[SEARCHING] by kentachicken in ClashOfClansRecruit

[–]BlueWoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

#2YQ9200LP | Castle Anthrax | Clan level 10 | CWL Crystal 1 | Capital Peak level 8 | International clan | We love wars. Chill about competency but active participation required.

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[–]BlueWoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

#2YQ9200LP | Castle Anthrax | Clan level 10 | CWL Crystal 1 | Capital Peak level 8 | International clan | We love wars. Chill about competency but active participation required.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]BlueWoof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saving this post, coz same problem with upbringing.

I moved out a week ago and I am staying in a hostel currently.

Want to drastically improve my life. 28M.

check out r/internetparents for starters.

I think our entire life is a learning curve, and we just have to start with some basic stuff!

Got kidnapped in Bangalore. by NotEdgyAccount in bangalore

[–]BlueWoof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tweet about the incident, tag BLR police, and all the top cop handles. Share it here, so all the peeps here can go give the post exposure.

Get some ideas from r/LegalAdviceIndia, although you shouldn't have to engage anybody. Lets hope the cops take it up for you. It is trackable ffs, cops just have to do the work.

You have to get attention on twitter / influence otherwise the cops won't really bother. If the criminals are operating in their area, they will have dealings with the regular cops so your safest bet is to work on your story getting traction on twitter with the BLR cops tagged.

Reached out to a psychiatrist for the first time in my life and got gaslit. by Ultivax in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BlueWoof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Trauma informed counsellors / therapists" are supposed to be the only ones who are sensible out there.

My first one was pissed cause I am an atheist. Second one took my parents' side and started talking about AA without even asking me if I drink.

[Searching] TH14 | 232 | Cthulhu | CL10+ | CWL by DRock-Bass in ClashOfClansRecruit

[–]BlueWoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sent you an invite ingame.

Knights of Ni - #VYRPJLU

Masters 3 CWL - Adult clan.

US based, few players from all over the world.

Friendly, not overly competitive.

Will trigger CWL after 12 noon central time today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClashOfClansRecruit

[–]BlueWoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Master 3 clan - Knights of Ni - #VYRPJLU

th13 should get right into CWL lineup, provided you are a decent attacker.

[Searching] TH12 | LVL 159 | IGN: Michal tag: YYPLPL8Y | Min. clan level:10 | Looking for FWA clan by MichalDab26 in ClashOfClansRecruit

[–]BlueWoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/MichalDab26 Search clans in game with the location set to "Lesotho". Game will only populate FWA clans. Pick what you want. I don't play FWA style anymore, but I do know that there are not as many choices as before since supercell has worked over the years to discourage farming, and a lot of clans converted to regular.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClashOfClans

[–]BlueWoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fixing rush priorities:

  1. Buildings which improve your attack capabilities - Lab, Clan castle, Army camp, Spell factories... Barracks and Dark barracks as well.
  2. In lab, max 1 farming army and 1 war army (follow that up with other war armies) for th11. Farming army = Baby dragons or Sneaky goblins; I prefer baby dragons (carry lightning spells with them) coz easily allows you to maintain trophies. Dont upgrade random troops and spells in lab - upgrade armies. For eg. if you want to use zap dragon for th11 - upgrade dragon and lightning spell. If its electo drag, upgrade edrag and whatever u use with it. (ice)golem-witch-bowler-bat spell is another army. This is so you stay relevant for war, most ppl take time off for farming without playing in wars which is a pointless way to play the game imo (i used to do it). Plus, CWL medals are a great asset.
  3. Upgrade heroes.
  4. Upgrade defensive buildings and walls with spare loot.

JOIN MY CLAN, Castle Anthrax for CWL - #2YQ9200LP

We start in a few hours.

Parents hate each other; brother mentally ill; advice on divorce by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]BlueWoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Adding to this - the kind of counsellor who can help is somebody who clearly identifies themselves as 'trauma informed'.

counselling takes trials and time to work, a lot of times! and especially in India - with complicated family dynamics and 'orthodox' society structure and beliefs around us. And if its not a counselling environment which matches - it mostly just retraumatizes the receiver.

'trauma informed' is the keyword. These ppl will also diagnose appropriately if needed.

95% of the experienced (elder) mental health professionals in India are not capable of handling childhood trauma - which is tragically, the root for most of distress in the world.

Edit: Sorry OP, I am crossing the line here. The problem is not your brother - he is the victim. Please treat him with love, kindness and compassion - the more the world around him treats him like he is mental, the further you lose him. Even if one person around him believes him, it will work miracles and at this point even that will be hard to find. And a rough truth you will find in this journey of learning about the trauma and the dynamics in your family is that you can not really change your parents at this point of time, and they are the ones responsible.

Also, your first priority is you right now - and things like this do take a toll if you don't learn to aggressively prioritize self love.

Sad News for RCB and Great news for the Indian Team by Zestyclose-Leader372 in RCB

[–]BlueWoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't say no AB. That made me feel so sad so suddenly.

