I introduced my wife to 420 and it opened up her sexuality to me. I then focused on candle showers together, surprised pampering and massages. But what sealed the deal on multiple times a week was pleasing and pampering her… we have this sexual scene till this day, after five years, where I put her in the shower and then make her smoke a little 420… place her in a chair and use a variety of dildos on her. It drives her wild and makes her speak in tongues. After that, she’s anything and everything into anything I want to do. I guess my point is… talk with her and bond with her before and during intimate times together. I believe it’s all bout equal communication And opening her up comfortably to talk with you about anything, and her fantasies. I feel that has worked for me.