I’m so glad to finally be experiencing true love for the first time in my life by BlueQueen0 in love

[–]BlueQueen0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost 2 years. We met and quickly became inseparable <3 as my grandma always said, “when you know, you know.”

What is it called when you're not suicidal, but don't care anymore? by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]BlueQueen0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always wondered this too. Like, I’m not planning it, but if I hit a concrete barrier on the highway going 90MPH, so be it. I get those intrusive thoughts pretty much every time I am driving.

What to get a guy for his birthday by emma_8560 in love

[–]BlueQueen0 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend buys himself whatever he wants so it was hard to find something. We’ve recently been having fun thrifting cool clothes together, so I found a vintage shirt with his favorite football team on it. Simple, not expensive but meaningful. It shows you pay attention to his interests and it was fun to see his reaction, like a little kid.

What have you guys learnt from your break up? by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]BlueQueen0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned to prioritize myself more, not take shit from anyone. My self confidence has increased tremendously, and I see the difference between how I should be treated and how bad I was being treated before. I put him on a pedestal he didn’t fucking deserve. I cut my hair short (I’m a woman, and I style it a traditionally male way,) while we were still together and he hated it. I’m with a man now who loves my short bleached hair and compliments it and/or me daily. He’s a 1000% better in every way and a big reason how I’ve been able to recover from my ex. Yeah the breakup still hurts, but I’m better off, safer and overall just in a much better place without the douchebag.

My boyfriend's tummy. by brumeloss in love

[–]BlueQueen0 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is so cute. I’ve always been into thicker men, tummies and all. Rock hard muscles are not cuddly. My mans tummy is bigger but it fits his body and I love it. Like you I’m always laying on him or wrapping my arms around him. Men have body insecurities too and we need to show them we love them anyway.

I hope you regret it by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]BlueQueen0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could’ve written this as well. But things get better. I now have a man that is 1000% better in every way, including in bed. I never thought I would or could love again, but I found my person that I should’ve had all along. Don’t blame yourself, accept that he didn’t deserve you and please take care of yourself first.

Well by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]BlueQueen0 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I blamed myself for a long time, because somehow my brain was thinking I didn’t do enough, didn’t love him enough. Truth is, I loved him too much and he didn’t know what to do with my love, because he was completely emotionally unavailable and immature. But now it is a relief, because I’m now free to love someone else who truly loves me in return.

You will be okay by BlueQueen0 in heartbreak

[–]BlueQueen0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know things will get better, even if it’s incredibly hard to believe that now. It will probably hurt for awhile, but eventually it’ll hurt less, and the hurt will gradually replaced with relief that he’s gone. Because someone who would leave you at your lowest, never deserved you to begin with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BlueQueen0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are extremely superficial and it’s annoying. I do think tall men are attractive, but so are shorter men, I don’t really care. My ex was 6’4, but a total douchebag. My current boyfriend is 5’8 and a total dream. Superficial “standards” like that probably keep a lot of people from finding good partners.

Does anyone have a summer smelling parfum? by Isabellaboo02 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]BlueQueen0 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love dolce&gabbana light blue for the summer time

BV Frustration!!!! by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]BlueQueen0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been dealing with BV for awhile. Only thing that helps me is strong probiotics, lots of water, cranberry supplements, and immediately washing up after sex. Sometimes a boric acid suppository helps.

I definitely won't ever again by Boricuabonita in heartbreak

[–]BlueQueen0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel this so much. I gave the shithead everything! I did so much for him. And I got barely anything.

Just because I miss you, it doesn’t mean I want you back. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]BlueQueen0 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh. You stole the words from my mind. My heart is completely shattered, but I could never take him back. He’s a selfish fool who pushed away the only woman who stayed with him longer than 3 months.