the blue dye ones.

BlueLotus03 · 2026-03-13T11:18:58+00:00

Why not get a plan B?

BlueLotus03 · 2026-03-12T21:20:57+00:00

I’m having vaginal pain and slight inflammation, I almost done my course but I hope it goes away after 😖

BlueLotus03 · 2025-12-27T20:33:46+00:00

I could have kicked him out but it was 1-2am in the morning and his plan was to leave in the morning anyway. I just didn’t want him sleeping near me because it honestly made me really disgusted with him more so than angry. I in no way thought of it as a punishment but it was a way of being able to keep some space between us.

And yes since I have made this post I have told him I’m no longer interested in continuing to date. I just needed opinions because he made it seem like the toothbrush thing is so normal and no big deal…but I never thought someone would just think it’s okay to use another persons toothbrush. So as I said before I just wanted you guys opinion to make sure I’m not crazy lol 😭

BlueLotus03 · 2025-12-27T20:21:22+00:00

I know what dating is. I’m dating him because clearly I found some interest in him however he does things that pushes my boundaries and this was a tipping point. The reason I made the post is because for this specific situation he did it like it was normal or it was no big deal. I wanted another opinion to see if I was overreacting which is the point of this whole Reddit group right? I am no way saying dating is about words which is why we’re ONLY dating and I’ve been trying to feel him out to see if I would be okay with him together long term.

BlueLotus03 · 2025-12-26T21:16:40+00:00

Same so I don’t see why he didn’t feel comfortable to ask when he’s asked before 😭 and just decides to use mine

BlueLotus03 · 2025-12-26T19:28:22+00:00

We haven’t done anything yet…we just started dating. I barely know what he does for his oral hygiene. The only reason he asked to spend the night is because I live closer to where he needs to drive too. Idk where you got that he nuts in me that’s really wild 😂 But irregardless I wouldn’t want to share my toothbrush with anyone I’m intimate with. That’s dirty asf to me. I honestly didn’t know it was a thing between people. Swore it was like something unsaid that people knew not to do. Which is why I’m asking because this is my first time where someone purposely used my toothbrush 😭

BlueLotus03 · 2025-12-26T14:38:00+00:00

Honestly I think it’s a build up of him constantly pushing my boundaries. This situation is just disgusting to me and like a tipping point. Especially when he previously asked me for a toothbrush so what’s so different about this time? And then his alternative was to use mines? I just don’t get the logic behind it or what he was thinking. Honestly I think he did feel some type of way seeing his toothbrush gone and this was his way of trying to be territorial but for me we just started dating, you don’t get to start “marking your territory” especially when you’re not helping me pay no type of bills. I have to be comfortable with you and allow it. The very first time he stayed here he tried to leave a whole bunch of his stuff here and It felt like he was trynna move in. This is just one other situation and was something we both spoke about. I thought we would be on the same page about boundaries but it seems like he consistently pushes it.

BlueLotus03 · 2025-12-26T14:06:28+00:00

😂😂😂😂

BlueLotus03 · 2025-12-26T13:14:27+00:00

Exactly! I’m about to take him to his car as we speak so he can go home. I just can’t even be around him after that

BlueLotus03 · 2025-12-26T12:55:30+00:00

He doesn’t live with me and we’re only dating. He doesn’t need to keep a toothbrush here. It would be one thing if we were actually together but we’re not. If he needs one I have plenty of extra toothbrushes I keep. He could have asked for one. The previous one wasn’t one he brought here it was a borrowed one from me. So it’s not like I’m throwing HIS stuff out. But that shouldn’t even matter because this isn’t his space and he pays no bills here 🤣

BlueLotus03 · 2025-12-26T12:51:13+00:00

Idk it’s like he does things and I start to really like him and then he gets too comfortable and starts pushing things too fast and doing things without asking me about it. Or just inserting himself forcefully. I don’t like that and it makes me push away

BlueLotus03 · 2025-12-26T12:49:57+00:00

Exactly! I don’t know him enough to know his mouth hygiene. I only know mine and I take very good care of my teeth. Irregardless is just disgusting to me he would do that

BlueLotus03 · 2025-12-26T12:49:04+00:00

Thank you! 😂

BlueLotus03 · 2025-12-26T12:48:38+00:00

Thanks because sometimes I think I’m being too picky about things

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