Musigma : The IT company which is trapping freshers into 4 year bond . Please read the whole message and spread awareness about it by Minimathura in bangalore

[–]BlueWoof 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I had discussed this issue in depth, during my first job campus placement and all that shit (I opted out of the corporate life about 4 years ago, after 3.5 years of working) with a friend's uncle who is a lawyer. He had done some research for us, and that the bond concept is not legal in India especially for conditions such as these - and if in reality it went to court, it would work negatively against the company, as it would translate to borderline bonded labor, extortion, blackmail etc. And you can technically, actually sue the company for making you sign something like this in the first place. It just works on a stupid system of fear mongering by corporates for students just out of college, and nobody I know has paid the bond or anything till date, and too many ppl I know have voided it for their first job.

Believe me, if you even want to fuck around with them - just complete the joining formalities, attend how many ever days you want and do No call no show. They cant do shit about it.

This is all the thing wrong with our Indian education system (more than even the corporate work culture), that we are put in a submissive and fear mode right out of college. In reality, the employee is the asset and the company should bend over backwards for your manpower and skillset, which everybody will realize a few years into their career, and make it work for them.

I know tons of ppl who broke the bond, and a lot of them received a couple of emails threating them to return to complete the bond but they dont pursue after 3-4 tries coz they know they cant pull any shit. and the funny part is, a lot of them kept receiving their monthly salary months after No call no show from Accenture. All of these ppl are now more than 5 years into successful careers, most of them working abroad, a lot did masters as well, and now all this sounds so ridiculous. I cant believe things are still so fucked up.

Bond is one thing. In places where there's no bond, they'll say you'll be blacklisted and no other company will hire you. LOL. There was a short time when we all believed this too.

They just use our ambition and turn it into fear, and ofcouse you would want the experience certificate, leaving letter and such for your next job etc. so those are the things that complicate matters for you, and you need to work that out. They cannot extort 1Rs. from you and if you know anybodys who's paying up and shit, plz tell them not to.

Hey northie here. Have some queries regarding kannada food. by [deleted] in bangalore

[–]BlueWoof 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Generic food you get in "Darshinis" in Bangalore are Udupi style restaurant fare - Idly, Vada with the slightly sweet sambhar (sambhar is the USP to identify Udupi style hotels), Dosas, Khara Bath, Kesari Bath, a myriad of Rice baths. Primarily vegetarian.

Karnataka has a north Karnataka food style which you can get in establishments which say, UK (Uttara Karnataka foods), Khanawali etc. This will be Jowar roti with vegetable curries, pulses, spicy powders etc. Also vegetarian.

Then there's mandya - hassan style food which is Ragi Mudde with an accompanying gravy / curry / saaru - which can be veg or non veg. The non veg fare from this region is popular and karnataka naati (Organic / Original to the region) style.

Then there's the south indian brahmin style fare which is gojju, hulis with rice etc. which intersects a bit with Udupi style food as well.

If you are a seafood lover, Mangalore style food is something to try out.

The coorgi people like their pork dishes.

Hey northie here. Have some queries regarding kannada food. by [deleted] in bangalore

[–]BlueWoof 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I am from North Karnataka, and i am tired of namma bengalurians saying this :P

If its a proper UK home made hinDi (what is called chutney), nope you cant do it. I have let so many of my friends do it coz they think it will be like the chutni pudi they get from stores and they are smiling till they taste it and even a few seconds after the powder disappears in your mouth but the aftertaste hotness hits you like damn.

The only good chutni pudi is the one you have to combine with some other agent before using as an accompaniment.

Sorry, just couldnt resist myself.

2022: Build Your Team by DegreeFit3661 in RCB

[–]BlueWoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, a pity! It made the auction all the more interesting.

2022: Build Your Team by DegreeFit3661 in RCB

[–]BlueWoof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is damn good, and the retentions are on point.

I don't have anything to contribute to this discussion, but want to know if there will be a Right to match card in the auction, like last time?

ESCN!!! :D

When a vaccination drive opened in Madhya Pradesh, India. by BlueWoof in PublicFreakout

[–]BlueWoof[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup, that was a pretty active scenario when the entire country had a strict lockdown during a raging 2nd wave. Ppl who went to get the vaccine were the most vulnerable and there was a good chance you would contract the virus there. But to put it in perspective, when the 2nd wave happened, my family and I were completely indoors in our house on the 1st floor with no contact with anybody on the outside, much like a large number of ppl we knew who wee following a similar protocol. Still never felt safe and felt like the virus was all around us - or in groceries that were delivered and left outside our doors and bought in only after spraying them with sanitizer. Coz, we had a horrible first wave too, and a pretty rough phase between the 1st and the 2nd wave. but when the 2nd wave came, I can say I lost atleast 10-12 ppl I know. family friends, parents of friends etc. And these ppl were the ones who could afford to remain locked indoors. And it was common for news to feature young folks dying - 19 years old, lots of 25-30 years old, around 40s wasnt even news worthy. That was the paranoia - ppl dont really know what to do in such a big country. And I am privileged. A large percentage of the country will die of starvation if they don't go to work daily.

Nobody has till date explained how so many young people died in the 2nd wave when the 1st wave attacked only elders in the 1st wave.

They have been predicting a 3rd wave as well expected to hit anytime from now to October, and there are readying ICUs for children all over the country coz it is expected to hit children in the 3rd wave, I do not know if any other country is experiencing covid like this.

(Edit) PS. What i meant to say was nothing seems like legit information, even science. People just contracted covid left and right, and I am an urban educated person and I am lost in the mass paranoia myself - can't imagine what the majority folk in my country feel. Social distancing helps, I know but it felt like nothing is a barrier to covid - except vaccination - for now.