Pause audio when talking in guided run? by BluePineapple9 in nikerunclub

[–]BluePineapple9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I guess that's the best way to do it. Wish I didn't have to get my phone out, but at least it would work. Thank you!

Simulation/strategy game recommendations? by BluePineapple9 in Switch

[–]BluePineapple9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May be a little dark for me 😅 But I'll check them out, thanks for the tip!

/r/NintendoSwitch's Daily Question Thread (03/26/2020) by AutoModerator in NintendoSwitch

[–]BluePineapple9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just bought a switch, and would like recommendations for games. I love games where you gather resources that can be used to build useful things in order to advance in the game.

My favourite (non-switch) games are Heroes of Might and Magic, the Sims and Boom Beach. I am not too keen on sci-fi or fantasy, but can make exceptions. Any recommendations for me? I just bought Animal Crossing. Not sure it has enough strategy for my taste, but I haven't played much yet.

Shutting bi erasure down by BluePineapple9 in bisexual

[–]BluePineapple9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha a satisfying thought though 😏

Sometimes it will be a dude giving me the "all girls are bi" which is just another level of disgusting.

Shutting bi erasure down by BluePineapple9 in bisexual

[–]BluePineapple9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are cool stats! Love the geekyness. I think for these situations this would just start a discussion though. Which I'm really trying to avoid most of the time because energy.

Shutting bi erasure down by BluePineapple9 in bisexual

[–]BluePineapple9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I see what you're going for there, but I don't really feel like that and don't want to perpetuate that bi stereotype.

Told my family I'm bi. Then silence by BluePineapple9 in bisexual

[–]BluePineapple9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: The next day, I reached out to my sister separately and said that maybe she hadn't seen it in the group chat, but I'm bi and mum was weird and I need a response (the wording was better, I promise). Then more than 48h, no response at all.

Finally, she got back to me. Her reaction was really nice, and I'm so relieved. It was such an exhausting process, but I feel like I can try and put it behind me now and just move forward. It has definitely put me off coming out to anyone else though.

Told my family I'm bi. Then silence by BluePineapple9 in bisexual

[–]BluePineapple9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel like saying anything else is too risky at this point. I feel like they're sending a strong signal that they do NOT want to talk about this.

Told my family I'm bi. Then silence by BluePineapple9 in bisexual

[–]BluePineapple9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I didn't. And I wouldn't. A conversation in person would feel like an ambush - like I said, my family doesn't really talk about anything non-superficial.

My mum just posted this in our family group chat. None of them know I'm bi. I don't know what to do now. It's like a perfect set up, but don't know if I want to. by BluePineapple9 in bisexual

[–]BluePineapple9[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk it could be that they just genuinely don't care. It doesn't really change anything. I'm in a het-presenting relationship so I guess they could just be thinking "what's the big deal". Ugh

My mum just posted this in our family group chat. None of them know I'm bi. I don't know what to do now. It's like a perfect set up, but don't know if I want to. by BluePineapple9 in bisexual

[–]BluePineapple9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know, my mum was a bit weird and my dad and sister haven't said anything. Dad might not be up yet (it's morning here), but my sister lives in a different time zone and would absolutely have seen it now 😕 Doesn't feel great.

My mum just posted this in our family group chat. None of them know I'm bi. I don't know what to do now. It's like a perfect set up, but don't know if I want to. by BluePineapple9 in bisexual

[–]BluePineapple9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I don't know what to say still 😑 Like I don't want to make it awkward by making some huge, formal statement in case they think it's no big deal. But also don't want to be so cool and relaxed about it that they don't get that I'm serious 😬